the way women judge men b4 they even know us

5/1/2008 2:12:43 PM	the way women judge men b4 they even know us
army_infantry Griffin, GA age: 20	Ok this is really 4 men and women not just 1 ok why is it we assume every man and woman are the same as people we judge the person we are interested in and don't know any thing really about them it is usually because several people have hurt or used us but i just want to say give us the benefit of possibly being different we are all not the same but we all do bleed red and cry i hear and see so many people putting there opposite sex down but there are good men and women out there just like there are bad and most of the time we pass them up thinking they are bad so i only bring this to attention in hopes it will help other's understand please add your comments and thank you for reading this
5/1/2008 2:17:48 PM	the way women judge men b4 they even know us
bry11ca Buellton, CA age: 43 online now!	OK, Army, I'm an ex-Army Sgt. Here are my military anecdotes: Action speak louder than words Lead by Example Exercise excellence Never quit, never quit, never quit Honor above self It may take a while, but when you live these traits, you will respect yourself more, your career will accelerate, and good women will embrace you Ask me how I know? Carry on. Bry
5/1/2008 2:18:24 PM	the way women judge men b4 they even know us
silkpanties53 Baytown, TX age: 53	I'm a good person and your post is correct yep yep yep
5/1/2008 2:24:43 PM	the way women judge men b4 they even know us
waytogo51 Prairie Grove, AR age: 51	I agree with what Bry said.
5/1/2008 3:52:35 PM	the way women judge men b4 they even know us
hvacman278 Newberry, SC age: 29	Well I think if you are being treated this way then maybe you are looking in the same places you always have before. Change it up pick a different hobby to try. Hang out somewhere where you can find people who are different. Oh and remeber sometimes you get what you ask for and they turn out to be a person you never thought of. Later
5/1/2008 6:13:11 PM	the way women judge men b4 they even know us
tazzper23 Texarkana, TX age: 45	man you are so right some think every man want something from they beside friendshop i offtend get judge cause my words come out honest so most judge me i guess i sound like an ass hole but they said honesty . but mmy point is i get judge way befor they see the the careing loveing goodness within side me
5/6/2008 5:19:51 PM	the way women judge men b4 they even know us
happiness82 Atlanta, GA age: 25	I agree with the fact that u hav to change wht u do too change wht u get. Eventhou we dnt suppose to judge its so easy to do, i caught myself doing it but it also a way for me to weed out the bad
5/6/2008 5:25:03 PM	the way women judge men b4 they even know us
thebestman Alpharetta, GA age: 34
5/6/2008 5:25:55 PM	the way women judge men b4 they even know us
drumrman Belmont, MA age: 43 online now!	bestman y women do dat?
5/6/2008 5:29:37 PM	the way women judge men b4 they even know us
thebestman Alpharetta, GA age: 34	@ drummer that is an excellent question it is done because of some women's negative past experiences and stereotyping a guy based on certain characteristics - thus leading to date failures in many cases and relationship failures because many simply cannot let the past go.
5/6/2008 5:33:22 PM	the way women judge men b4 they even know us
drumrman Belmont, MA age: 43 online now!	thus, these women miss out on guys like u and i, who r good guys!
5/6/2008 8:19:01 PM	the way women judge men b4 they even know us
mblonerider Pinawa, MB age: 55	Hi all, well what can i say or add that has not been said in that regard, i've been a member here and its my first time ever on a dating site, for only about 2 weeks, just the other day a nice looking woman sent me a wink, so i winked back and she seemed interested in knowing more about me and asked to email her which i did and thought to myself, here is this pretty lady asking to email her i hope she won't ask me for a picture other then what i got in my profile, and sure enough it was the first thing she asked for, i told her that i was ugly looking cause i lost an eye, and asked her NOT to judge me by my looks but rather to see whats inside of me as a person and not an object, anyways i did send a pic and that was the last i heard of her, i kinda expected that cause what woman would want to make friends with a one eye'd UGLYly looking man, and give it time to see what a man i am at heart, sorry folks for posting this, i know it wont be the last woman to shy away once they know my unfortunet handycap, all the best to all of you nice people in here, Mblonerider
5/6/2008 8:29:42 PM	the way women judge men b4 they even know us
jamijoy Kenosha, WI age: 40	Army boy you are right that people shouldn't be judged on the basis of steriotypical sexual traits. That said you are clearly very sensitive and very young. Don't worry so much about being judged by anyone else. You determine your own worth through your actions and your attributes. Don't let anyone pigeon hole you into being "That Guy" just be yourself because eventually you will realize that the shame is in letting other people define you.
5/6/2008 11:43:22 PM	the way women judge men b4 they even know us
chopperbabe Overland Park, KS age: 47	I'm not bias ... I can be a b*tch to all
5/7/2008 7:29:26 AM	the way women judge men b4 they even know us
luvinlifetou Biddeford, ME age: 41	LMAO @ Chopper... I have never ONCE seen you be a b*tch.. Liar liar pants on fire...LOL I dont judge anyone before I know them. I do judge someone who consistently posts negativity and nastiness....once or twice...hey could be a bad day. I have them, so who am I to judge. But time after time after time...well...then Im probably just gonna stay away from that person. other than that... I just wait and see! Not all of us judge you guys by your profiles, (not everybody is a good writer!), or by your first few posts, (everybody is nervous in a new place)... JMO Luvin