| 5/8/2008 8:48:25 AM | What makes you happy? | |
 nab5055 Medford, NJ age: 43 online now!
| Why is it that we all come here being sad and lonely? Can anyone be happy with their lives even if they don't have a mate?
Are we ever thankful for the things that we do have? Family, friends, health........ Believe me, I am not saying that I haven't been in the same boat. Sad and depressed that a relationship hasn't worked out or that I am at home alone on a Saturday Night.
I sit here and read all of these unhappy posts and I have to think that there has to be more to life than this. You need to find a way to be happy with yourself. I think that if I am happy with me and the person that I am, then the rest will come in time.
Any thoughts????????
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| 5/8/2008 8:50:14 AM | What makes you happy? | |
 sweetiepie1977 Jacksonville, FL age: 31
| OHHHH I am VERY happy!!! Almost too happy, all the time....even when I am sad or lonely....its just my character!
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| 5/8/2008 9:17:50 AM | What makes you happy? | |
 ccubedccc Denver, CO age: 54
| I think happiness is an inside job. Relying on someone else to "make me happy" is not healthy for me. Others can add to my happiness, but they aren't the source.
Damn, that sounds way too serious for a happy thread. 
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| 5/8/2008 9:24:55 AM | What makes you happy? | |
 nab5055 Medford, NJ age: 43 online now!
| I am not trying to make it sad but how often do we read the forums and see this? I see it all of the time!! I want to be happy just like everyone else but my man can not be the only thing that makes me that way. See my point?
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| 5/8/2008 9:34:58 AM | What makes you happy? | |
nibblediver Monticello, MN age: 45
| I get happy as heck when I can catch my breath just walking across the room.
If I can do it without holding my nose and carrying a gas clothes dryer 40 feet I get simply thrilled if I don't drop it.
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| 5/8/2008 9:59:30 AM | What makes you happy? | |
 thebestman Alpharetta, GA age: 34 online now!
| Too many things to list
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| 5/8/2008 10:09:49 AM | What makes you happy? | |
 painter41 Scranton, PA age: 42
| I am very happy with myself, I have not been in a relationship in 6yrs. (my choice) I have learned alot about myself during this time and I definately don't need a partner to make me happy. If ever the time comes that I may choose a partner its to enhance my life not to bring it down. I have joined this site almost a yr ago, I come here to read what ppl have to say about different things of life. some articles are sad and others are funny. but thats what makes the world go round.
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| 5/8/2008 10:26:59 AM | What makes you happy? | |
 justanotherfish Broomfield, CO age: 33
| I am content, and can accept being alone for the rest of my life if it so happens. Main reason I'm here is just in case that one special person exists here. Otherwise my kids can satisfy my companionship needs quite well, save the sex of course, which is great.. but not a huge must have for me.
So the answer for me is my kids make me happy, without them I would certainly be a different position.
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| 5/8/2008 10:28:06 AM | What makes you happy? | |
 evileddy Ottawa, ON age: 35
| I enjoy both helping people to feel good.. and hurting people to feel good.
happy balance of karma surfing makes me warm and fuzzy inside.
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| 5/8/2008 10:29:42 AM | What makes you happy? | |
valkyr Marysville, WA age: 44
| evil, you crack me up, fine line between pleasure and pain, huh?
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| 5/8/2008 10:31:53 AM | What makes you happy? | |
 evileddy Ottawa, ON age: 35
| Keeps people on their toes.. never know what I'm gonna do.
Help a person up after they've fallen?... or point and laugh and take pictures and walk off giggling?
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| 5/8/2008 10:45:20 AM | What makes you happy? | |
barbara1 Reston, VA age: 52
| I am happy because I have good health! And God has blessed me with so many other wonderful things, way too many to mention!(it would take you too long to read)
Being loved makes me happy...
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| 5/8/2008 10:50:31 AM | What makes you happy? | |
 blackhammer69 New South Wales Australia age: 27
| a job that pays good money and being in the surf with just a few good friends sharing waves and stories
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| 5/8/2008 10:51:17 AM | What makes you happy? | |
braska1959 Farmland, IN age: 48
| Well now, lets see, I have a pretty good life, my 2 sons and my family make me very happy. But there is something missing, that special person to laugh and cry with, to hold and to be loved. Some one you can always count on no matter what life throws at you. Don't get me wrong I would really enjoy having that special person in my life but I'm just not ready to settle down at this time in my life. I'm enjoying the single life right now and don't see myself settling down for awhile!
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| 5/8/2008 11:02:38 AM | What makes you happy? | |
 goodintention54 Plymouth, MI age: 55
| When my children are happy....Their giggles light me up
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