| 5/4/2008 8:02:30 AM | Love...just a feeling??? | |
ccubedccc
Denver, CO
age: 53
| I keep hearing about love as a feeling, but I see it as a feeling combined with action.
Saying the words can be easy for many, but following the word with real positive caring, sharing and compassionate (and passionate!!!) action to me is even more important than just the feeling or the words.
Any other throughts on this??
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| 5/4/2008 8:23:14 AM | Love...just a feeling??? | |
luvzhugz12
Richardson, TX
age: 42
| There are times in any relationship where the love may not be felt and during those times it takes action and commitment to get through those times.
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| 5/4/2008 8:29:40 AM | Love...just a feeling??? | |
jd39
Alton, IL
age: 53
| To me,LOVE,is a verb rather than a feeling.The feeling of love comes from the actions.Love is something a person decides to do.Sacrifice,listening,empathizing.appreciating,affirmation all together =LOVE.Love is a decision and if you decide to love another,all the rest will come naturally.
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| 5/4/2008 9:01:42 AM | Love...just a feeling??? | |
brujacakes
Albrightsville, PA
age: 36 online now!
| Love is def. a verb for me also.
I am also a very "feeling" oriented individual who will feel love quite easily as a result of an action.
Don't tell me, show it so I can feel it deep within my soul.
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| 5/4/2008 9:08:49 AM | Love...just a feeling??? | |
sea_dragon
Crystal River, FL
age: 31
| Love is a feeling and more. It is an emotional state of mind that is projected into our actions. It is projected in the sense that our actions no longer involve just ourselves. It is wanting to do things for the other individual without any self-serving interests. It is a feeling of happiness whenever you think of the other person. To love is to be willing to endure the ups and downs and tribulations in life. To come out the other side with a stronger, deeper bond than prior.
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| 5/4/2008 9:14:41 AM | Love...just a feeling??? | |
flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46
| I agree and would love to show the person an expression of the feelings I have for them but I'm a little bit far away at the moment..............
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| 5/4/2008 9:16:00 AM | Love...just a feeling??? | |
ldt
Houma, LA
age: 41
| bryan...
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| 5/4/2008 9:21:48 AM | Love...just a feeling??? | |
sea_dragon
Crystal River, FL
age: 31
| Lana....
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| 5/4/2008 10:02:52 AM | Love...just a feeling??? | |
ccubedccc
Denver, CO
age: 53
| Glad to hear that I am not alone with thinking that love and action go together. 
While I was gone this morning, I met a friend who is constantly looking for "the" relationship. However, the attitude they always seem to convey is "what can I get out of this relationship?" And the conversation always comes down to, "Is he tall? Does he make lots of money? And will he take care of me?"
Maybe I'm wierd (well, okay, my friends will attest to that), but now that I am testing the waters again, I am going into this deal with the idea of, "What can I bring to the relationship?", because I believe that if I bring into the relationship is what determines what I will get out of the relationship (or friendship). 
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| 5/4/2008 10:17:20 AM | Love...just a feeling??? | |
winesong
Bend, OR
age: 60
| love is the best feeling..when you truly are in love...
there is nothing else like it. Your heart really does feel like
it is going to explode out of your chest...
JOY...total joy to be with your loved one...even the rain feels good or different!
passionate about life, love and all that goes with it.
I yearn to be in love again...for the well being..
even our eyes look at a person with softness...(honestly)
Look deeply in your mind and see the person you were so passionate about...
finding that again is like looking for a job with a lot of other applicants...
all of us are seeking the same level of happiness...
Wine
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| 5/4/2008 10:26:50 AM | Love...just a feeling??? | |
ccubedccc
Denver, CO
age: 53
| Wine, I do remember the feeling...the good ache, the depth of emotion. I had it for a long time, and then it was gone. I believe that by my actions, it may happen again if it is meant to happen. 
But even if it doesn't happen again, I will still take the action to prepare for the possibility.
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| 5/4/2008 10:28:35 AM | Love...just a feeling??? | |
countrygrl49
Mankato, MN
age: 48
| Oh my JD I love you 
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| 5/4/2008 11:58:26 AM | Love...just a feeling??? | |
jd39
Alton, IL
age: 53
|  countrygrl49 
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