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| beccasheart | Last Online: Last week |
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| Location: | Pitman New Jersey |
| Zip Code: | 08071 |
| Age: | 43, Capricorn |
| Height: | 5 ft. 7 in. |
| Hair, Eyes: | Dark Brown, Hazel |
| Body Type: | Average |
| Ethnicity: | White |
| Religion: | Christian |
| Politics: | Moderate |
| Education: | Some College |
| Income: | $25,000 - $50,000 |
| Job: | Didn't Say |
| Drink: | Drink Socially |
| Smoke: | Don't Smoke |
| Status: | Divorced |
| Have Kids: | Yes, living with me |
| Want More: | No |
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| Personality |
Who I am
Just your average girl looking for your average guy, but one without issues. I love my children and life. I am a very sincere person. I was married for five years and we were seperated for two years up until two weeks ago, Divorce Baby, Yea!
Below is a very accurate list of my likes and dislikes. To some it may sound picky, but trust me, I have seen friends go through more humiliations due to wrong choices or expectations in relationships whether they were male or female and I promised myself that I would not follow that same route. I would much rather no one answer my ad due to my expecations than have to subject myself or my time on someone that fits my dislikes. So if you want someone who knows what they want and dosen't accept anything less, than drop me a line. If not, good luck on your path of finding the right person.
My likes
- Good sense of humor
- Good hygiene
- Spontaneous
- Productive
- Great kisser
- Good story teller
- Good listner
- Someone who knows what he wants and seeks it
- A winner and an all around good sport
- Creativity
- A guy that likes to take control (what do you want to do, no, what do you want to do, no what do you want to do UGH!!! LOL
- Guys that take full responsibility for their actions when they make a mistake. Nothing like a
loser guy who blames everyone else for his mistakes, but himself.
- A good father if you are a father. Your children are a reflection of how good of a father you are or have been.
- Caring and Compassionate
- Loving
- A Spiritual Person
My Dislikes and Turn-Offs
- Fake and Stupid Guys (be original, come up with your own lines).
- Guys that blame their mistakes on everyone else but themselves
- Liars
- Losers (Guys that don't work or work occasionally) Nothing says loser quite better than a guy on the internet 24/7...
- Smokers (I quit, so should you. Life is short enough, why make it shorter and why support the government by paying such high taxes on an item that if you do get cancer, no one is there for you)
- Guys with no sense of humor
- Jealousy (to a degree this is normal, but too much and you can lose respect for someone)
- INSECURITY (hate it hate it hate it! Where are you going, what are you doing, who are you with, why are you doing that? blah blah blah UGH)
- Bad hygiene (stinky breath and body odor turn me off!)
- Heavy Drinkers (no when to say when)
- Bar Flies (grow up)
- Guys that talk about their ex's constantly (if she was that bad, why were you with her to begin with and what are you going to say behind my back?), keeping with that same topic... Guys that have nothing nice to say about their ex's.
- Dead beat dads (if you have kids)
- Night dwellers (even God took a break)
- Guys that don't have a valid driver's license (you would be surprised)
- Guys that have served any amount of time in Jail (not looking to play the role of Bonnie)
- Guys that have a Police Record of any kind.
There is nothing more appealing than a guy who is secure enough with himself that he knows not to ask whether you like him. He just knows.
I can not handle or tolerate an insecure person. I am not your mommy; I will not appease your every little issue that you have. If you have issues or insecurities you shouldn’t be seeking a woman to see or spend time with. Go see a psychiatrist or psychologist and get help before you put someone else in the middle of your drama, it's not fair and it waste time. Time is too precious to waste on trying to sift through someone's emotional baggage.
We all have a story; some of us just want to move to the next chapter instead of dwelling on the last chapter. Get over it and move on!
Have a Great Day!
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| Personality Type: | Outgoing |
| Want To Find: | A man ages 40 to 51 to date |
| I Party: | Not very often |
Interests:
I Like: | Art, Cooking, Dancing, Hiking, Movies, Music, Reading, Theatre |
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| My Posts: | view all of my forum posts (1) |
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