| 5/23/2008 9:17:18 AM | Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? | |
fordtuffgirl
Fayetteville, NC
age: 44
| I think if there is a mutual MENTAL/PHYSICAL attraction/connection...why not...if ur gonna stereotype me as "easy" cuz I had sex with you on a "first" date...
then guess what...ur not the type of person I would want anything long term with anyway...too judgmental...and archaic way of thinking...my 2 cents
[Edited 5/23/2008 9:17:58 AM]
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| 5/24/2008 9:35:52 AM | Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? | |
dmariesweet
Dallas, TX
age: 55
| i have come to find out the very same thing about men on the first date or meeting on the net. sex sex sex....UGGGHHHH now i BLOCK BLOCK BLOCK!!! it's not that i don't like sex either, but come on! that just tells me what kind of person he really is and what he ultimate goal is. if a man can't respect me enough to NOT start right off talking about sex, them i'm outta there. does anyone else agree?
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| 5/24/2008 9:31:36 PM | Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? | |
crystal_2love
St John, VI
age: 50
| If I have any attraction to the man at all, he will definitely be the first to find out. .the first date or the 3rd..Chemistry is all of it. hahahaha..
As for the men that think talking sex will get "THE JUICES FLOWING"  forget it.. that is the greatest way to turn some women off.
Most women want substance when they are in a relationship  or about to enter one. Surely there is more to a conversation than sex.
"How has your week been?" 
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| 5/24/2008 9:33:23 PM | Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? | |
crystal_2love
St John, VI
age: 50
| i have come to find out the very same thing about men on the first date or meeting on the net. sex sex sex....UGGGHHHH now i BLOCK BLOCK BLOCK!!! it's not that i don't like sex either, but come on! that just tells me what kind of person he really is and what he ultimate goal is. if a man can't respect me enough to NOT start right off talking about sex, them i'm outta there. does anyone else agree?
I have grown to love BLOCK & DELETE!!!
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| 5/25/2008 4:27:43 PM | Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? | |
sweetaz
Mesa, AZ
age: 45
| Hey baby .....what are you wearing?
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| 5/25/2008 5:36:23 PM | Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? | |
country54angel
Iota, LA
age: 54
| I agree with Crystal if the first thing out of the man mouth is about sex it is a big turn off.
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| 5/25/2008 7:40:52 PM | Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? | |
duluthlover
Hutchinson, MN
age: 33
| I hear you! I went on a two dates. The first one was laced with sex talk and I was completely uncomfortable. Trust me I do like sex and am not afraid of it, but isn't the first few dates suuposed to see if you have anything in common to get to that point. The second date that I went on was the same thing. I felt like I was only there to fill the need and that I was stupid enough to fall for the "Hey your beautiful" line and "I would really like to get together and talk." I usually feel that by the third date you feel a connection or not. I am not a prude by any means but I am looking for someone to have a great relationship with and not just a great bed realtionship.
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| 5/25/2008 9:55:47 PM | Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? | |
wordman
Phillipsburg, NJ
age: 46
| I agree that all men want that, but respectable men will control themselves and defer to the women's decision.
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| 5/26/2008 8:29:58 AM | Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? | |
sweetaz
Mesa, AZ
age: 45
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YES U R EASY.......EAssssssssssyyyyyyyyy tada!
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| 5/26/2008 1:14:50 PM | Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? | |
mountainman7
Chattanooga, TN
age: 41
| That's most guys.. I'm an exception. I won't get myself involved intimately with anyone until I am in a committed relationship with that person. To get involved early on in a dating relationship could be asking for potential problems. Granted there are people who do that sort of thing (and I am no less guilty from having done so in the past). After the events in my life last year, I've decided to wait until I am in a committed relationship. I like to think of it as enjoying the experience of getting to that other person without anything like sex being involved.
Scott
Sex is very important.
Most guys expect to become intimate by the 3rd date.
If we dont see the affections, we assume youre not feeling what we are and we move on.
Sex on a 1st date, however, is a big no no
Most guys will try 4 it 2 see how loose u are
But, if it happens that soon, there will rarely be a 2nd date
Th 2nd or 3rd date is the norm, these days
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| 5/27/2008 6:55:10 PM | Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? | |
dodgegirl1971
Martinsville, IN
age: 36
| I was 25 when I had sex with him not 12. It did look that way didn't it? I decided to try a couple more dates with this guy, every time has been a disaster.He was a gentleman but he wanted sex. I haven't been out on many dates (5) to be exact and yes in my entire life. Talking of sex is not what I had pictured on a date. He does talk of other things, but goes back to sex. I believe in being honest and the sex talk is kinda scary. He says he wants a relationship but (guys help me understand a lot better)does he want to see if we're compatable in bed?
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| 5/27/2008 7:52:57 PM | Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? | |
duluthlover
Hutchinson, MN
age: 33
| Mountainman, you are a real gentelman. There are not enough men like you out there that hold that theory and give the relationship time to develop.  . I am so jealous of the woman that you will find. 
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| 6/3/2008 9:24:09 PM | Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? | |
hotsheet
Guymon, OK
age: 50
| now adays everyone wants to have sex on line check out any nude pics that you may have an ask a long list of questions so they can plan out how they are going to deal with you in bed when an if they get there
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| 6/4/2008 3:58:38 AM | Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? | |
gemeinschaft
Sugar Land, TX
age: 31
| I think attraction is important in a relationship, but I am hoping for more than just a physical connection. I think good relationships are based on many levels of attraction.
I have been on a date with a drop dead gorgeous woman who I was very attracted to; all attraction ended when she tried to have an educated discussion and failed miserably.
I need more than just a physical relationship. It seems when a relationship turns physical, the other areas seem to fade away and then its just a physical thing if you don't have a solid foundation beforehand.
I like to actually get to know someone before introducing physical intimacy.
Ladies, if all a guy can talk about is sex... What do you think he has on his mind? Does he really care about how your day went?
I think people create their own problems by having sexual expectations in the first place.
What is even worse is that I have girl friends that tell me that they slept with a guy, not because they wanted to, but because they thought it was the only way to keep them around... I think that is just sad.
If the only way to keep a guy's attention is to sleep with him, then you either have serious issues of your own or you are with the wrong guy. Usually, I think it is a little of both.
[Edited 6/4/2008 4:00:07 AM]
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| 6/4/2008 11:29:32 PM | Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? | |
loveableme
Bainbridge, GA
age: 53
| I like what Ace said he sounds like a gentelman to me Wish their were more who thought like him !
[Edited 6/4/2008 11:33:23 PM]
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