| 4/30/2008 9:39:56 PM | should you stay | |
lovebubble
Elkhart, IN
age: 18
| If you have a kid with a guy should you stay with him if you don't love him.
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| 4/30/2008 9:44:27 PM | should you stay | |
blueyedbobbie
Poultney, VT
age: 36
| no it is not best to stay with someone just because of the kids. you will only hurt the children in the end; because you will be miserable.
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| 4/30/2008 10:53:47 PM | should you stay | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54 online now!
| My mother did and on the day we buried my father I ask her why she stayed she said it was because of us kids. I ask her if she really hated us that much, 38 years everyone was miserable. A kid deserved better than that. JMO
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| 4/30/2008 10:56:30 PM | should you stay | |
kgearly1021
Valdosta, GA
age: 48
| I have always said--
Being pregnant is a piss poor excuse for getting married.
Having kids is a piss poor excuse for staying married.
My kids will ALL tell you they are glad we divorced.
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| 4/30/2008 11:03:24 PM | should you stay | |
klassykitten
Toccoa, GA
age: 50
| Kg you took the words right out of my mouth.....You are so right. I don't believe in shotgun weddings or the torture for the kids sake.
Being a victim of the stay for the kids syndrome and the answer is a big NO...
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| 4/30/2008 11:06:09 PM | should you stay | |
luvinlifetou
Biddeford, ME
age: 41
| Yeah...I stayed probably four years more than I should have...because I lost my dad young...and I did NOT want my kids to lose theirs.
I probably would have saved us all a lot of pain and suffering from knowing when to give up earlier.
But then again...hindsight is always 20/20 vision...its so much more clear when you look back.
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| 4/30/2008 11:19:05 PM | should you stay | |
slappywag
Bac Kan
Viet Nam
age: 88
| Not for that reason alone NO- never, ever.
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| 5/1/2008 1:01:23 AM | should you stay | |
fryyyy
North Kingstown, RI
age: 49
| shake my head..
why did you have a kid with a guy you don't love?
another father screwed out of a life with his kid?
I can only hope the guy doesn't love you either.
poor kid has to grow up without both their parents in their daily life.
the two greatest champions in life for that kid.. and you start them out with only one.
I dunno if it's best. pretty sad story to me.
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| 5/1/2008 1:42:11 AM | should you stay | |
waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
| If there is no love between the parents, then there is no love in the household. Children need to see the love between their parents. If they don't, then how are they going to know how to love when they grow up? JMO
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| 5/1/2008 3:03:45 AM | should you stay | |
nab5055
Medford, NJ
age: 43
| Don't stay just because you have a child together. You both need to be happy and you can both be good parents living apart.
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| 5/1/2008 3:09:52 AM | should you stay | |
ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 41 online now!
| Nope. But you should at least be cordial with your child's father and give him an opportunity to be a part of their lives. And make sure he takes responsibility by helping to support. Do it through legal channels.
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| 5/1/2008 3:21:55 AM | should you stay | |
rob1021
Summerfield, FL
age: 42
| no dont stay, but break it off nicely 
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| 5/1/2008 6:32:53 AM | should you stay | |
iamhere1970
Trenton, NJ
age: 38
| Does he want you to stay?
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| 5/1/2008 7:02:00 AM | should you stay | |
datdardood
Murray, KY
age: 46
| no love, you should not stay. just remember he is the daddy and ya gotta get along for a long time. leave for the kids sake and be nice for the kids sake. often much easier said then done.......
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| 5/1/2008 7:29:25 AM | should you stay | |
ptriley
Staten Island, NY
age: 47
| No.And it,s a long road if you decide to go.Remember the kids come first.Be civil and mature.
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