| 5/6/2008 12:03:32 AM | New here, looking for response | |
happynessadream
San Diego, CA
age: 28
| Hello everybody, i'm new to this site and i have a question, do women/men contact you based on your looks or by the way you are, ie, brains, heart, personality, values..??? Thank you for your response, much appreciated.
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| 5/6/2008 12:06:43 AM | New here, looking for response | |
dej88
Harrisburg, PA
age: 59
| That depends on who contacts you. Everyone is different, so there is no real answer. The best way to get to know people here is to post in the forums and pay attention to what and how people post. You will learn more in the forums than by reading a profile.
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| 5/6/2008 12:26:28 AM | New here, looking for response | |
cosmoisin
Santa Rita, GU
age: 66
|  I am not so New Here and I have RESPONDED TO YOUR Quirry...
 See Ya...
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| 5/6/2008 1:00:26 AM | New here, looking for response | |
justmemaree
Queensland
Australia
age: 45
| I thinks abit of both and/or all of the above..........every individual is different!!!
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| 5/6/2008 1:32:33 AM | New here, looking for response | |
flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46
| Personally I'm not really in a position to date anyone over there  however I still chat to guys in the States and if I see someone I talk to regularly talking dirty or flirting way too much I tend to lose interest in them. It tells me that they are inclined that way even though they will deny it. Hope that helps...........
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| 5/6/2008 3:32:02 AM | New here, looking for response | |
nab5055
Medford, NJ
age: 43
| I really don't search around and just talk to peolpe that wink or send me an email. You don't have an issue in the looks department. Just remember to be respectful. Anyone can go back and read your posts later.
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| 5/6/2008 5:04:43 AM | New here, looking for response | |
luvwild
Brooklyn, NY
age: 41 online now!
| Some will first check you out because of your looks. Then they will check out who you really are. Some people may go to your profile. Others will check you out by your posts.
Different people will check you out differently and see you differently.
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| 5/6/2008 12:04:33 PM | New here, looking for response | |
dove53
Tellico Plains, TN
age: 53
| Hello everybody, i'm new to this site and i have a question, do women/men contact you based on your looks or by the way you are, ie, brains, heart, personality, values..??? Thank you for your response, much appreciated.
Hi happynessadream,
Yes,they will go by your looks most of the time sweetie pie. But if you are lucky some won't care what you look like. They go by what's inside your heart. If you are new at this PLEASE be careful because there are a LOT of ladies that are cons. Just have to trust your own instincts like someone said before in this forum.
Good Luck and God bless your searches,
dove53
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| 5/6/2008 12:09:46 PM | New here, looking for response | |
oneadvntursgrl
Boca Raton, FL
age: 47
| Hey there...by your looks, and after reading your profile, or reading the posts/responses you put in the forums....you will intrigue/cause interest and make friends with those of us that are into the forums.
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| 5/6/2008 12:17:29 PM | New here, looking for response | |
hunnybunnylove
Cary, NC
age: 41
| Hi SD-
You are a handsome guy and you can spell and express yourself. If you have a full time job, aren't cheating or lying about something and don't do meth, well, hey, what isn't there to love?
Don't worry - just be patient but in the meantime, flirt away 
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| 5/6/2008 12:19:38 PM | New here, looking for response | |
boushy
Platteville, CO
age: 42
| I look at the whole profile..I don't like a man shorter than I am so I look at the height. I look at your likes and dislikes..if they are somewhat close to mine I will contact you..But baby all women are different..so you just have to judge each separately..
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| 5/6/2008 12:20:14 PM | New here, looking for response | |
hunter95
Norway, MI
age: 31
| im tall!!! 6ft4
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| 5/6/2008 1:05:35 PM | New here, looking for response | |
wandering_soul
Kelowna, BC
age: 53
| Hi happynessadream... welcome to DH... the Super Store of Potential Partners...
As others have said -- there is a full spectrum of all things going on here.
I know you were just asking a general question about people's preferences / tendencies -- with the way the Law of Attraction works, people will attract the same sort of energy they are putting out there. People don't realize the energy behind their profiles. Or maybe they do...
It's sort of a hobby of mine to study people and energy, and how things all play out...
Just for the fun of it, here's the energy I get from your profile (hope this is ok...)
I'd be guessing that you want people to focus on your looks and the pride you take in your well-maintained body (mostly because of the shirtless body shots you included). Your profile/pictures overall say that you are a very physical, sensual person. There is nothing wrong with that.
But... You are a little more complex than that. You have the added bonus of having an intellectual and sensitive side (which is downplayed in your profile). These seem to be aspects of yourself that are not as important to you -- at least not at this time of your life. So chances are, you won't find people with those attributes. You will most likely attract more superficial types of people, which down the road, might not fulfill your other needs.
I could be totally wrong... LOL
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It's really wild how people review profiles. I complained once to a counselor friend that I was frustrated that I kept getting emails that were very sexual in nature...
I was shocked when they told me that was happening because I put "I am passionate" in my profile, that men would just see the word "passionate" and not see anything else I wrote! I didn't want someone to want me just for my passionate side -- I wanted them to see my intellectual and spiritual side! So I had to take that out...
Just my thoughts...
Ev 
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| 5/6/2008 1:09:26 PM | New here, looking for response | |
hunnybunnylove
Cary, NC
age: 41
| I really like your observations Ev! Very intuitive and on target.
You don't have a brother who lives in NC, by any chance do you?
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| 5/6/2008 2:44:15 PM | New here, looking for response | |
wandering_soul
Kelowna, BC
age: 53
| Thanks hunnybunnylove -- All my friends want me to hook them up with people because of my ability to read people! LOL. I have hooked up a couple successfully!
No, no brother in SC, but I have one in Seattle! LOL... he's going to be 48. He sort of looks like a younger version of that Gil Grissom character on CSI... LOL... I am sure he would relocate for the right girl!
[Edited 5/6/2008 2:47:11 PM]
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