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8/26/2013 7:19:52 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
onlythebestest
Over 1,000 Posts (1,233)
Austin, TX
40, joined May. 2013


I'm just wondering about this...advice?




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8/26/2013 7:21:22 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
christian126
New York, NY
24, joined Aug. 2013


Care for her .make money Take care of the kids

8/26/2013 7:22:42 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
hookupi7
Mesa, AZ
24, joined Aug. 2013


Well, every males starts with the puppy dog being nice sweet do everything or anything for the female he likes, when males get older they get smart. 75% of males know the saying if ya want lets do this, if not see ya later



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8/26/2013 7:25:07 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
beer_goggles
Mechanicsburg, PA
38, joined Apr. 2013


I give people the same amount of respect, as they provide. To give more or less, is detrimental either way.

8/26/2013 7:27:43 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
onlythebestest
Over 1,000 Posts (1,233)
Austin, TX
40, joined May. 2013


Quote from smartwithsparks:
If he needs a manual,,,he isnt worth your time




8/26/2013 7:33:12 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
ufcfan_1
Glen Allen, VA
44, joined Aug. 2013


If a man is not making the woman feel as if she is special, delicate, loved, beautiful, smart, funny, important, sexy, and HIS priority...then someone else is waiting to do all of that (and more) for her...

8/26/2013 7:33:57 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
hookupi7
Mesa, AZ
24, joined Aug. 2013


Idk..everybody has a story to tell I guess and a reason with the way they're living they're lives. eh's



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8/26/2013 7:36:25 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
onlythebestest
Over 1,000 Posts (1,233)
Austin, TX
40, joined May. 2013


Quote from ufcfan_1:
If a man is not making the woman feel as if she is special, delicate, loved, beautiful, smart, funny, important, sexy, and HIS priority...then someone else is waiting to do all of that (and more) for her...



....but if a man is making her feel like she is constantly doing something wrong...then there is a problem...things can't be good for a few days,& then go bad....like always.

8/26/2013 7:38:05 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
ufcfan_1
Glen Allen, VA
44, joined Aug. 2013


True. Dump him and move on...

8/26/2013 7:40:50 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
hookupi7
Mesa, AZ
24, joined Aug. 2013


I tell my family I turned into a sex addict after my first love from high school messed me up I don't trust or waste anymore time on females. I've never been the same for more then 5years. 98% of males I knows what Im talking about



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8/26/2013 7:41:27 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
onlythebestest
Over 1,000 Posts (1,233)
Austin, TX
40, joined May. 2013


Quote from 12felix:
look, the attention wh*re showed up to the thread dedication


be nice

8/26/2013 7:42:02 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
pallazar
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,196)
Buffalo, NY
97, joined Jul. 2013


Quote from onlythebestest:
I'm just wondering about this...advice?


Based on her actions.

8/26/2013 7:42:29 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 

hbca32
Over 2,000 Posts (2,850)
Huntington Beach, CA
35, joined Aug. 2013


1. Treat her like garbage

2. Treat her like a whôre

3. Take her money

4. Make her buy you things

5. Marry her and talk half the stuff














Oh,sorry . Thought it said how NOT to treat a woman



8/26/2013 7:42:30 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
onlythebestest
Over 1,000 Posts (1,233)
Austin, TX
40, joined May. 2013


Quote from ufcfan_1:
True. Dump him and move on...


Really?.....wow

8/26/2013 7:43:23 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 

txrose64
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (30,691)
Pearland, TX
53, joined Jan. 2013


Quote from macomatic:
This can't be serious but

Do unto others as you wish done to you

Unless your into freaky shit. Then don't till your sure they do



I'm with Maco, on that one, "freaky sh*t" included!!

you don't know if you're not being treated well OP?? advise on??

8/26/2013 7:47:35 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 

bluecougareyes
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (27,737)
Chelan, WA
72, joined Nov. 2008


There all different, so you just have to play along with their different personalities and hope you get it right for them and them alone!

If THEY don't get it right. You know they did not read the book. " MEN & Who They Are "

OR

The book

" Men are from Mars - Woman are from Venus "..

8/26/2013 7:50:40 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
jimbo_bumpkin
Tahlequah, OK
43, joined Aug. 2013


I think ultimately all women pretty much want the same thing which is to Feel loved, Appreciated and needed and safe while having their opinions respected and listened to even when they may occasionally babble(some do this) all want feeling and compassion and to ultimately know you need them but not so much they have to escape you to buy some freedom which boils down to Trust and Faith.

Ohh I cannot leave out the Princess Factor, If she has female parts I do not care how independent or brash or abrasive or tough she is ultimately she wants you to treat her like a Princess if not often occasionally.

Having said all this though they are evil as a damn race/Sex

8/26/2013 7:50:59 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
hookupi7
Mesa, AZ
24, joined Aug. 2013


I hate sharing my life



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8/26/2013 7:51:01 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 

hbca32
Over 2,000 Posts (2,850)
Huntington Beach, CA
35, joined Aug. 2013


Men are from Earth

Women are from Hades

8/26/2013 7:59:01 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
bexr34
Appleton, WI
38, joined May. 2013


Just do not treat her like some slab of meat and respect her opinions?

8/26/2013 8:00:49 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
christian126
New York, NY
24, joined Aug. 2013


Quote from bexr34:
Just do not treat her like some slab of meat and respect her opinions?


8/26/2013 8:01:59 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
onlythebestest
Over 1,000 Posts (1,233)
Austin, TX
40, joined May. 2013


Quote from spanky250:
Come on, really? You're 37 years old, and you don't know how to tell if you're being treated with respect?

Respect isn't complicated. It's a combination of common courtesy, honesty, directness, talking and listening, being polite, and being fair.

In a nutshell, it's just the old adage "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you."...


You are right...respect should not be complicated,but it seems to be....

8/26/2013 8:06:54 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
tvc1171986
Over 1,000 Posts (1,661)
Long Beach, CA
30, joined Aug. 2013


I treat each woman based on the way they act. They want to be disrespectful I ignore them. Not worth my time. If they act nice and respectable I show respect.

8/26/2013 8:09:13 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 

bluecougareyes
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (27,737)
Chelan, WA
72, joined Nov. 2008


Quote from onlythebestest:
You are right...respect should not be complicated,but it seems to be....

.
LOVELY >> onlythebestest:.....

Age:...........37, Gemini
Height:........5 ft. 5 in.
Hair, Eyes:... Dark Brown, Brown
Body:..........Slender
Ethnicity:.....Hispanic....

Do tell.. is your bf mistreating you ?

8/26/2013 8:11:23 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 

luckovich
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,966)
White Plains, NY
37, joined Jun. 2013


Quote from onlythebestest:
I'm just wondering about this...advice?

_____

I don't believe we've met. I'm Luckovich, but my friends call me Luck.
Would you like to have intercourse some time?

8/26/2013 8:22:57 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 

claudius5
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,941)
Petaluma, CA
67, joined May. 2009


A man knows because it's the core of who he is as a person.

8/26/2013 8:37:06 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
onlythebestest
Over 1,000 Posts (1,233)
Austin, TX
40, joined May. 2013


Quote from my2ndtimehere:
that is something you will have to answer yourself...based on your own self-worth and common sense..

questions like this make me wonder if half the world is incapable of having a coherent thought.


how long should I wait to call him
how many dates should be have before going steady
etc
etc.....are our questions from the brain dead, who always rely on public/peer opinions before doing anything.....they're total lemmings.

I check mark these questions as huge red flags


Stfu

8/26/2013 8:40:16 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
oijyg
New York, NY
25, joined Dec. 2012


You should treat a woman like a dish rag!those filthy dirty wh*re!

8/26/2013 8:44:25 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 

touch1025
Over 1,000 Posts (1,275)
Ann Arbor, MI
36, joined Jul. 2012


Quote from onlythebestest:
I'm just wondering about this...advice?







I'm assuming you didn't have a positive father figure in your life.

There are a number of things, and it can be difficult to know this unless you had/have a MAN in your life that truly love you and only want the best for you.

8/26/2013 8:45:54 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
twistedfaith
Over 2,000 Posts (3,022)
Pico Rivera, CA
57, joined Dec. 2011


different from what he does a lady...

8/26/2013 8:46:08 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 

bluecougareyes
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (27,737)
Chelan, WA
72, joined Nov. 2008


I know Exactly....

“ Women want a man who is strong but not brutish, sensitive but not feminine, in control of himself but not controlling her; Kind to the weak, makes her laugh, mischievous and fun, can pick her up (literally) and carry her away.

~ To let her be a woman and show her strength-and her nurturing; Make her dizzy with anticipation, can read her body and emotions and knows how to touch and tease her until she wants to burst from the tension.

~ Doesn't need to be told what to do in bed-that leads her into sexual adventures and pays attention to her responses to take her just where and just as far as she is ready for....

~ In sum:  A Women want it All !!! “

8/26/2013 8:50:50 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
oijyg
New York, NY
25, joined Dec. 2012


Racist

8/26/2013 8:52:21 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
ninjababeisback
Houston, TX
38, joined Aug. 2013


All grown men know how to treat a woman with care and respect.

Some offer it genuinely because they care for a woman.
Some feign it to get what they want from a woman.
Some say "f*ck it" and deal with wh*res instead.

8/26/2013 8:56:14 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
callmemoney
Miami, FL
28, joined Jul. 2013


What's with the hatred? I believe it was just a question for conversation/opinions. Why bash OP just for asking?

8/26/2013 8:56:16 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 

touch1025
Over 1,000 Posts (1,275)
Ann Arbor, MI
36, joined Jul. 2012


A better question is what type of man to avoid?


http://www.lifescript.com/life/relationships/love-101/date_at_your_own_risk.aspx

8/26/2013 8:59:15 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
onlythebestest
Over 1,000 Posts (1,233)
Austin, TX
40, joined May. 2013


Quote from touch1025:
I'm assuming you didn't have a positive father figure in your life.

There are a number of things, and it can be difficult to know this unless you had/have a MAN in your life that truly love you and only want the best for you.


Quite the contrary....my dad is my best friend

8/26/2013 8:59:35 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
oijyg
New York, NY
25, joined Dec. 2012


Treat her like the dirty rotten filthy wh*re that she is!

8/26/2013 9:01:07 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 

bluecougareyes
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (27,737)
Chelan, WA
72, joined Nov. 2008


Quote from touch1025:
A better question is what type of man to avoid?


http://www.lifescript.com/life/relationships/love-101/date_at_your_own_risk.aspx


Wisdom... .... SMILES

8/26/2013 9:01:43 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
ninjababeisback
Houston, TX
38, joined Aug. 2013


Quote from spanky250:
I don't think that's true. Some men (and some women) truly are cold uncaring and cruel, and don't give a damn how they treat or use other people.


Not caring how you treat others is not the same as not knowing.

Sociopaths, in fact, often have the most sophisticated knowledge/understanding of human emotions so as to better mimmick and manipulate them.



[Edited 8/26/2013 9:02:51 PM ]

8/26/2013 9:03:33 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 

luckovich
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,966)
White Plains, NY
37, joined Jun. 2013


Define "respect".

8/26/2013 9:04:24 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
onlythebestest
Over 1,000 Posts (1,233)
Austin, TX
40, joined May. 2013


Quote from my2ndtimehere:
many people seem to be answering the wrong question...she's asking us how she should be treated..

like she doesn't have thoughts about how she wants to be treated....or at least that's what I took it to mean




8/26/2013 9:06:39 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 

luckovich
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,966)
White Plains, NY
37, joined Jun. 2013


Now I understand.
As a man, I generally don't think anything unless a women tells me I should.
That's life though.

8/26/2013 9:07:31 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
jimbo_bumpkin
Tahlequah, OK
43, joined Aug. 2013


Quote from spanky250:
I don't think that's true. Some men (and some women) truly are cold uncaring and cruel, and don't give a damn how they treat or use other people.



I agree, some men have no idea or are not capable of treating a woman correctly and some woman have no understanding what proper treatment is/or how to accept proper treatment.

There are some really screwed up folks populating this world with us lol

8/26/2013 9:19:46 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
alls_fair
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (29,637)
Thorlákshöfn
Iceland
97, joined May. 2011


Spank her and give her clear instructions on how to please Master...

8/26/2013 9:26:30 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 

touch1025
Over 1,000 Posts (1,275)
Ann Arbor, MI
36, joined Jul. 2012


Quote from onlythebestest:
Quite the contrary....my dad is my best friend




Then you should already know, and you're just asking a random question.

8/26/2013 9:36:29 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
ninjababeisback
Houston, TX
38, joined Aug. 2013


Quote from spanky250:
While that's true (and a good point), I still believe that there are more people than you think that truly do not know how to treat people with any sense of decency, having never been treated as such themselves. And invariably, as they treat people the way they have always been treated, they will vehemently adhere to the belief that they aren't doing anything wrong.


I stick by my use of the universal "All".

People who've been the subject of mistreatment recognize that there is something painful and wrong about it, so their knowledge of what's "right" comes by contrast.

Those people either choose to treat people the right way because they missed out receiving it or they choose to treat people with disregard because they don't care to give what they didn't get.

In ALL cases though, people know how they should engage others.

8/26/2013 10:01:05 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 

alexander3721
Over 1,000 Posts (1,717)
Albany, GA
60, joined Mar. 2013


In my life I have found far more often than not if you treat a woman like a lady she will act as such.

8/26/2013 10:18:12 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 

mva_0615
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,843)
Avon Lake, OH
48, joined Aug. 2013


If you're asking this question then I think that you have never been or currently aren't being treated or respected as you should be and you probably know that deep down inside. It's time to break the cycle and realize that you deserve better and move on.

Best of luck to you

8/26/2013 10:23:31 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
onlythebestest
Over 1,000 Posts (1,233)
Austin, TX
40, joined May. 2013


Quote from mva_0615:
If you're asking this question then I think that you have never been or currently aren't being treated or respected as you should be and you probably know that deep down inside. It's time to break the cycle and realize that you deserve better and move on.

Best of luck to you




8/26/2013 10:40:40 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
1shortnsweet
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,088)
Reading, PA
62, joined Aug. 2011


Quote from ufcfan_1:
If a man is not making the woman feel as if she is special, delicate, loved, beautiful, smart, funny, important, sexy, and HIS priority...then someone else is waiting to do all of that (and more) for her...




Exactly - goes both ways. If a woman doesn't make him feel special another woman will too.

8/26/2013 10:47:08 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 

lac711
Phoenix, AZ
50, joined May. 2013


Quote from ufcfan_1:
If a man is not making the woman feel as if she is special, delicate, loved, beautiful, smart, funny, important, sexy, and HIS priority...then someone else is waiting to do all of that (and more) for her...


8/26/2013 10:47:57 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
crystaldawnpal
Ågård
Denmark
43, joined Jul. 2013


The way a women must do that for a man . Same thing .

8/26/2013 10:48:47 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
angelofhonesty
Over 2,000 Posts (2,315)
San Antonio, TX
47, joined Mar. 2009


REALLY !!!!!! Is this a trick question or are you really naive or just plain stupid, I'm in favor of just plain stupid. See this is why I'm portayed as a BIACH, yall make it too darn easy..GEEZ

8/26/2013 10:56:55 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
onlythebestest
Over 1,000 Posts (1,233)
Austin, TX
40, joined May. 2013


Quote from angelofhonesty:
REALLY !!!!!! Is this a trick question or are you really naive or just plain stupid, I'm in favor of just plain stupid. See this is why I'm portayed as a BIACH, yall make it too darn easy..GEEZ




8/26/2013 10:58:20 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
th6231
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (34,817)
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
69, joined Jul. 2007


Treat people the way you want to be treated. Man or woman--the advice is the same.

8/26/2013 11:02:02 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 

driver406
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (51,938)
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009


Don't nag, complain, criticize, talk down to him, humiliate him in public, act like he's a fool at best, cheat on him, treat him like a small boy, deny him loving, deny him your cooking now and then.

Treat HIM the way YOU want to be treated.

8/26/2013 11:11:26 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
1971lesprec
Tehachapi, CA
57, joined Apr. 2013


Treat her like a human being first, as a human who needs compassion understanding and feels comfortable. Then look at her as a female who has dreams hopes aspirations. Treat her like a person and not a piece of meat. Don't undress her with your mind and take care of her like if she was your best friend.

8/26/2013 11:19:24 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
ufcfan_1
Glen Allen, VA
44, joined Aug. 2013


OP asked a question. All of you other jackasses.... Focus your attention on me. I plan to focus my attention on you...

8/26/2013 11:26:09 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
oijyg
New York, NY
25, joined Dec. 2012


(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)

8/26/2013 11:28:51 PMHow is a man supposed to treat/respect a woman?..? 
ufcfan_1
Glen Allen, VA
44, joined Aug. 2013


Yawn. Waiting for the cowboys...