| 5/7/2008 7:11:35 PM | Hooray for me! I just joined..... | |
eriksangel15
Wernersville, PA
age: 27
| I'm not far from you, and honestly, for whatever reason, there are some REALLY crummy guys in our area of Pa.
I usually start by only talking online in emails and the like, and then I go from there. I usually follow my gut, based on what our conversations are like. And usually, I can get the feeling/vibes that the doesn't really care or is just a player, etc.
It really sucks, trust me I know. But it's one of those things that you just need to stand back up, wipe off all the dust and climb back on the horse.
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| 5/7/2008 7:19:32 PM | Hooray for me! I just joined..... | |
8ucute
South Lyon, MI
age: 44
| Hey Bay.
I just dumped a player today..
It sucks for sure. But I know I am the better person.
Players are hurtful and selfish.
Shrug it off and learn, Im learning to be cautious as well.
Good Luck and as someone told me today, don't let
go of your heart so quickly, use the instincts you have.
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| 5/7/2008 7:24:29 PM | Hooray for me! I just joined..... | |
nab5055
Medford, NJ
age: 43
| I am way too trusting as well. I live by those rules in my life and I expect the same in return. This can leave you wide open for hurt and I have been there. I am not going to let someone that broke my heart ruin my life. Have the courage to be happy and move on. He didn't deserve you. I have met so many nice men here....many are just friends. They r out there.
Good Luck!! wish u a DH success story
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| 5/7/2008 7:29:05 PM | Hooray for me! I just joined..... | |
misssmatch
Cleveland, TN
age: 51
| it happens to everyone, if that makes you feel any better...
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| 5/7/2008 7:35:40 PM | Hooray for me! I just joined..... | |
cajunmister
Kinder, LA
age: 58
| Hi Bay. Don't feel bad,I will let you join me and my new Chinesse partener and let you have a share of our 19.5 million. K? 
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| 5/7/2008 7:55:47 PM | Hooray for me! I just joined..... | |
baydreamin
Lancaster, PA
age: 48
| cajun, that sounds good to me! I get the 19 and you two get the .5 right?
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| 5/7/2008 8:02:16 PM | Hooray for me! I just joined..... | |
angie425
Arlington, TX
age: 28
| Gosh girl! DO I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN!.... went out with a guy and bam! hey i think you need veriety... i was like O-K.... fine... still see him daily.. just as friends... been dating others... its been okay... but then>>> or this is good>>> we hang for an evening and he helped me get on a dating site. then he wants to get together. men are weird... i go real slow...
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| 5/7/2008 9:35:16 PM | Hooray for me! I just joined..... | |
ccubedccc
Denver, CO
age: 54
| Hey Bay, I feel for you. I know we have to be cautious, but I figure I'd rather live life looking for the positive, taking a few risks and getting hurt vs. seeing the world through jaded eyes and always being suspicious.
You deserve credos for taking the risk. Don't let this alter the belief that most people are worth getting to know.
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| 5/8/2008 2:34:58 AM | Hooray for me! I just joined..... | |
baydreamin
Lancaster, PA
age: 48
| Thanks to all of you! You helped pull me out of a crummy mood yesterday! I knew I could count on all the good people on the DH forums! 
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| 5/8/2008 3:23:57 AM | Hooray for me! I just joined..... | |
justmemaree
Queensland
Australia
age: 46 online now!
| Bay you seem like a beautiful person................. move on babe............... though it isnt easy............... theirs bound to be someone more worthy lurking in the corridoors................ all the best babe!!
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| 5/8/2008 3:31:38 AM | Hooray for me! I just joined..... | |
gator59
Las Vegas, NV
age: 49
| Bay first Welcome to DH.. Here you will find a lot of support. Good people ,some not so good, but like everyone says move on. No sense waisting needless time for something that is now the past.. learn ..
Here have fun enjoy people. You'll never know when that right one come along. Good luck
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| 5/8/2008 3:34:52 AM | Hooray for me! I just joined..... | |
eroticartist
White Plains, NY
age: 49
| Hey Bay ... welcome to the internet. I know how you feel but from reading your post it seems it just wasn't there for you or him. Only thing to say is to move on. You learned early on in this virtual romance that people can disappear really fast from your life after growing attached, Don't think he was playing you but keeping his options open for others...MAYBE? Don't forget to browse aisle #4 ... there's a sale of love and romance.. aisle #2 there's a 2 for 1 on sex and lust
You'll do fine ... just watch out for the wolves
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| 5/9/2008 6:17:57 PM | Hooray for me! I just joined..... | |
terrierlover
Revere, MA
age: 55
| Yes you just cannot like them too fast! If there is a lot of online conversation as well as phone and it has been a while. and there is still no date to meet even for a.m coffee. this is an indicator that this guy likes the thrill of the hunt and is probabley talking to many other people. And his socialization skills cannot leave the internet. Hope this is advise is constructive and lots of luck!
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