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| Location: | Freeport Illinois |
| Zip Code: | 61032 |
| Age: | 46, Gemini |
| Height: | 5 ft. 10 in. |
| Hair, Eyes: | Black, Hazel |
| Body Type: | Athletic |
| Ethnicity: | White |
| Religion: | Other |
| Politics: | Moderate |
| Education: | High School |
| Income: | $25,000 - $50,000 |
| Job: | Self-Employed |
| Drink: | Drink Occasionally |
| Smoke: | Don't Smoke |
| Status: | Widowed |
| Have Kids: | Yes, living with me |
| Want More: | Didn't Say |
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| Personality |
and now you know the whole story? I am still not sold on this whole computer dating thing. everyone I know, I met and got to know in person. I still believe that the "face to face" is a very important part of meeting & getting to know someone.
life is way to short... to beat around the bush!
I am looking for a long term relationship, a life partner and a sole mate. I believe that a healthy relationship is one where boundaries and feelings are respected as well as wishes and needs are met. a place where partners play and fight fairly. a place that is safe to share, be open, vulnerable and where trust can grow. a place to find comfort and support.
being frank, respectful, honest, tender, sensitive & insightful are some of the characteristics I have and I want in my partner.
Passive aggressiveness, Denial & defensiveness are some behaviors that I find very frustrating
I like the simple things in life and I guess I would say I am a practical person. maybe a bit of a dreamer, inventor & creative type. adventurous yes...but not wild. I want to meet and see if there is a good foundation for friendship first.... but as far as the long term relationship. I enjoy spending as much time together as possible. I believe that a close and intimate relationship is very important. to touch and be touched, to enjoy each others sexuality as often as possible . to be comfortable showing each other affection whether is in private or public. to be able to communicate to each other about your wishes and pleasures, whether its during intimacy or just during a walk. to be able to communicate without inhibitions is something I really value.
I believe in eating healthy and staying in shape. I am looking for those same qualities in a partner. I believe physical attraction is very important. but I am not interested in high maintenance. inner beauty is also very important. but so is the quality to see each others inner beauty as well as seeing and expressing what you value about each other on a regular basis. making sure to keep on sharing the positive and not get trapped in focusing on negative (because of course we all have a negative side)
understanding that nobody is perfect and that problems, differences and conflict will occur. so the key to happiness is communication and conflict resolution. to be able to talk about and assert oneself in a healthy way is one of the most important skills a person and a couple need!
my wife died almost 9 years ago and I have had a lot of time to get to know myself. I certainly know, appreciate & value what it is to be and to have a partner. I do not want someone whom is not ready to build something very special. I do not want games or hidden agendas.
Photos are a must!!
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| Personality Type: | Outgoing |
| Want To Find: | A woman ages 35 to 48 to date |
| I Party: | Didn't Say |
Interests:
I Like: | adventurous, affection, Beauty, Computer, creative, dating, eating, eating healthy, games, healthy, honesty, intimacy, intimate, long term, long term relationship, Sensitive, sharing, simple things, staying in, Staying in shape, things |
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