| 5/4/2008 2:23:58 PM | First date... dutch or guy pays? This came up on a date | |
raven74
Kalamazoo, MI
age: 52
| I had this happen today on a date... and in the past it happened. Except in the past the guy left me my bill. If I couldn't afford to pay for both... I would either wait till I could or talk about dutch treat... and then at what point is it a date vs a meeting?
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| 5/4/2008 2:34:53 PM | First date... dutch or guy pays? This came up on a date | |
thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
| Typically the guys pay for the first date. But the way some of the dynamics have changed over the years of dating, some men and some women prefer dutch for a variety of different reasons for each gender
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| 5/4/2008 2:39:59 PM | First date... dutch or guy pays? This came up on a date | |
spitfire70
Leesburg, IN
age: 37
| I am broke so he has to pay...ha ha..but foreal I think who ever ask out first should be the one who pays,(usually the guy is always first to ask the woman out on a date).And when and If it gets further into relationship,and the woman can pay for all, she should..show him back some love .
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| 5/4/2008 2:49:57 PM | First date... dutch or guy pays? This came up on a date | |
justlooking630
West New York, NJ
age: 48
| Darling the guy always pays !
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| 5/4/2008 2:53:30 PM | First date... dutch or guy pays? This came up on a date | |
nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 50
| Dutch or the guy? WTF?
What happened to da broad footin' da bill?
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| 5/4/2008 2:55:31 PM | First date... dutch or guy pays? This came up on a date | |
silkpanties53
Baytown, TX
age: 53
| hey pay's or he don't get to play
no exception to that rule 
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| 5/4/2008 2:58:44 PM | First date... dutch or guy pays? This came up on a date | |
eroticartist
White Plains, NY
age: 49
| I love it ...I ALWAYS pay even when I drive 3 hours, rent a motel room, bring gifts then go home when the wallet's empty
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| 5/4/2008 2:59:16 PM | First date... dutch or guy pays? This came up on a date | |
bonsaijoe
Vero Beach, FL
age: 41
| but if he pays does he have to play silk
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| 5/4/2008 2:59:54 PM | First date... dutch or guy pays? This came up on a date | |
tlc4u46
Santa Barbara, CA
age: 47
| I at least always offer to give him money. If he takes it he's a cheapskate!! 
[Edited 5/4/2008 3:00:16 PM]
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| 5/4/2008 3:11:30 PM | First date... dutch or guy pays? This came up on a date | |
tfortexas
Big Sandy, TX
age: 56 online now!
| The man does its in the dating handbook for dummies on page 84 under [so you got lucky ]
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| 5/4/2008 3:15:32 PM | First date... dutch or guy pays? This came up on a date | |
justlooking630
West New York, NJ
age: 48
| Good to see some very nice gentlemen on here who pay thank you for treating ladies like ladies ... 
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| 5/4/2008 3:18:39 PM | First date... dutch or guy pays? This came up on a date | |
eroticartist
White Plains, NY
age: 49
| and do any of you do anything in return? I am NOT talking about sex but why does everyone take and NEVER give
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| 5/4/2008 3:20:23 PM | First date... dutch or guy pays? This came up on a date | |
metu
Mansfield, TX
age: 46 online now!
| That's not always necessarily true, Erotic.......some of us also offer to cook a great meal for the 2nd date!
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| 5/4/2008 3:22:19 PM | First date... dutch or guy pays? This came up on a date | |
mitchell1221
Chattanooga, TN
age: 45
| I always pay. don't want her thinking I'm a broke jerk.
Just being a jerk is enough. 
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| 5/4/2008 3:23:03 PM | First date... dutch or guy pays? This came up on a date | |
bryneyes174
Loves Park, IL
age: 34
| The man should always pay. I would offer, but if they accept, than that will be our last date.
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