| 5/11/2008 3:34:54 AM | might or might not go excuses? | |
annigma
Novi, MI
age: 32
| A guy I know asked me to go on a road trip with him for two weeks. I'm not sure I want to go but I like him and I don't want him to dump me for good; and I can't think of a plausible sounding enough excuse to be absent two weeks with just enough room for an exceotion in case I change my mind. Anyone have ideas?
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| 5/11/2008 3:40:31 AM | might or might not go excuses? | |
maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
age: 42 online now!
| If you go, stop by to visit me on your road trip. 
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| 5/11/2008 3:45:14 AM | might or might not go excuses? | |
curious70000
Wyandotte, MI
age: 46
| Are you kidding, you can't think of any excuse for NOT going away for two weeks? How bout work, looking for work, family, there's all kinds of "reasons" there's not many people that can take off for some two week road trip. And how far can another person push you to do what you don't want to do just because you fear they won't see you anymore?
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| 5/11/2008 4:01:36 AM | might or might not go excuses? | |
annigma
Novi, MI
age: 32
| oh yeah, he wants to split the costs... Is it just me or should this make a big difference?
[Edited 5/11/2008 4:04:01 AM]
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| 5/11/2008 4:06:03 AM | might or might not go excuses? | |
zewitch
Western Australia
Australia
age: 54
| If in doubt don't i learnt this saying to be true the hard way
So obviously the answer should be sorry mate can't make it but catch up with you after your trip
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| 5/11/2008 7:14:17 AM | might or might not go excuses? | |
sugaranspice74
Sneedville, TN
age: 47
| I agree with zewitch.Always listen to your own thoughts.What is really important is What is your gut telling you? If it's something you have to think a lot about well ????????.
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| 5/11/2008 7:20:34 AM | might or might not go excuses? | |
morningstarfire
Yucca Valley, CA
age: 48
| i would'nt go if he asked you to pay your own way! hes not a real man!!!
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| 5/11/2008 7:52:45 AM | might or might not go excuses? | |
magtag
East York, ON
age: 41
| If this man is putting you in a position of go with him on the road trip or you won't be together, I don't see what there is to like about him. Yes, it's nice for someone to ask you to join them, and also understandable that you may have to pay your own way...IF YOU WANT TO GO! If you don't want to go, then you shouldn't feel obliged to do so and if he is pressuring you with implyed threats of the relationship ending, then I would just end it for him. 
I would just tell him, forget the excuses. Sorry, I am not in a postition to join you on this trip, although maybe sometime in the future we can plan one together, I will not be joining you for this one. Tell him you're looking forward to his return and will miss him, and have a great time! If he accepts this, great! If not, he doesn't seem like the kind of man I would be interested in. JMO.
[Edited 5/11/2008 7:53:56 AM]
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| 5/11/2008 8:37:46 AM | might or might not go excuses? | |
thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
| First off,
1. How long have you been talking to the guy? People can like a person in a week or two - just an example
2. Have you met and been with him often?
3. Do you actually have a relationship with the guy? All you mentioned was that "A guy I know asked me to go on a road trip..."
4. Have you been intimate with the guy before?
There are too many things left out for one to be able to provide the best solution to your question. At this point, anyone can tell you anything, but sound advice depends on some questions being answered.
You don't go into a doctors office wanting advice without going through some important questions don't you  
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| 5/11/2008 9:15:46 AM | might or might not go excuses? | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| If he drops you for good because you won't just go on a road trip, why would you want him, are trying to jump hurdles to stay in a race? If that little voice in your head warns you not to go.................LISTEN 
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