| 5/8/2008 6:12:52 PM | Need advice..what would you do? | |
smilelaugh
Fremont, NE
age: 37
| Lets say you have a friend. And she has been through alot.
And she starts dating again. And the guy she meets is a nice guy.
Claims he is going to be honest and communicate with her.
She, herself, stumbled upon a fake profile that he put up, besides
his other one. She was devastated. She confronted him,
and he says that he just wrote it to see if people actually read
profiles...
Now wouldnt you think, that if he was practicing good comuunication
skills, that he would have told her about this "plan" before he posted
it. Yeah, i thought the same.
Your thoughts please....
Everybody makes choices and has their opinons.
And by creating this thread I am not on a rampage.
I know that everyone has a diff take on this subject, so I would like
my friend to be able to read all of the varied opinons.
And if my friend believes him, thats her opinon. But she will still be
my friend.
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| 5/8/2008 6:14:58 PM | Need advice..what would you do? | |
thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
| The life of online dating...
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| 5/8/2008 6:17:30 PM | Need advice..what would you do? | |
ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 41 online now!
| Oh what a tangled web we weave...
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| 5/8/2008 6:19:14 PM | Need advice..what would you do? | |
dogmansis
Blanco, TX
age: 50
| He obviously is NOT as honest as he thinks he is. I'd blow him off...I need real honesty.
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| 5/8/2008 6:22:04 PM | Need advice..what would you do? | |
lifeluvr
Salt Lake City, UT
age: 36
| Sounds like a communication breakdown, Did you ask him if he was still seeking ?
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| 5/8/2008 6:25:27 PM | Need advice..what would you do? | |
arod88
Cape Coral, FL
age: 19
| see ya later.. No way thats breaking trust already
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| 5/8/2008 6:28:09 PM | Need advice..what would you do? | |
metu
Mansfield, TX
age: 46 online now!
| You've answered your own question............sorry. 
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| 5/8/2008 6:33:22 PM | Need advice..what would you do? | |
nameofnick
North York, ON
age: 55
| Lets say you have a friend. And she has been through alot.
And she starts dating again. And the guy she meets is a nice guy.
Claims he is going to be honest and communicate with her.
She, herself, stumbled upon a fake profile that he put up, besides
his other one. She was devastated. She confronted him,
and he says that he just wrote it to see if people actually read
profiles...
Now wouldnt you think, that if he was practicing good comuunication
skills, that he would have told her about this "plan" before he posted
it. Yeah, i thought the same.
Your thoughts please....
He may be sincere, honest and he may like you a lot, but he might also have poor communication skills.
The two are not the same, and maybe he is a poor but not too dishonest communicator.
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| 5/8/2008 6:52:35 PM | Need advice..what would you do? | |
cmjanew
Sayre, PA
age: 48
| Did my friend ask me for advice?
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| 5/8/2008 7:22:56 PM | Need advice..what would you do? | |
bethlet
Spokane, WA
age: 49
| Well, that depends...
Was his "fake" profile as a guy? And was it a guy that described HIM to a "T"? Or did it have his picture on it?
If so, then he's cheating on her.
But....if it was a "fake" profile, as in not remotely like himself, or was a "shock" profile, where someone creates one just to talk smack, then he's just playing on the net.
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| 5/8/2008 7:30:49 PM | Need advice..what would you do? | |
shoppers4
Manchester, NH
age: 27
| the fact that he would trouble himself to do that, and cause someone to have doubts about being honest, not worth it..even if he was doing that just to "see", it shows hes looking elsewhere and so should you
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| 5/8/2008 8:32:02 PM | Need advice..what would you do? | |
ru2timid
Rockford, IL
age: 46
| Everyone has there own little twists, the questions would be was the profile created b4 they became an item, was is still active, are there "other" characters in this mans saga, and so on. Dating is hard enough the way it is. There are no real rules except those of respect and dignity of ones own and the other people. If this couple decides to go forward they will have to communicate and be open with one another. Honestly, dating is a lot different than a committed relationship. A lot will depend on each ones abilities to use reasoning. I wouldn't neccesarily dump the situation because there are a lot worse ones that people find out later about, but I would have to have answers, honest answers and go from there. Hi T 
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| 5/8/2008 10:01:28 PM | Need advice..what would you do? | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| Creating several profiles is playing games. If he's like this on a dating site on the internet he will be like that in a real life relationship. Being two personalities at once. What he wants himself to be perceived to be and who he really is inside. Games are for children.
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| 5/8/2008 10:05:42 PM | Need advice..what would you do? | |
twistedokie
Tulsa, OK
age: 45
| Ah hell, chopperbabe beat me to the punch. Dump his worthless ass!
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| 5/8/2008 10:09:49 PM | Need advice..what would you do? | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| Ah hell, chopperbabe beat me to the punch. Dump his worthless ass!
Sorry ... I can share the punch 
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