5/8/2008 3:38:34 PMHelp girls only asking a girl out 

funnyman0166
Frisco, TX
age: 42


Hey girls what would be the best way to ask you out, if you were at a club, bar ,or just anywhere.Im alittle shy when it comes to girls asking them out.

5/8/2008 3:45:48 PMHelp girls only asking a girl out 

butlergurl81
Butler, IN
age: 26


well, first of all...dont use any stupid pickup lines.... start up a conversation about the music or whatever event is happening.... indroduce yourself... smile. be confident, but not cocky. offer to buy her a drink... just do whatever you feel comfortable with....

5/8/2008 3:52:43 PMHelp girls only asking a girl out 

mitchell1221
Chattanooga, TN
age: 45


How about when you find someone you would like to spend time with, don’t ask him or her to go anywhere. Just tell them that you are planning to be at such and such a place and that it would be nice if they could join you.

Example: I’m going to go to the coffee shop tomorrow night for some of that good coffee they serve. It would be nice if you could join me for some stimulating conversation.

You actually haven’t asked her to go anywhere, but what you have done is let her know your plans and invited her along.


This takes a lot of the pressure off of you. You are letting her know that you are going to go have fun whether or not anyone else wants to share with you does not matter. If she says no, you can reply with something like, "So you don’t like good food?', or "So you don’t like to have fun?"


whatever you do, don't push that red button.

5/8/2008 3:58:17 PMHelp girls only asking a girl out 

jessie7856
Jupiter, FL
age: 35


Ditto what Mitchell said.

5/8/2008 4:03:59 PMHelp girls only asking a girl out 

ldt
Houma, LA
age: 41


very good advise mitch...

5/8/2008 4:12:47 PMHelp girls only asking a girl out 

mitchell1221
Chattanooga, TN
age: 45


Also if she says no, make sure you follow through with your plans,
she may just surprise you and show up, especially if she likes you.





5/8/2008 4:15:13 PMHelp girls only asking a girl out 

kfab1023
Jacksonville, FL
age: 52


awww Mitch who would say no to you

5/8/2008 4:19:26 PMHelp girls only asking a girl out 

mitchell1221
Chattanooga, TN
age: 45


Quote from kfab1023:
awww Mitch who would say no to you


Only the ladies who still have good vision.



5/8/2008 4:20:24 PMHelp girls only asking a girl out 

kfab1023
Jacksonville, FL
age: 52


Mitch that isn't true ya know you are a very nice looking man

5/8/2008 4:24:08 PMHelp girls only asking a girl out 

icedsnow63
Broken Arrow, OK
age: 44


i would have to agree with butler....i think mitch's idea shows her that he really doesn't care whether she shows or not.....but butler's scenario shows he i truly interested in seeing her

5/8/2008 4:24:25 PMHelp girls only asking a girl out 

mitchell1221
Chattanooga, TN
age: 45


Quote from kfab1023:
Mitch that isn't true ya know you are a very nice looking man


When I was a kid, I had lots of pimples,
I fell a sleep at the library, and I woke
up, there was a blind guy reading my face.




5/8/2008 10:08:51 PMHelp girls only asking a girl out 

chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47


mitchell1221, you are way too funny

But I do agree with the others mitchell1221 gave excellent advise