| 5/12/2008 5:58:04 PM | ladies i need your opinion | |
everett1
Galesburg, IL
age: 29
| In my last two relationships I was in, they were all about money. I know its good to have security and money but to me I feel that there should be more than just money in a relationship. In the economy these days, its hard to find good paying job, but I did the best I could. I bought them stuff when I had money for them. When we were home, they always had control of the remote. I didn't mind. I even cuddled with them, I even gave them massages. I tried my best to make them happy. They left me for guys that made big bucks. My question is did I do something wrong? I tried my best but I guess I did something wrong.
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| 5/12/2008 6:00:01 PM | ladies i need your opinion | |
mariafromromani
Portland, OR
age: 40
| You chose the wrong person.
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| 5/12/2008 6:33:30 PM | ladies i need your opinion | |
holdmetight2
Turlock, CA
age: 57
| Sorry thats the kind of young ladies you found. I never had money flowing here ! But made do. I would not know how to act if i went out with someone that did have money ! Believe me ! If thats all they want >> let them have a fun time looking for it ! At least you won't have to be sharing what little u do make with her after you were to marry her ! Hang in there . Am sure their are plenty of chances for a young man like you to find a young lady that is ok with whatever you make !
[Edited 5/12/2008 6:34:19 PM]
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| 5/12/2008 6:35:05 PM | ladies i need your opinion | |
bamadixiegal
Guntersville, AL
age: 38
| you has the wrong one.
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| 5/12/2008 7:23:06 PM | ladies i need your opinion | |
metal38
Lansdale, PA
age: 39
| I agree..it seems that all women are after that dollar sign,and it sucks for guys who are'nt loaded to meet someone nice.I guess thats why I list no material girls in my profiles. Come on ladies give us a break!!
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| 5/12/2008 7:29:42 PM | ladies i need your opinion | |
mariafromromani
Portland, OR
age: 40
| Why stereotype, metal. Have you met all the women on Earth,lol?!
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| 5/12/2008 7:37:39 PM | ladies i need your opinion | |
ladyinparis
Paris, TX
age: 41
| All women are not after money. I, however, am 41 years old. When I was twenty years old, I went through the struggling to make ends meet. I do not care to go through that again. I make decent money, so the amount the man makes isn't really important. That being said, I wouldn't want someone whose only ambition is to flip burgers and bring home minimum wage for the rest of their life. Of course, this is as a 41 year old. Like I said, when I was younger, my expectations were different...but, I think this is normal for any woman of my age or older.
Then again, you can't help who you fall in love with, so I guess even at 41 material things and money does not surpass the power of love.
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| 5/12/2008 7:48:54 PM | ladies i need your opinion | |
mindyb
Park Rapids, MN
age: 43
| Your not looking at the person...your looking at their outside somehow...my advice is build friendships with many women, get to know them...better yet get to know someone without knowing what they look like allow yourself to see inside....if you were involved with shallow minded people who are materialistic then your not looking deep enough to see them right in the begining...look at your key words for example...what kind of common interest are gonna get you what kind of hits. i mean i have not looked at your profile at all so I have no idea but its just an example of a good place to start...rule number one guys never put material things on your profile if you dont want to attract a material girl..thats all i am saying regarding keywords. anyway look deeper in the begining you'll get the hang of it.....Some women are just mean and take advantage of soft sweet men....Koala's are cute and cuddle too but ya still gotta waych out for those claws.
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| 5/20/2008 5:02:01 PM | ladies i need your opinion | |
rxtech34
Little York, IL
age: 35
| well everett...if i remember correctly i am the one that paid for everything..and when i got my last check from my job in december you could not wait to spend it.. you drove my car for 2 months straight and threw a fit every time i wanted to use my own car that i was paying for..you are the one that had a job but for some reason i was paying for everything.. now tell me please how did you ever have money and if i was for all about the money then why the hell was i with you???? as i remember correctly i paid for the deposit and rent on the house and i never saw a dime from you....and when you found out that i was not paying for the cell phone that you had that was in my name anymore you threw another fit... NOW WHO WAS ALL FOR THE MONEY IN THE RELATIONSHIP THAT WE HAD?????
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| 5/20/2008 5:14:13 PM | ladies i need your opinion | |
heartquest8
Decatur, AL
age: 58
| two sides to every story...as always
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| 5/20/2008 5:24:13 PM | ladies i need your opinion | |
forestrose
Calgary, AB
age: 55
| 1. His side 2. Her side 3. The true facts
Popcorn please.
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| 5/20/2008 5:38:43 PM | ladies i need your opinion | |
ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 41 online now!
| Oh my... someone actually spinning the truth just to get a pity party from a room full of strangers? Where is Stephen King when you need him, cuz I smell a suspense thriller cookin
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| 5/20/2008 5:40:02 PM | ladies i need your opinion | |
wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37
| I even cuddled with them, I even gave them massages.
care to elaborate 
extra butter on mine please
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| 5/20/2008 5:43:51 PM | ladies i need your opinion | |
smilin_bob
Broadway, VA
age: 47
| ok.. evertt1..
Man to man?
Never, ever, put yourself in the position of 'doormat'.. either educate yourself to understand what the woman 'wants' BEFORE you get into a relationship, or.. don't go into a relationship.
Biggest and most important question any person (either a man or a woman) has to ask is "What are you looking for out of life?"
Listen to what they say, then make a decision for yourself whether or not you want to go there...
Hindsight is 20/20 vision...
Never, ever give 'everything' of yourself without understanding what you are risking.. If you offer everything, and the reward is nothing.. well.. it sucks.
Any person who offers their resources of time, energy, body and/or finances thinking *that* alone will make the other person 'love them' is doomed for failure.
BOTH persons in any type of relationship have to understand what they want, and what they are wiling to risk. There are some people that don't want to risk anything.. They want to 'win it all', without any risk for themselves, and if you let them, they will take whatever they can.
I wish you the best of luck in any future realtionship you decide to go into..
Me, I will take a leap of faith.. but, I will make sure she is willing to take the same leap...
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| 5/20/2008 8:06:48 PM | ladies i need your opinion | |
everett1
Galesburg, IL
age: 29
| Well there rxtech34 so nice to hear from you again. Thank you for joining this site again. You know the reasons why I had to drive your car. You told me that you were fine with it remember, wait, ill get back to you in a second
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