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| Location: | Ellicott City Maryland |
| Zip Code: | 21042 |
| Age: | 51, Libra |
| Height: | 5 ft. 5 in. |
| Hair, Eyes: | Light Brown, Brown |
| Body Type: | Average |
| Ethnicity: | White |
| Religion: | Christian/LDS |
| Politics: | Conservative |
| Education: | Master's Degree |
| Income: | Didn't Say |
| Job: | Legal |
| Drink: | Drink Occasionally |
| Smoke: | Don't Smoke |
| Status: | Single |
| Have Kids: | Yes, not living with me |
| Want More: | No |
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| Personality |
SORRY. I DO NOT RESPOND TO WINKS 
I'm a recently divorced mother of 3 boys. I'm not ashamed to say that it's taken me nearly 3 years to feel adjusted to my new life. Divorce has not been easy, but it didn't defeat me. No bitterness, no hangups, no baggage; just a lot of awareness from years of soul searching. I'm not looking to "replace" my Ex, but I do miss a lot of those things that were once a part of that life. I've come to terms with the fact that, moving on or not, those events define me. As for the individual me ... I am sensitive (sometimes to a fault), warm, and giving. I'm a Type A, but I know my limits. I'm independent (financially and otherwise), but not exclusive. I love life and really have made the best of what could have been a bad thing. I'm a natural survivor, but ... I'M LONELY (NOT desperate)! I'm active and love to stay busy, to do things on weekends. I am looking for a man who is honest and sincere and capable of loving. A man who understands the importance of holding hands occasionally; one who will give me some space because he knows how important it is to him to have his. A manly man (rugged and strong physically); one who makes me feel secure. At the same time, he has to possess a tad of sensitivity (show emotions once in awhile, cry at a movie, love animals, etc.) He must be able to argue fairly, say what is on his mind and listen to what is being said. He should be a man who can compromise when appropriate, but not be complacent. A man who does not consider intimacy a thing of the past. He must want and enjoy lovemaking and know the importance of keeping the flame burning (w/o fuel from another fire). A man who enjoys laughter and respects tears. He must enjoy life and be receptive to all that it offers (travel, cuisine, the arts). Love well-read men who can carry on a conversation! He need not possess a master's or be an intellectual, but must be worldly and generally in-the-know. In describing my ideal man, I guess I've made a statement about ME, who I am and how I think. I believe that "Happiness comes of the capacity to feel deeply, to enjoy simply, to think freely, to risk life, to be needed."
To me, an ideal relationship would include a sense of "oneness," mutual bonding, & a neverending desire for passion & intimacy (w/your partner)! I would want to know that, no matter what adversities, we'd still be there for each other (the for-better-for-worse part of the "I do"). Equally important is the need for laughter in a partnership. Laugh often & laugh a lot...laugh out loud. Laugh at your predicament & be able to laugh at yourself, especially when there's nothing else you can do.
With regard to past relationships, I have learned that it IS possible to awaken from even the worst nightmare, feeling secure & whole again. You just have to take a moment to catch your breath, collect your senses, steady your balance...one foot @ a time, & then GET THE HELL OUTTA BED (or avoid whatever triggers those matrimonial hallucinations)! Seriously, love does not conquer all. Never take anything for granted. Communication's a must for love to thrive. No silent treatment. Never play games; no pissing contests; be honest & learn to trust unless he/she proves otherwise.
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