5/1/2008 12:28:10 PMan ex with a harmful lifestyle 

johndiehard
Fort Gibson, OK
age: 41


I was married to a girl for five years and she cheated on me twice that I know of before I told her to leave. Come to find out she was married to myself and two other men all at the same time. We do have a son togather but she has had fourth different relationships in the past year. Should I be ok with my son going and staying with her. My cell went on the fritz so I bought one from her and she had a picture of her and a man having sex when I brought it to her attention she didn't seem to care. I don't want my son exposed to that kind of lifestyle. She cheats and lies to men to get what she wants and I'm afraid that she is going to do it to the wrong man and he will end up doing something to her and if my son is there he might end up getting hurt or worse. What do you suggest? PS. she also admitted to me that the youngest child was possibly her first husband even though she claimed he is mine.

5/1/2008 12:40:40 PMan ex with a harmful lifestyle 

newlife4me2
Saylorsburg, PA
age: 43


1) DNA testing to find out for sure which of the children are or are not yours

2) If any are yours try to get custody with supervised visitation for her

3) If they aren't yours run as far and as fast as you can.................

4) Regardless of items 1 - 3 get yourself std tested

JMO

5/1/2008 12:51:42 PMan ex with a harmful lifestyle 

datdardood
Murray, KY
age: 46


just what she said......

5/11/2008 2:47:23 PMan ex with a harmful lifestyle 

doll121
Middleport, OH
age: 51


yes i have an ex with a harmful lifestyle. he drinks everyday.

5/11/2008 2:49:49 PMan ex with a harmful lifestyle 

pichick712
Brookhaven, PA
age: 50


Listen to newlife!!!!!

5/11/2008 3:00:45 PMan ex with a harmful lifestyle 

l2kids44
Lanesville, IN
age: 45


newlife said it all. Go with her suggestions. My ex also lives a harmful lifestyle but only to himself now.