| 5/7/2008 10:21:24 AM | cutting off connection | |
passionateheart
Seminole, FL
age: 51
| | 1. are they liers | | 2. or are they scared |
why is it that when you feel you make a connection by talking with someone for a few weeks..........and you both feel there is a connection but something happens and they just cut you off with out even expalining over the phone WHY???
weather you meet or not if there is a connection how can they just cut you off??
am I being a fool here or what
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| 5/7/2008 10:25:10 AM | cutting off connection | |
57rickie
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57
| I guess it really depends on what each is looking for.  
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| 5/7/2008 10:37:05 AM | cutting off connection | |
andyg31
Yazoo City, MS
age: 31
| It's probably a lil bit of both...just depends on the person u are talking too
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| 5/7/2008 10:43:23 AM | cutting off connection | |
justlooking630
West New York, NJ
age: 48
| I think some ppl get caught up in their own world and they don't realize that someone else feeling are involved ..It can be both some lie / some are scared ...But you just have to wait for the right person and don't let that person ruin it for the next because you might shut the door to someone great !
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| 5/7/2008 11:44:14 AM | cutting off connection | |
passionateheart
Seminole, FL
age: 51
| so true.I dont give up cause I know there is someone real out there somewhere
just wierd though..........I mean there is an issue with the guy that I do fully understand......we taled for a week , yes I know that is a short time, but when you do alot of talking this way you get to know alot........we were going to meet the following weekend but he broke his hand, now yes he did not ask for that, but even after that for another week we talked every day, I showed my concern........now there are more health issues and I guess he realized that he was not really going to be able to date anyone for a while but my question still is
if there was a conection even if by phone, dont ya think he would still want to talk by phone.I live about an hour away.......but to just stop talking all together makes me wonder what the heck guys want??
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| 5/7/2008 12:04:47 PM | cutting off connection | |
justlaidback
Dunkirk, NY
age: 53
| Hi there I'm not going to vote, a vote wouldn't be the answer here, just my opinion ok and not that I've been a relationship in sometime and not speaking from experience, I just wish I could be in one, It'll happen one day, someone will IM me and say lets visit... ok now here we go, from what i see and read, it's that they (who ever) don't get cold feet or get scared most of the time is that they still have feelers out and in contact with others besides yourself and it maybe that they're offering alittle more of what ever to win them over to them and away from the other person .. NO NO theres nothing wrong with you, it's just that the pot was sweeter on the other side, I guess I could say that about myself maybe the ladies doesn't see my pot as sweet as they have had or want. So kiddo, just say don't let the door hit him in the a** as he is going out,theres alot others out there just take it easy you'll find that special one again, so will I, keep up your chin....
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| 5/7/2008 12:13:41 PM | cutting off connection | |
susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 60
| Hi there I'm not going to vote, a vote wouldn't be the answer here, just my opinion ok and not that I've been a relationship in sometime and not speaking from experience, I just wish I could be in one, It'll happen one day, someone will IM me and say lets visit... ok now here we go, from what i see and read, it's that they (who ever) don't get cold feet or get scared most of the time is that they still have feelers out and in contact with others besides yourself and it maybe that they're offering alittle more of what ever to win them over to them and away from the other person .. NO NO theres nothing wrong with you, it's just that the pot was sweeter on the other side, I guess I could say that about myself maybe the ladies doesn't se my pot as sweet as they have had or want. So kiddo, just say don't let the door hit him in the a** as he is going out,theres alot others out there just take it easy you'll find that special one again, so will I, keep up your chin....
That just happened to me and although I was shocked because he was all "you are so beautiful", etc., he never called and did not respond to a nice e-mail I sent him. So if he ever calls or writes, I will tell him he just missed out on the best love relationship of his life, good luck with your love journey to hell."
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| 5/7/2008 12:23:33 PM | cutting off connection | |
crimsoncruiser
Huntsville, AL
age: 56
| Could be either/or
Could be there's a lack of honest communication and you're better off without him/her.
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| 5/7/2008 1:57:22 PM | cutting off connection | |
loveydovey0254
Vale, NC
age: 54
| well i have the same problem to.. who knows what these men or women want. Like most people we talk for awhile and say we would like to meet the other and them boom you never here from them again.. At first it bothered me real bad and with me be a little self concious about my weight and all i felt like I would never meet the right man.. Well i still havent but hey they dont know what they were missing...I have learnt the hard way but when the right one comes along we will both know it. But this goes out to all you guys that broke off with out a word an email saying hey i dont think i am ready to meet or I dont think we have nothing it common is easy to write.
So Gals or Guys who had this happen to them dont give up.. I believe that there is Someone out there for every one of Us...WE had to weed out all the Jacka$$"s first..
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| 5/7/2008 2:21:51 PM | cutting off connection | |
thatoneguycg
Port Angeles, WA
age: 22
| Honestly could be either but I like to think the best about people, much to my dismay on occasion, and sometimes a connection or "clicking with another person scares them and they run. Hard to coax em outta that normally it just takes time. That or they lie and life just sucks for them later on.
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| 5/8/2008 12:02:49 AM | cutting off connection | |
xtakerdb
Lakeland, FL
age: 48
| Listen0 , going thru alot of health problems is tough and just getting to know someone and this happening ,one does not want to have to put anyone thru the changes . Besides emotions and pain killers kinda do strange things to the mind and feelings run wild . Patients is a virture . making up is hard to do . BUT FUN!
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| 5/8/2008 4:06:07 AM | cutting off connection | |
nab5055
Medford, NJ
age: 43
| Hey..........if he does that now, you certainly don't want a relationship with him. Take my word for it!!!!!!
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| 5/8/2008 4:14:07 AM | cutting off connection | |
eroticartist
White Plains, NY
age: 49
| maybe they feel they're getting too close and maybe are interested in someone else and don't want to lead you on. If that's the case, feel lucky
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| 5/8/2008 4:18:24 AM | cutting off connection | |
imgenuine
Belle Vernon, PA
age: 60
| I believe that many times a person is very much afraid. You want to try again to open up your heart; but, the past can still have a hold on a person. ALSO, we all are looking to be wanted. A person might just be very much afraid.
The liars are still out there, as well. They prey on you being vulnerable. I had one member feel that his intent was strictly (I neeed it)to service me. Another who was married and felt by telling me that it would be okay to become involved.
The approach I take is "survival of the fittest" and it means too really be cautious.
Some members will say anything they can or what they think you want to hear strictly for their own selfish reasons.
RC
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| 5/8/2008 4:24:40 AM | cutting off connection | |
justmemaree
Queensland
Australia
age: 46
| Maybe its a bit of both?
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