5/17/2008 1:31:14 AMWhat the hell! 

iron_roughneck
Bakersfield, CA
age: 30


Why do people make plans to meet, then call you 10 minutes before you are suppose to meet and say they have to cancel. That is like the 3rd one in a row. Am I not that attractive? If not then why agree to meet?



5/17/2008 1:33:49 AMWhat the hell! 

chala95
Flushing, NY
age: 48


Quote from iron_roughneck:
Why do people make plans to meet, then call you 10 minutes before you are suppose to meet and say they have to cancel. That is like the 3rd one in a row. Am I not that attractive? If not then why agree to meet?


That sucks bro, are you doing or saying something close to meeting time that would bring that about?

5/17/2008 1:34:19 AMWhat the hell! 

sapraim
Minneapolis, MN
age: 33


Hey Bro I feel you, but the truth is some Ladies get cold feet and you just got to hang in there and not give up. Just remember there are plenty other women on DH. So Good Luck.



[Edited 5/17/2008 1:36:13 AM]

5/17/2008 1:35:44 AMWhat the hell! 

flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46


Nerves............I did that with a guy I really liked. The more I like someone the more nervous I get. JMO

5/17/2008 6:02:16 AMWhat the hell! 

jabberwock70
Beachwood, OH
age: 38


Flower...you get nervous? I find that hard to believe. (just kidding)

5/17/2008 6:04:28 AMWhat the hell! 

57rickie
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57


3 strikes and you're OUT

5/17/2008 6:12:18 AMWhat the hell! 

tweet169
Belmont, NC
age: 38


I have had this happen to me one time, he called said he was on the way - never showed up. This was not our first date either. At least have the balls to say, something, I understand things can come up, but come on ppl. It's like a game for some ppl - if if couldn't make it, I sure as hell would make sure I called you. And to answer your question, I see nothing wrong with you, you seem like a great guy

5/17/2008 6:15:07 AMWhat the hell! 

8ucute
South Lyon, MI
age: 44


awwww. I wouldnt do that to you!
Let it roll off your back and think she is the
one missing out.

5/17/2008 6:16:01 AMWhat the hell! 

italianlady05
Omaha, NE
age: 53


i don't know if i'd give 'em even one more chance..canceling that late is just rude and unnecessary.

5/17/2008 6:17:12 AMWhat the hell! 

maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
age: 42


Ive had this happen endless times to me, while ive never done it once!

5/17/2008 6:23:50 AMWhat the hell! 

nab5055
Medford, NJ
age: 43


I have been there, it stinks. It is even worse when you go there and they don't show. I would rather have a cancellation anytime than be stood up!!!!!

5/17/2008 7:49:46 AMWhat the hell! 

iamnumber5
Saint Augustine, FL
age: 48


It has happened to me too, I think it is just
plane RUDE.

Its like waiting for a bus another one will come
along, there loss.

It only happens one time I give one more chance
then thats it.

Sorry it has happened to you.

5/17/2008 8:15:27 AMWhat the hell! 

indianpolak
Mauston, WI
age: 54 online now!


The last one who stood me up, ..then called several days later to reschedule( waited 5 hrs at the mall).....I politley told them to Lose my name and number......

5/17/2008 8:21:57 AMWhat the hell! 

justdancin
Tomball, TX
age: 51


That happens to people in 'real life' a lot also...it would depend on their reason for cancellation. Family, work, car trouble, etc. may sound like just an excuse, but, if you're the one in that position, it may not be trivial to you ... it's not always easy to put your 'life' on a back burner, to meet what you hope or assume to be a friend. A 'friend' would understand this and accept that your life doesn't revolve around them.

just me ...

5/17/2008 8:33:12 AMWhat the hell! 

sarahdeeknight
Coopersville, MI
age: 29


That is just wrong that someone makes plans to meet and then either 1. they never show up or 2. they cancel make some excuse or 3. make another plan to talk or meet then it never happens. Some people just don't have the balls to be honest in life and have to jerk people around. I have had that experience with meeting someone more than once. Then I get all kinds of crap too just because of the way I look. People have to grow up! Get a life, I have more important things to worry about..like my children!!! Now if I cancelled it would be because of an emergency with my kids because of their special needs. That is a reasonable excuse. Others need to quit playing games.


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