| 5/13/2008 2:16:54 PM | pictures or not | |
imgenuine
Belle Vernon, PA
age: 60
| Definitely pictures AND do read the profile AND do not send winks, if they are not appreciated. Pictures give a more personable tone of knowing who you are talking with. ALSO, I feel as though no picture, might be married or something.
RC
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| 5/13/2008 2:22:01 PM | pictures or not | |
pichick712
Brookhaven, PA
age: 50
| i think if you don't want to post a pic on your profile, then you should include one when you write to someone.
We are all looking for some physical chemistry and that starts with the eyes, or a smile.
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| 5/13/2008 10:15:06 PM | pictures or not | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| I've talked to shadows before but I'd be hesitant in dating someone I haven't seen. I'm not hiding nor would I want too. If someone from where I work sees me on here then they are on here as well so what is good for the goose is good for the gander. If any of my Xs find me on here then it's they are on here looking as well. Only reason why I wouldn't post a pic ... if I was married and was looking for a side dish. I am not married and even if I was married I can't lower myself that low to be cheating.
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| 5/13/2008 10:22:31 PM | pictures or not | |
thatoneguycg
Port Angeles, WA
age: 22
| Alright, alright I got some up sheeash...  But in all seriousness talking to shadow sucks, a person should at least provide a link to where they do have pics if they want to meet up.
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| 5/14/2008 12:03:35 AM | pictures or not | |
hunter12gauge
Bellaire, OH
age: 46
| Well enough of the "Looks don't matter,it's what's inside" BULLSHIT! Shallow people need pics. If your serious about finding the "ONE" ,"LOOKS DON"T MATTER" Read the profiles.that's why their there. If you have half a brain,You'll probably be looking for the same,a pic can't portray that aspect of person. No I don't have a pic posted, initially I was going to post one, then I decided not to ,to see what kind of response a no pic would get.I have sent pics and in what order you choose to exchange pics is up to you.I would rather have the oportunity to chat with a person first,see if their's a connection,then trade pics,I know this practice is not for everyone,but I can tell you that If having a pic increases your responses,that's all I would be doing is answering email.
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| 5/14/2008 12:09:11 AM | pictures or not | |
mln21
Greensburg, PA
age: 21
| people without pictures are just important ppl need to stop looking at people just for their looks
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| 5/14/2008 12:25:08 AM | pictures or not | |
mauibuilt949
Santa Monica, CA
age: 27
|  Toast to that one
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| 5/14/2008 12:54:07 AM | pictures or not | |
alatevie
Gilbert, AZ
age: 28
| I used to put pictures up. I can't say I got more replies either way. I just decided I didn't want my picture everywhere for private reasons. I don't mind sharing pictures of me, but now I like to talk a couple of times first. I don't respond to emails where the only line is "no pic" when it is the only email that I have recieved from that person. I've been attracted to men withut seeing their picture, but I know it is important to like someone's physical features and fashion as well. Sometimes personality makes it easier to accept a person who is not exactly what one looks for.
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| 5/14/2008 12:33:08 PM | pictures or not | |
209artgirl
Lodi, CA
age: 25
| I want someone to like me for me. Not because of a picture 
^ agree..
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| 5/14/2008 12:44:58 PM | pictures or not | |
gr8stwoman
Dingla
Nepal
age: 89
| I will talk to shadows, but I don't remain in contact with them much because I am a very visual person. I associate all e-mails, chats, etc. with a person's photo and that helps me remember who they are (including previous "conversations)." When I am talking to more than one shadow person, I tend to get them confused. However, this never happens to me when they have a photo on their profile. I don't know if there is anyone else out there who requires visualization... just offering my 2 cents worth!
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| 5/17/2008 9:37:46 PM | pictures or not | |
meufriend
Hemlock, MI
age: 37
|  heres mine what do think i've been a shaddow for a while
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| 5/17/2008 9:41:34 PM | pictures or not | |
missmmeoftheday
Brooklyn, NY
age: 42
| nice to "see" you meufriend
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| 5/17/2008 9:51:23 PM | pictures or not | |
drumrman
Belmont, MA
age: 43
| I will talk to shadows, but I don't remain in contact with them much because I am a very visual person. I associate all e-mails, chats, etc. with a person's photo and that helps me remember who they are (including previous "conversations)." When I am talking to more than one shadow person, I tend to get them confused. However, this never happens to me when they have a photo on their profile. I don't know if there is anyone else out there who requires visualization... just offering my 2 cents worth!
gr8 has it correct, i believe. and 4 those shadows who say, i want somebody who'll like me for who i am, not just what i look like. what happens if u do eventually send them a pic, and they realize, u may not b for them. now both of u r going to feel awkward about it. JMO 
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| 5/17/2008 10:35:39 PM | pictures or not | |
njman
Jersey City, NJ
age: 49
| i wont let the world know how desprate iam , and if my kids knew about this, i cant face them for the rest of my life,
if i meet a nice lady, apicture is not an issue at all, she can have all the pictures she wants and recent ones not 20 years old 
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| 5/17/2008 10:48:56 PM | pictures or not | |
chala95
Flushing, NY
age: 49
| ok seriously what the hell get your pics up you want to be added i want to see who i am talkin to
Ok ad me sweety!
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