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11/23/2014 8:19:02 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
hardtwist
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,061)
Surprise, NE
48, joined Jun. 2009


What happened to all the nice guys?

The answer is simple: you passed them up.

See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a Platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you. He'd tag along with you when you went shopping, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn't feel like going out, or even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how horribly the (other) guy that you were f**king treated you.

At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how he was a little puppy dog, always following you around, trying to do things to get you to pay attention to him. They probably teased you because they thought he had a crush on you. Given that his behavior was, admittedly, a little pathetic, you vehemently denied having any romantic feelings for him, and buttressed your position by claiming that you were "just friends." Besides, he totally wasn't your type. I mean, he was a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too poor, or didn't know how to dress himself, or basically be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish boyfriend at the time pulled off with such ease.

Eventually, your Platonic buddy drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious and spending time with this other guy was, admittedly, a little weird, if you weren't dating him. More time passed, and the boyfriend eventually cheated on you, or became boring, or you realized that the things that attracted you to him weren't the kinds of things that make for a good, long-term relationship. So, now, you're single again, and after having tried the bar scene for several months having only encountered players and douche bags, you wonder, "What happened to all the nice guys?"

Well, once again, you did.

You ignored the nice guy. You used him for emotional intimacy without reciprocating, in kind, with physical intimacy. You laughed at his consideration and resented his devotion. You valued the aloof boyfriend more than the attentive "just-a-" friend. Eventually, he took the hint and moved on with his life. He probably came to realize, one day, that women aren't really attracted to guys who hold doors open; or make dinners just because; or buy you a Christmas gift that you mentioned, in passing, that you really wanted five months ago; or listen when you're upset; or hold you when you cry. He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he'd have to act more like the boyfriend that you had. He probably cleaned up his look, started making some money, and generally acted like more of an a**hole than he ever wanted to be.

Fact is, now, he's probably getting laid, and in a way, your ultimate rejection of him is to thank for that. And I'm sorry that it took the complete absence of "nice guys" in your life for you to realize that you missed them and wanted them. Most women will only have a handful of nice guys stumble into their lives, if that.

So, if you're looking for a nice guy, here's what you do:

1.) Build a time machine.
2.) Go back a few years and pull your head out of your ass.
3.) Take a look at what's right in front of you and grab a hold of it.

I suppose the other possibility is that you STILL don't really want a nice guy, but you feel the social pressure to at least appear to have matured beyond your infantile taste in men. In which case, you might be in luck, because the nice guy you claim to want has, in reality, shed his nice guy mantle and is out there looking to unleash his cynicism and resentment onto someone just like you.

If you were five years younger.

So, please: either stop misrepresenting what you want, or own up to the fact that you've f**ked yourself over. You're getting older, after all. It's time to excise the bullshit and deal with reality. You didn't want a nice guy then, and he certainly doesn't f**king want you, now.

Sincerely,

A Recovering Nice Guy

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11/23/2014 8:26:57 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

italianroyalty
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,358)
London
United Kingdom
23, joined Jul. 2014


Well.. Someone seems to be holding a grudge..

11/23/2014 8:30:56 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
24milkduds
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,783)
San Francisco, CA
58, joined Mar. 2012


That was deep!

I had a guy friend just like that...I married him..17 years until his passing a few years ago. best 17 years of my life...

11/23/2014 8:36:00 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
eyeslikeglass
Queensland
Australia
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11/23/2014 8:37:52 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
hardtwist
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,061)
Surprise, NE
48, joined Jun. 2009


Quote from italianroyalty:
Well.. Someone seems to be holding a grudge..




That was actually penned by an amateur MMA fighter. It does hold some truth. Out of boredom, I resurrected it.

11/23/2014 8:41:45 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

damsel876
Osceola, AR
31, joined Jul. 2013


The words "I want a nice guy" have never come out of this mouth.


I just asked for a guy who can BBQ and willingly handed over his wallet.

11/23/2014 8:45:28 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
d__u__b
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,095)
Athens, GA
52, joined Jul. 2012


somebody missed a golden opportunity to mention weight and looks.
it could have ballooned into fat and hag thread territories as well.



[Edited 11/23/2014 8:45:40 PM ]

11/23/2014 8:49:06 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

mikey20928
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,042)
Andersonville, TN
36, joined Jun. 2014


Too many words are a real b*tch, OP.. Can you condense that??

11/23/2014 8:49:51 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
hardtwist
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,061)
Surprise, NE
48, joined Jun. 2009


d u d I'm giving the fat hags a break.They get picked on enough

11/23/2014 8:51:08 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
silverspoons01
Kansas City, MO
39, joined Nov. 2014


fat and haggy threads? that's an idea

11/23/2014 8:51:24 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
hardtwist
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,061)
Surprise, NE
48, joined Jun. 2009


Quote from mikey20928:
Too many words are a real b*tch, OP.. Can you condense that??




Naw. I can read multiple paragraphs. No ADD here

11/23/2014 8:53:04 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
mindya
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (23,579)
Vancouver, BC
64, joined Jan. 2009


Quote from d__u__b:
somebody missed a golden opportunity to mention weight and looks.
it could have ballooned into fat and hag thread territories as well.


Give it time...

11/23/2014 8:53:48 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

italianroyalty
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,358)
London
United Kingdom
23, joined Jul. 2014


Quote from mikey20928:
Too many words are a real b*tch



Hahaha.. What are you saying mikey? You need it to be made shorter so you can read it.

11/23/2014 8:56:01 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
silverspoons01
Kansas City, MO
39, joined Nov. 2014


hey Italian remember you have the power to boot mikey off ur thread

11/23/2014 8:56:25 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
d__u__b
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,095)
Athens, GA
52, joined Jul. 2012


Quote from hardtwist:
...They get picked on enough


seems you did too. still hurt too.
have you considered talking to someone about it so you can move forward in a healthy manner... perhaps even learn how to have that meaningful relationship with the one of the ones that got away?

11/23/2014 9:06:30 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

ibane
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,210)
Zanesville, OH
46, joined Feb. 2014


Quote from hardtwist:
What happened to all the nice guys?

The answer is simple: you passed them up.

See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a Platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you. He'd tag along with you when you went shopping, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn't feel like going out, or even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how horribly the (other) guy that you were f**king treated you.

At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how he was a little puppy dog, always following you around, trying to do things to get you to pay attention to him. They probably teased you because they thought he had a crush on you. Given that his behavior was, admittedly, a little pathetic, you vehemently denied having any romantic feelings for him, and buttressed your position by claiming that you were "just friends." Besides, he totally wasn't your type. I mean, he was a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too poor, or didn't know how to dress himself, or basically be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish boyfriend at the time pulled off with such ease.

Eventually, your Platonic buddy drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious and spending time with this other guy was, admittedly, a little weird, if you weren't dating him. More time passed, and the boyfriend eventually cheated on you, or became boring, or you realized that the things that attracted you to him weren't the kinds of things that make for a good, long-term relationship. So, now, you're single again, and after having tried the bar scene for several months having only encountered players and douche bags, you wonder, "What happened to all the nice guys?"

Well, once again, you did.

You ignored the nice guy. You used him for emotional intimacy without reciprocating, in kind, with physical intimacy. You laughed at his consideration and resented his devotion. You valued the aloof boyfriend more than the attentive "just-a-" friend. Eventually, he took the hint and moved on with his life. He probably came to realize, one day, that women aren't really attracted to guys who hold doors open; or make dinners just because; or buy you a Christmas gift that you mentioned, in passing, that you really wanted five months ago; or listen when you're upset; or hold you when you cry. He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he'd have to act more like the boyfriend that you had. He probably cleaned up his look, started making some money, and generally acted like more of an a**hole than he ever wanted to be.

Fact is, now, he's probably getting laid, and in a way, your ultimate rejection of him is to thank for that. And I'm sorry that it took the complete absence of "nice guys" in your life for you to realize that you missed them and wanted them. Most women will only have a handful of nice guys stumble into their lives, if that.

So, if you're looking for a nice guy, here's what you do:

1.) Build a time machine.
2.) Go back a few years and pull your head out of your ass.
3.) Take a look at what's right in front of you and grab a hold of it.

I suppose the other possibility is that you STILL don't really want a nice guy, but you feel the social pressure to at least appear to have matured beyond your infantile taste in men. In which case, you might be in luck, because the nice guy you claim to want has, in reality, shed his nice guy mantle and is out there looking to unleash his cynicism and resentment onto someone just like you.

If you were five years younger.

So, please: either stop misrepresenting what you want, or own up to the fact that you've f**ked yourself over. You're getting older, after all. It's time to excise the bullshit and deal with reality. You didn't want a nice guy then, and he certainly doesn't f**king want you, now.

Sincerely,

A Recovering Nice Guy

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------







That........^^^^^^^^^^^^^ was fkn awesome and worth quoting again.

Alot of em dont even know wtf they want.



And even the ones who do ....still find stuff to bich about even after they get it.

11/23/2014 9:16:11 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
flyfish77
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (25,305)
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014


every one on here seemsto be,,,,,,

11/23/2014 9:22:04 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

beverduster
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (57,070)
La Feria, TX
52, joined Apr. 2008


where are the pictures?

11/23/2014 9:34:54 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
ahleah4mriris
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,012)
Fort Worth, TX
46, joined Jul. 2014


Honestly, this thread was too long to read.

So ...what is this thread about anyway?...Anyone...?



11/23/2014 9:36:58 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

ibane
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,210)
Zanesville, OH
46, joined Feb. 2014


Quote from ahleah4mriris:
Honestly, this thread was too long to read.

So ...what is this thread about anyway?...Anyone...?



Women always bichin bout stuff.

Even the when they got the stuff they asked for.

And I agree

11/23/2014 9:37:50 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

want2bnlove2013
Fort Wayne, IN
38, joined Apr. 2013


I find it to be a nice, honest thread. It probably is true. However, I've been kind of the quiet, shy type that I didn't really have "just a friend" like this.

11/23/2014 9:40:47 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

mikey20928
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,042)
Andersonville, TN
36, joined Jun. 2014


Quote from italianroyalty:
Hahaha.. What are you saying mikey? You need it to be made shorter so you can read it.


I want it shorter so it doesn't sound like some Scarecrow bullshit

11/23/2014 9:48:21 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

ibane
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,210)
Zanesville, OH
46, joined Feb. 2014




11/23/2014 9:57:00 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
Karmakicked
Rocky Mount, VA
40, joined Oct. 2014
online now!


<<<< dates nice guys.

11/23/2014 9:57:00 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
24milkduds
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,783)
San Francisco, CA
58, joined Mar. 2012


Quote from ibane:
Women always bichin bout stuff.

Even the when they got the stuff they asked for.

And I agree



^^^i didn't read that...it's about how some women pass up that nice guy...later to regret or not...either way, I had a few friends do this, pass up the nice guy for whatever reasons and later regret...I'm sure men have done this too!
kudos to the original writer..

And by the way...men complain too...js

11/23/2014 10:00:39 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

ibane
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,210)
Zanesville, OH
46, joined Feb. 2014


I hear ya duds...and yes we do.



I just wonder why he would be good enough now...if he wasn't before.

11/23/2014 10:09:09 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

gotheon123
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,185)
Apex, NC
49, joined Jul. 2013


Other than one exception, I've only ever dated nice men. they had to be nice men that "I" found attractive.

I've said it before......

I'm a nice woman, have a job, I'm not too hideous to look at, I'm a pretty good cook and I have all my teeth.

That doesn't mean that every man looking for a nice woman to date is going to be interested in me.

I'm just sick to death of the poor me nice guy threads. Y'all don't date women just because they're nice, you date women you're attracted to, get over yourself.

11/23/2014 10:12:34 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

eyesofmedusa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (45,661)
San Antonio, TX
52, joined Jun. 2012


And no man..............

Had a caring woman....kind...cute/pretty....who listened to his dreams....had his back....

Answered the phone at 2 am when that "hot sexy af ...great in bed" crazy b*tch threw him out...set his stuff on fire.......was found in bed with his best friend.....

Who let him sleep on her couch....made him something to eat.......listened to him vent for hours if not days ........

Only to see him go back to the crazy.......over and over again...........

She would tell him over and over he was worth more...cause she saw more in him than he saw in himself..........

Slowly she retreated...........some wonderful man saw the wonderful in her...........and she vanished ...........

No man ever saw her later........with her man...her smile....her glow............

And thought..................damn.

Nooooooooooooooo this never happened at all........

So............on behalf of all of the former.......IGAF woman.......we DGAF now.

Welcome to Reality Op............ppl have done damage........to both sides.



11/23/2014 10:13:50 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

gotheon123
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,185)
Apex, NC
49, joined Jul. 2013


Quote from eyesofmedusa:
And no man..............

Had a caring woman....kind...cute/pretty....who listened to his dreams....had his back....

Answered the phone at 2 am when that "hot sexy af ...great in bed" crazy b*tch threw him out...set his stuff on fire.......was found in bed with his best friend.....

Who let him sleep on her couch....made him something to eat.......listened to him vent for hours if not days ........

Only to see him go back to the crazy.......over and over again...........

She would tell him over and over he was worth more...cause she saw more in him than he saw in himself..........

Slowly she retreated...........some wonderful man saw the wonderful in her...........and she vanished ...........

No man ever saw her later........with her man...her smile....her glow............

And thought..................damn.

Nooooooooooooooo this never happened at all........

So............on behalf of all of the former.......IGAF woman.......we DGAF now.

Welcome to Reality Op............ppl have done damage........to both sides.






Worth quoting again




You said it perfectly

11/23/2014 10:15:31 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

eyesofmedusa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (45,661)
San Antonio, TX
52, joined Jun. 2012


GoGo

11/23/2014 10:15:32 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

browneyz
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (26,166)
San Diego, CA
98, joined Jan. 2008


Yep, insert nice girl, same results. Think back.............

11/23/2014 10:16:48 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

eyesofmedusa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (45,661)
San Antonio, TX
52, joined Jun. 2012


Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh No Brown..........it is ONLY women who over look nice ppl............

Not the men..........no no no no no............

11/23/2014 10:26:16 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

browneyz
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (26,166)
San Diego, CA
98, joined Jan. 2008


Quote from eyesofmedusa:
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh No Brown..........it is ONLY women who over look nice ppl............

Not the men..........no no no no no............
Silly me, forgot where I was for a minute.... Eyes!

11/23/2014 10:31:27 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
hardtwist
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,061)
Surprise, NE
48, joined Jun. 2009


Quote from eyesofmedusa:
And no man..............

Had a caring woman....kind...cute/pretty....who listened to his dreams....had his back....

Answered the phone at 2 am when that "hot sexy af ...great in bed" crazy b*tch threw him out...set his stuff on fire.......was found in bed with his best friend.....

Who let him sleep on her couch....made him something to eat.......listened to him vent for hours if not days ........

Only to see him go back to the crazy.......over and over again...........

She would tell him over and over he was worth more...cause she saw more in him than he saw in himself..........

Slowly she retreated...........some wonderful man saw the wonderful in her...........and she vanished ...........

No man ever saw her later........with her man...her smile....her glow............

And thought..................damn.

Nooooooooooooooo this never happened at all........

So............on behalf of all of the former.......IGAF woman.......we DGAF now.

Welcome to Reality Op............ppl have done damage........to both sides.





Well eyes, I found a IGAF woman.

11/23/2014 10:32:00 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

missgioia
Over 2,000 Posts (2,083)
Athens, GA
53, joined May. 2014


Quote from hardtwist:
What happened to all the nice guys?

The answer is simple: you passed them up.

See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a Platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you. He'd tag along with you when you went shopping, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn't feel like going out, or even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how horribly the (other) guy that you were f**king treated you.

At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how he was a little puppy dog, always following you around, trying to do things to get you to pay attention to him. They probably teased you because they thought he had a crush on you. Given that his behavior was, admittedly, a little pathetic, you vehemently denied having any romantic feelings for him, and buttressed your position by claiming that you were "just friends." Besides, he totally wasn't your type. I mean, he was a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too poor, or didn't know how to dress himself, or basically be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish boyfriend at the time pulled off with such ease.

Eventually, your Platonic buddy drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious and spending time with this other guy was, admittedly, a little weird, if you weren't dating him. More time passed, and the boyfriend eventually cheated on you, or became boring, or you realized that the things that attracted you to him weren't the kinds of things that make for a good, long-term relationship. So, now, you're single again, and after having tried the bar scene for several months having only encountered players and douche bags, you wonder, "What happened to all the nice guys?"

Well, once again, you did.

You ignored the nice guy. You used him for emotional intimacy without reciprocating, in kind, with physical intimacy. You laughed at his consideration and resented his devotion. You valued the aloof boyfriend more than the attentive "just-a-" friend. Eventually, he took the hint and moved on with his life. He probably came to realize, one day, that women aren't really attracted to guys who hold doors open; or make dinners just because; or buy you a Christmas gift that you mentioned, in passing, that you really wanted five months ago; or listen when you're upset; or hold you when you cry. He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he'd have to act more like the boyfriend that you had. He probably cleaned up his look, started making some money, and generally acted like more of an a**hole than he ever wanted to be.

Fact is, now, he's probably getting laid, and in a way, your ultimate rejection of him is to thank for that. And I'm sorry that it took the complete absence of "nice guys" in your life for you to realize that you missed them and wanted them. Most women will only have a handful of nice guys stumble into their lives, if that.

So, if you're looking for a nice guy, here's what you do:

1.) Build a time machine.
2.) Go back a few years and pull your head out of your ass.
3.) Take a look at what's right in front of you and grab a hold of it.

I suppose the other possibility is that you STILL don't really want a nice guy, but you feel the social pressure to at least appear to have matured beyond your infantile taste in men. In which case, you might be in luck, because the nice guy you claim to want has, in reality, shed his nice guy mantle and is out there looking to unleash his cynicism and resentment onto someone just like you.

If you were five years younger.

So, please: either stop misrepresenting what you want, or own up to the fact that you've f**ked yourself over. You're getting older, after all. It's time to excise the bullshit and deal with reality. You didn't want a nice guy then, and he certainly doesn't f**king want you, now.

Sincerely,

A Recovering Nice Guy

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------


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[Edited 11/23/2014 10:33:44 PM ]

11/23/2014 10:33:21 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
hardtwist
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,061)
Surprise, NE
48, joined Jun. 2009


Quote from d__u__b:
seems you did too. still hurt too.
have you considered talking to someone about it so you can move forward in a healthy manner... perhaps even learn how to have that meaningful relationship with the one of the ones that got away?





As a counselor, you would not find success. Your profiling sucks as well. I'm assuming you're a shit stirrer.

11/23/2014 10:39:35 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

missgioia
Over 2,000 Posts (2,083)
Athens, GA
53, joined May. 2014


Quote from hardtwist:
As a counselor, you would not find success. Your profiling sucks as well. I'm assuming you're a shit stirrer.


The counselor's I know avoid assuming

But, as a layperson,I sense you are butt hurt in you

11/23/2014 10:42:07 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

missgioia
Over 2,000 Posts (2,083)
Athens, GA
53, joined May. 2014


Quote from missgioia:
The counselor's I know avoid assuming

But, as a layperson,I sense butt hurt in you


11/23/2014 10:47:57 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
hardtwist
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,061)
Surprise, NE
48, joined Jun. 2009


Quote from missgioia:
The counselor's I know avoid assuming

But, as a layperson,I sense you are butt hurt in you




Yaaawn...not even an elementary attempt on your part. I didn't pen the post. A friend did and BTW I've been in a relationship for 6 months.

11/23/2014 10:48:29 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

frandemarco3
Baltimore, MD
31, joined Jul. 2014


Quote from eyesofmedusa:
And no man..............

Had a caring woman....kind...cute/pretty....who listened to his dreams....had his back....

Answered the phone at 2 am when that "hot sexy af ...great in bed" crazy b*tch threw him out...set his stuff on fire.......was found in bed with his best friend.....

Who let him sleep on her couch....made him something to eat.......listened to him vent for hours if not days ........

Only to see him go back to the crazy.......over and over again...........

She would tell him over and over he was worth more...cause she saw more in him than he saw in

Here we f**king go













Slowly she retreated...........some wonderful man saw the wonderful in her...........and she vanished ...........

No man ever saw her later........with her man...her smile....her glow............




And thought..................damn.

Nooooooooooooooo this never happened at all........

So............on behalf of all of the former.......IGAF woman.......we DGAF now.

Welcome to Reality Op............ppl have done damage........to both sides.



11/23/2014 10:52:37 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
ahleah4mriris
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,012)
Fort Worth, TX
46, joined Jul. 2014


Quote from gotheon123:
Y'all don't date women just because they're nice, you date women you're attracted to, get over yourself.



Yeah, true. When was the last time I heard a guy say he was interested in meeting a 'nice' girl? 1989? But definitely not since the year 2000. See, the guys get all bent out of shape when we aren't interested in the 'nice' guy. But are they interested in the 'nice' girl? Of course NOT! aW, think it's time for me to go to bed now

11/23/2014 10:58:53 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

daaaabears
Angola, IN
37, joined Sep. 2014


U all just need to stop talking. I've never seen such sensitive people in my life. Grow some balls and shut the F**k up!!!!

11/23/2014 11:02:07 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

eyesofmedusa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (45,661)
San Antonio, TX
52, joined Jun. 2012


Quote from hardtwist:
Well eyes, I found a IGAF woman.


I am happy for you..............

However..............if you have a IGAF woman...why do you feel compelled to belittle the women of DH ?

Why do you attempt to make us look badly..........or feel badly ?

I could take a few guesses............but I am sure the smart women of DH......will follow suit with the ones above me............

And see right thru this bullshit to the real intent of it..........and the motivation behind it........



And Gio.................Oh damnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

11/23/2014 11:02:49 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
hardtwist
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Quote from ahleah4mriris:
Yeah, true. When was the last time I heard a guy say he was interested in meeting a 'nice' girl? 1989? But definitely not since the year 2000. See, the guys get all bent out of shape when we aren't interested in the 'nice' guy. But are they interested in the 'nice' girl? Of course NOT! aW, think it's time for me to go to bed now





Mine has honesty, nice and b*tching in the right proportions.

11/23/2014 11:06:07 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
hardtwist
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Quote from eyesofmedusa:
I am happy for you..............

However..............if you have a IGAF woman...why do you feel compelled to belittle the women of DH ?

Why do you attempt to make us look badly..........or feel badly ?

I could take a few guesses............but I am sure the smart women of DH......will follow suit with the ones above me............

And see right thru this bullshit to the real intent of it..........and the motivation behind it........



And Gio.................Oh damnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn




OMFG eyes! Satire? there was nothing serious about this! It was written during the massive consumption of Crown Royal and there was several women involved in the process. I've been both the nice guy and the a**hole. Nowa days Im just a guy.

11/23/2014 11:08:23 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

playingindirt
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I'm not responsible for what the women did in a man's life before me.
you don't stop being a nice person if you were ever really a nice person to start with.

11/23/2014 11:09:52 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

twining
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Clearly you never realized how much of a d*ck you were. Maybe she didn't want a relationship with because you were like a sibling. Always being at an annoying distance from her when she was either single or just got out of a relationship. Ready to make her feel even worse about it.

By the way genius, you've gotten older as well.

11/23/2014 11:10:43 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

gotheon123
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11/23/2014 11:19:04 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

eyesofmedusa
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Quote from hardtwist:
OMFG eyes! Satire? there was nothing serious about this! It was written during the massive consumption of Crown Royal and there was several women involved in the process. I've been both the nice guy and the a**hole. Nowa days Im just a guy.



Does it look like it is being taken as Satire ...Mensa ?

Does only pointing out my comment somehow negate ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL OF THE OTHER WOMEN POSTING on it ?

Does it look like the women of DH have fkn had it with being blamed....cussed....bashed...belittled.......harassed......attacked.....thread stalked.....etc by the supposed "men" of DH..........

Good...........cause we have.......

Our humor has been stripped..............or tolerance level has been reached......

And our loathing is increasing..........

Happy posting...........I assume you enjoyed making this thread......

11/23/2014 11:21:19 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

eyesofmedusa
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Quote from twining:
Clearly you never realized how much of a d*ck you were. Maybe she didn't want a relationship with because you were like a sibling. Always being at an annoying distance from her when she was either single or just got out of a relationship. Ready to make her feel even worse about it.

By the way genius, you've gotten older as well.



And.............There ya go Hard..........

Btw........Twin ? Fabulous girl !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

11/23/2014 11:26:25 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
hardtwist
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Quote from eyesofmedusa:
Does it look like it is being taken as Satire ...Mensa ?

Does only pointing out my comment somehow negate ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL OF THE OTHER WOMEN POSTING on it ?

Does it look like the women of DH have fkn had it with being blamed....cussed....bashed...belittled.......harassed......attacked.....thread stalked.....etc by the supposed "men" of DH..........

Good...........cause we have.......

Our humor has been stripped..............or tolerance level has been reached......

And our loathing is increasing..........

Happy posting...........I assume you enjoyed making this thread......



There are some sour assed old women on here as well eyes. I'm responsible for my own actions and my actions have never been misogynistic. I will admit that misogyny and misandry run rampant on DH.


I will never lose my twisted humor. I still laugh when somebody does something stupid and gets hurt. Nor will I ever change the way I look at a situation.

As far as the other women posting butt hurt responses, maybe their past haunts them or theyre on the other end. Don't know and more importantly, I don't care. I'm enjoying life and have no intentions of that changing.

11/23/2014 11:30:46 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
hardtwist
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Quote from twining:
Clearly you never realized how much of a d*ck you were. Maybe she didn't want a relationship with because you were like a sibling. Always being at an annoying distance from her when she was either single or just got out of a relationship. Ready to make her feel even worse about it.

By the way genius, you've gotten older as well.




Clearly the inexperienced not a genius, has verbally burped. I call that a smart fart, it took the elevator.


I know when to be a d*ck and have mastered the act. Maybe you should read every post and figure out where I stand on it and if I even wrote it.

11/23/2014 11:31:14 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

gotheon123
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Butthurt responses???

You must have meant to say butthurt OP or butthurt thread.

11/23/2014 11:32:56 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

phikebishop
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Truth....

11/23/2014 11:33:08 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

twining
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If you're not the author then don't be offended, hardtwist.



[Edited 11/23/2014 11:33:47 PM ]

11/23/2014 11:35:01 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
hardtwist
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Haven't been offended yet. You don't have the talent.



Now I'm being a d*ck.



[Edited 11/23/2014 11:35:44 PM ]

11/23/2014 11:35:15 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

sweetsinglelife
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You mad?

11/23/2014 11:39:00 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

twining
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Whatever dude. You put up an angry thread about some guy being ignored and you got an answer to why. You obviously don't like it so what was the point of opening this thread?

11/23/2014 11:49:06 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 
hardtwist
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Quote from twining:
Whatever dude. You put up an angry thread about some guy being ignored and you got an answer to why. You obviously don't like it so what was the point of opening this thread?





Angry? You're fukd in the head



Obviously you lack the ability to see past your femmenist programming. This OP was mild in comparison to many of the gender bashing threads started on this site.


If you've been on here for more than 3 months and allow yourself to get angry or let anyone anger you, you're thin skinned and probably need to put your blinders back on. Nothing anyone posts on here will effect the eventual outcome of your life.

11/23/2014 11:54:25 PMI couldn't resist. Been a year or better since I seen this 

sweetsinglelife
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Quote from hardtwist:
Angry? You're fukd in the head



Obviously you lack the ability to see past your femmenist programming. This OP was mild in comparison to many of the gender bashing threads started on this site.


If you've been on here for more than 3 months and allow yourself to get angry or let anyone anger you, you're thin skinned and probably need to put your blinders back on. Nothing anyone posts on here will effect the eventual outcome of your life.



I doubt it will effect you but it can affect you.



OP what kind of reaction were you looking for?



[Edited 11/23/2014 11:56:46 PM ]