| 5/8/2008 2:05:19 PM | Could 2 people 1 rich and the other poor ever make it and be happy | |
jsteen1
Berne, IN
age: 40
| I wonder to myself from time to time when I see a woman's profile and she is well to do,and I'm interested (but not in her money)if I should even contact her because I know in the end one of us would have to adjust our lifestyles if it even got that far
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| 5/8/2008 2:07:29 PM | Could 2 people 1 rich and the other poor ever make it and be happy | |
kenny_aust
Queensland
Australia
age: 65
| Find me a rich lady and I'll let you know 
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| 5/8/2008 2:24:07 PM | Could 2 people 1 rich and the other poor ever make it and be happy | |
lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 51
| Whats money got to do with love?????Real love will overcome any obstacles real or imagined...
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| 5/8/2008 2:25:10 PM | Could 2 people 1 rich and the other poor ever make it and be happy | |
soulcrazy
San Clemente, CA
age: 39
| I guess it depends on their views of money.
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| 5/8/2008 2:33:28 PM | Could 2 people 1 rich and the other poor ever make it and be happy | |
thedance75
Shreveport, LA
age: 32
| Money may make the world go round, but you cannot buy happiness. Love brings happiness, no bounds!!
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| 5/8/2008 2:41:07 PM | Could 2 people 1 rich and the other poor ever make it and be happy | |
jaxflorida
Jacksonville, FL
age: 54
| Consider this thought:
Should a woman pay all the bills including electric, cable, groceries, water, etc.. because the man has to pay off past debts and says he can't help except once in awhile.??
To answer the OP's question, I think it gets to a point someone is taking advantage of the other person sooner or later.
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| 5/8/2008 2:41:18 PM | Could 2 people 1 rich and the other poor ever make it and be happy | |
dirtmovr
South Boardman, MI
age: 37
| Money should never be a factor in weather a relationship works or not.Happiness is or is not.
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| 5/8/2008 2:48:59 PM | Could 2 people 1 rich and the other poor ever make it and be happy | |
jaxflorida
Jacksonville, FL
age: 54
| Perhaps think about it this way. There are many posts from men and women who feel they have been taken for a ride, used, lost things because of past relationships and divorces.
Is one person suppose to support the other because they can't help pay bills.?
[Edited 5/8/2008 2:52:34 PM]
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| 5/8/2008 3:01:30 PM | Could 2 people 1 rich and the other poor ever make it and be happy | |
maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
age: 42
| I think so, especially if its the woman thats rich. 
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| 5/8/2008 3:07:08 PM | Could 2 people 1 rich and the other poor ever make it and be happy | |
winesong
Bend, OR
age: 88
| For a relationship to work, it has to work for both people, far beyond $$$$.
If two people are sooooo far apart in background, hobbies, interests in life,
it may not work. $$$$ are not the only consideration.
How about lifestyle?
How about vacation time or recreational time? Free to travel at will?
Is each employed?
Children to be considered?
Do you think about things the same way? (politics are not a big issue to many)
How about the economy, and environmentally?
Do you each manage your money, or does debt and
bankruptcy affect one person?
Who has medical insurance? This is a major consideration these days.
Money does not buy happiness,
however happiness does not buy money either...
you need a good balance of both.
Been there...on each side..
myself lessor financial position,
and myself a greater financial position.
(we are talking measurable here, each time)
Each worked beautifully for me...I learned a great deal
from each person. Loved them both for what they brought to the relationship.
Love is not blind...
it is in tune with the heartbeat and pulse (zest for living) of each person.
Wine
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| 5/8/2008 3:07:20 PM | Could 2 people 1 rich and the other poor ever make it and be happy | |
jaxflorida
Jacksonville, FL
age: 54
| maniacmassager- perhaps you're looking for someone to pay your bills by the answer you just gave. Seems kinda typical of some men's attitude.
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| 5/8/2008 3:14:30 PM | Could 2 people 1 rich and the other poor ever make it and be happy | |
specialfy
Guadalajara
Mexico
age: 40
| Of course it can work , as long as the men in question shows he is not a lazzy guy and make her feel used.
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| 5/8/2008 3:14:49 PM | Could 2 people 1 rich and the other poor ever make it and be happy | |
jaxflorida
Jacksonville, FL
age: 54
| I can appreciate Wines point of view. Very well said. But still is 1 person suppose to pay all the bills without help from their loved partner, or other name you want to call someone living with you.
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| 5/8/2008 3:26:05 PM | Could 2 people 1 rich and the other poor ever make it and be happy | |
aka_neo
Marathon, FL
age: 51
| Frederick and Lisa ,good friends of mine for the last ten years ,are from the opposite side of the fence . He ,Frederick has his own Castle and she ,Lisa is a language instructor .
Lisa has the beauty of charm ,grace and compassion Frederick needed to have a fulfilling life and has asked Lisa to be his wife .
The smile on Fredericks face proves a dignified ,caring,respectful poor girl can steal the heart of a rich man .
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| 5/8/2008 8:25:21 PM | Could 2 people 1 rich and the other poor ever make it and be happy | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| it all depends on the two people if love is more important than money it can work if not no it won't, unfortunetly simple but true
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