| 5/6/2008 6:14:34 PM | how to regain self-esteem? | |
annigma
Novi, MI
age: 32
| A guy I dated dumped me and now my self- esteem has been low. Anyone have any advise on how to regain it?
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| 5/6/2008 6:24:39 PM | how to regain self-esteem? | |
thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
| 1. Love yourself first
2. Know who you are
3. Build off of your strengths - everyone has strengths
4. Don't worry about what other people think of you be confident in yourself
5. Improve on your weaknesses whatever they may be
This should jump start you
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| 5/6/2008 6:48:30 PM | how to regain self-esteem? | |
chinatown_girl
Oyster Bay, NY
age: 19
| tell urself he had to get out of ur way because the best is yet to come!
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| 5/6/2008 6:49:53 PM | how to regain self-esteem? | |
onelife2live
Janesville, WI
age: 43
| Their Loss..no doubt about it...
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| 5/6/2008 6:50:56 PM | how to regain self-esteem? | |
belladreams
Binghamton, NY
age: 38
| run him over with your car.
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| 5/6/2008 6:58:05 PM | how to regain self-esteem? | |
tfortexas
Big Sandy, TX
age: 56
| Order a male stripper take 6 to 10 shots of Jack Daniels call the loser date up and tell him nice to have known you jerk.
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| 5/6/2008 7:04:28 PM | how to regain self-esteem? | |
drumrman
Belmont, MA
age: 43 online now!
| bestman has the correct answers for u.
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| 5/6/2008 7:06:31 PM | how to regain self-esteem? | |
stella23
Lake Jackson, TX
age: 47
| I second the advice from TheBestMan! Don't let one rejection get you down - love yourself, respect yourself and life your life fully - awareness and happiness rock! 
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| 5/6/2008 7:11:05 PM | how to regain self-esteem? | |
krupa1
Abilene, TX
age: 40
| Regain self-esteem??????
Step one....never let someone strip anything that you value about yourself.
When you are happy to be you...the other steps don't mean shit.
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| 5/6/2008 7:21:36 PM | how to regain self-esteem? | |
ccubedccc
Denver, CO
age: 54
| Do the next right thing....and remember it.
Don't let other's actions toward you change your opinion of yourself.
Stay active and let your friends build you up during tough times.
And as much as this may want to make you want to hurl, going through tough emotional times without running away from the pain makes us stronger. If nothing else we learn not to be as afraid of the pain, and we grow because of that experience. It just doesn't seem to feel that way while we are going through it.
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| 5/6/2008 8:03:02 PM | how to regain self-esteem? | |
annigma
Novi, MI
age: 32
| Thanks. I guess it's about looking within and not looking at others, depending on others for it otherwise you will wind up seeing yourself as they see you. 
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| 5/6/2008 8:08:22 PM | how to regain self-esteem? | |
honestinlov4u
Abington, PA
age: 59
| YEP, Krupa has it right!
Don't let any one strip you of your own self esteem!!!
Remember that you do have people who love you (children?? Mother?? Dad??) and you ARE a good person.
I wouldn't go so far as bestman, only because it is to deep when you are down. When you get the first feelings under control, you can go on to others...
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