| 5/6/2008 9:02:23 PM | What was I thinking? | |
eightinchbend
Gadsden, AL
age: 43 online now!
| You're thinking like a weak man. Snap out of it.
His heart is not into the "relationship" he has with this other woman. He has been too focused on you because he wants you to be on the ground begging him to take you back. He wants to emotionally strip you down to the bone because he knows you are too weak to hide what you feel. Be careful because this is NOT a green light for you to get your hopes up. You have tipped your hat regarding your feelings for him; he knows now, so you need to get out from underneath his thumb. Ease off and see how much he pursues you, but temper your responses.
Your curiosity will get the better of you - - don't ask any questions about this other woman. Move away from conversations about her should he mention anything. The last thing you need to be doing is comparing yourself against her. He has to figure out what he wants. Don't help him in any respect regarding this. You need to flip the tables and make him do all the work.
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| 5/6/2008 9:22:19 PM | What was I thinking? | |
suprasman01
Dayton, OH
age: 36
| You're thinking like a weak man. Snap out of it.
His heart is not into the "relationship" he has with this other woman. He has been too focused on you because he wants you to be on the ground begging him to take you back. He wants to emotionally strip you down to the bone because he knows you are too weak to hide what you feel. Be careful because this is NOT a green light for you to get your hopes up. You have tipped your hat regarding your feelings for him; he knows now, so you need to get out from underneath his thumb. Ease off and see how much he pursues you, but temper your responses.
Your curiosity will get the better of you - - don't ask any questions about this other woman. Move away from conversations about her should he mention anything. The last thing you need to be doing is comparing yourself against her. He has to figure out what he wants. Don't help him in any respect regarding this. You need to flip the tables and make him do all the work.
That is a smart man^
Joel
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| 5/6/2008 9:28:39 PM | What was I thinking? | |
bry11ca
Buellton, CA
age: 43 online now!
| I think that you know what the answer is . . . I think that you know what you are thinking . . . and it is not good. I think you know what he is thinking . . . and it is bad.
You can't go back.
Bry 
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| 5/6/2008 9:33:54 PM | What was I thinking? | |
ladyvirtue52
Redding, CA
age: 52
| It sounds to me like he wants the best of both worlds. If you follow thru with this, I'm afraid that you will be opening the door for more disappointment and pain. I say, close the door and move on...He's your ex for a reason, dont forget why...good luck hun..
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| 5/7/2008 8:08:07 AM | What was I thinking? | |
livinfreely
Sacramento, CA
age: 45
| You have given me the most logical answer of everyone, you made me stop and think like a man would. Thank you so much.
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| 5/7/2008 8:26:35 AM | What was I thinking? | |
vitruviangal
Madison, WI
age: 47
| guys and gals.......here is a question.....if you are unhappy in the relationship you are in and want to leave it, isn't it easier to think of leaving if you have someone out there that wants you? You know you won't be alone?
So, now he knows you care for him, and whether or not he leaves her, he will be leaving her for himself because he wants out and not FOR you. That doesnt mean he won't end up with you........but I don't want to be somebody that made it easier for someone to end a relationship because they had me to fall back on.
just me thinkin
V.
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| 5/7/2008 8:43:26 AM | What was I thinking? | |
ptriley
Staten Island, NY
age: 47 online now!
| As long as he knows you're there he's not coming back
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| 5/7/2008 8:52:18 AM | What was I thinking? | |
juneahbug
El Reno, OK
age: 41
| To betray our "sisters" is just wrong! 
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| 5/7/2008 8:59:26 AM | What was I thinking? | |
57rickie
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57
| Ah Yeah, and hes the one that was looking for you. Why is he an EX? What are you thinking? Just for an instant, stop and think about the woman hes with now Would you want to be in her shoes
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| 5/7/2008 9:02:33 AM | What was I thinking? | |
juneahbug
El Reno, OK
age: 41
| Everyone wants to be "wanted, needed and loved" but how can you possibly say you can commit when you don't wish to leave an unhappy relationship virtu? How do you know urself and the changes that time has made in you if your never alone? I'm not trying to be harsh but, to say "I'm just gonna jump from the pan to the fire" is kinda selfish.
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