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| Location: | Wyandotte Michigan |
| Zip Code: | 48192 |
| Age: | 29, Taurus |
| Height: | 5 ft. 0 in. |
| Hair, Eyes: | Dark Brown, Brown |
| Body Type: | Slender |
| Ethnicity: | White |
| Religion: | Christian |
| Politics: | Not quite sure |
| Education: | Some College |
| Income: | $25,000 - $50,000 |
| Job: | Healthcare |
| Drink: | Drink Socially |
| Smoke: | Don't Smoke |
| Status: | Single |
| Have Kids: | Yes, living with me |
| Want More: | Yes |
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| Personality |
I am a 29 year old female with kind of a unique situation. I am looking for a 28+ SWM, but younger than 40. The qualities for a man that I require are: 1) you must be extremely family oriented (i'll explain this later). 2) No drugs (this includes pot), and only drink socially. 3) Mature. 4) Happy with your life. 5) Honest. 6) Non-abusive (verbal or physical) / non-controlling. 7) Stable in your life (job, home, etc). That doesn't mean you have to be loaded because I could care less one way or the other. This just means that you need to have a job and can at least support yourself.
So here comes the story. I am a phlebotomist (I draw blood), I have worked for a local hospital system for several years. I also have one son, age 2. Here's the bad part... I am married. I am married to a good for nothing 48 year old, pothead, drunk, man who does nothing but verbally abuse me, and has shoved me into a table twice. He is very miserable, I get blamed for everything even when it's obvious it had nothing to do with me. He works, then comes home and blames me for his hard day at work. We have a child together, and he is not even a father to him. He doesn't play with him, and only pretends to be a 'dad' when he is around other people. I was forced to quit my job because he refused to pay for child care or let my family watch my son. I am in the process of moving in with my best friend, getting my job back, and starting over fresh. I desperately need to be rid from this miserable man. This is why I require a man that is deeply family oriented. If you want kids someday, I want you to be involved with your kids, not shut them out and blame them for every miserable part of your life. If you already have kids, great. It's no problem for me. I absolutely love children.
Enough of that, more about me. I'm a very shy girl, but very nice too. I hold my own in my little world. I have my son, my family, and my best friend forever. I have a few friends that I rarely hang out with, but I have my best friend and we are like sisters. I like to be mature, but I also love to act immature at least once a year... and by that I mean going to Cedar Point or to the beach. See, my current guy thinks it's immature to do either of those things. I also LOVE to go to festivals, fireworks, and go on vacation. I recently got to go to Disney World for the very first time with my best friend and her family and we had an awesome time. Unfortunately, I paid for it when I got back by getting shoved into a table and told how miserable I was because I wanted to show my son a great time. My friend wouldn't let him go (because she hates him for who he is), and he didn't want too anyway because "he is too old for that shit" he says. Did I say he was miserable?
I'm rather short, at 5 feet tall, but I am slender. I consider myself Caucasian, but I am darker in color because my mom is hungarian / greek and my dad is Mexican. I don't hang out with the latino side of my family because our lifestyles seriously clash, and my dad hasn't spoke to me in numerous years. I'm not on welfare, and I don't get any state benefits. I sustain myself and my son. As soon as I get back on my feet I will be independent.
I was trying to hang on for our son, but it just won't work.
I enjoy all sorts of movies and television shows as well. I love to cook, so naturally I watch Food Network shows, House, Hell's Kitchen, etc.
Do I sound complicated yet? I'm really not... I'm not on the "rebound". I have been ready to go for at least a year, so it's not like I'm mourning my loss or anything. I'm just look for a new start on life, with someone who is relatively happy and fun. I don't "party", but I used to throw a birthday bash or two that were fun.
If I haven't scared you off yet..... please take a minute to contact me. I'm sure there must be someone out there who can look past some flaws and see me for who I really am. That's all I'm looking for, someone to appreciate me and make me feel special.
PS: No, I am not interested in any NSA meetings or other one nighters for sure! I will be taking it slow, because i'm nervous about the internet dating thing, so you may have to be patient with me a bit.
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| Personality Type: | Outgoing |
| Want To Find: | A man ages 28 to 38 to date |
| I Party: | Not very often |
Interests: I Like: | cedar point, children, disney, doctor, festivals, fireworks, hell's kitchen, honest, mature, medical, phlebotomy, son |
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