| 4/30/2008 9:04:02 PM | advice needed... | |
lrbear
Hickory, NC
age: 23
| ok..so..this is weird...there's this girl that always catches my eye whenever i see her..she's a nursing major so she has no life outside school so its rare that i do see her....she was my freshman lab assistant 3 or so years ago...now i finally remember her daggone name..lol..so i noticed she's single..and i've always been a bit interested in her..sooooo...how do i approach her and let her know im interested?
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| 4/30/2008 9:06:33 PM | advice needed... | |
monique08
Arlington, TX
age: 18 online now!
| Me personally I like a guy to be blunt and not beat around the bush. Tell her how you feel and see were it goes from there...
Good luck..........
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| 4/30/2008 9:10:01 PM | advice needed... | |
classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 57
| Send her some flowers from a secret admirer. Then spring it on her later. Damn! The gals really love flowers. 
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| 4/30/2008 9:22:49 PM | advice needed... | |
dej88
Harrisburg, PA
age: 59
| You could ask her to get together to talk over old times and see where it goes from there.
[Edited 4/30/2008 9:23:07 PM]
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| 4/30/2008 9:30:35 PM | advice needed... | |
lrbear
Hickory, NC
age: 23
| ha, old times of how we cut that dead cat...yeah real romantic haha  yup i'm a pretty blunt person but i also tend to be shy...and yeah i agree..flowers are pretty damn good
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| 4/30/2008 9:34:42 PM | advice needed... | |
blueyedbobbie
Poultney, VT
age: 36
| flowers are good but i prefer someone to come right out and say that they are interested.
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| 4/30/2008 9:39:22 PM | advice needed... | |
barbara1
Reston, VA
age: 51
| go up to her, smile, say Hi and introduce yourself!
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| 4/30/2008 10:55:58 PM | advice needed... | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| Be honest with her and if she's not interested you are no worse off then you are wondering and who knows she might be intested in you JMO
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| 5/1/2008 12:27:46 AM | advice needed... | |
andypeden
Edmonton, AB
age: 29
| Personaly dude, flowers have always worked for me. Think back to when you were her lab partner, and try to remember maybe something funny that might have happened...right away you've broken the ice, compliment her of course. Tell her anything, but something you like about her. Ask her out for coffee, bring flowers a red rose a dozen if your rich doesn't matter she'll like that, flowers aren't something you usually see in a coffee shop...maybe laptops reading materials... It will make her feel special always smile alot make eye contact. If your smiling she's more likely to smile back and that's what your aiming for bro!
they say make a girl laugh and you'll open the key to her heart...a smile is a great first step, for anyone, even if your not a funny trival sort of guy.
Good luck Dude.
Ps. If your nervous and you want to keep it simple...buy her a rose give it to her when she would least expect it. Tell her you think she's cute! see if that works.(unexpected gifs at unexpected times are good.) Also dude if you end up going out with her, little tip for most guys....TRY TO REMEMBER THINGS she would expect you to forget, when you bring up a topic, or remember something she likes, she'll likely be surprised and show her just how much you like her and she'll know your really paying attention.
Andy Peden.
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| 5/1/2008 12:45:45 AM | advice needed... | |
fryyyy
North Kingstown, RI
age: 49
| i'd definatly suck it up.. and go talk to her, make sure you smile and look happy to see her.. (i'm sure you are.. but don't be so nervous you forget!) I dunno about gifts first time you "talk" to someone. I think what you should do is just be around her when you can.. build up some familiarity and trust.. .. a friendship of sorts.. before you worry about anything deeper. establish a safe comfort zone for both of you.
i defer to the experts what else to do.
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| 5/1/2008 1:03:34 AM | advice needed... | |
bastian07
Milton, FL
age: 33
| Depends on her personality. Some girls like to be noticed and show off and a big display of flowers in a coffee shop achieves that. But, what happens if she's a little shy or not real self confident. Flowers may embarrass her in a group of people. Giving someone flowers you don't know in front of strangers puts a lot of pressure on a lady and you may not get a geniune reaction. Then, what if she doesn't remember you and you did all this, in this day and age she may think psycho stalker. Keep it simple and casual at first. Approach her, tell her how you know her and see if she remembers you. Then, pay her the biggest compliment you can and that is something you remember her saying, doing, or wearing all those years ago. Now you've made an impression on her and the rest should take care of itself.
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| 5/1/2008 1:21:08 AM | advice needed... | |
caliboynbama
Birmingham, AL
age: 22
| I'll tell you straight up what you need to do. You gotta walk up to her with a smile and tell her how you feel. Don't get her any flowers or any kind of gift. You don't need to act like you're trying to buy her. Thats a horrible approach. Don't listen to these people who are telling you that. If she is smart and beautiful, some other dude is going to step up to the plate if you don't.
Its the bottom of the 9th inning with the bases loaded and score is 3-0. Are you going to get struck out looking or are you going to put the ball in the bleachers?
No guts no glory
Good luck
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| 5/1/2008 1:33:17 AM | advice needed... | |
andypeden
Edmonton, AB
age: 29
| just to add to the guy above me...I've never ever seen a woman get embarrassed over flowers... dude you already know her their was a period of time you spent together in that class you had. So I don't really think flowers are addament, but I don't think you'd be a stalker if you chose to. People in a coffee shop are ususally doing thier own thing but social pressure that might come from a "stadium or symphony"...is a litte extreme. I've seen ladies recieve flowers that had nothing to do with romance man... and they were just as excited.
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| 5/1/2008 1:38:28 AM | advice needed... | |
eyezbrn
Temecula, CA
age: 48
| Aw! You seem to be a sweet guy..Follow your heart..If it's telling you say hi or ask her out or whatever listen to that little voice within. If it's saying go for it, well go for it! ... A flower or some kind of gesture like that is a good thing..It's not trying to buy her ..Most women remember such things.. Most of all just be yourself .. Good Luck..
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| 5/1/2008 1:39:28 AM | advice needed... | |
andypeden
Edmonton, AB
age: 29
| No punt intend I do agree with cali...flowers aren't nesassary it's how you choose to do this...but buying her ah flowers can't hurt, again its all about the ninth A cali step up or strike out makes sense.
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