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9/2/2016 10:49:51 AMMorality question for women 

mrfckinpetey
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,504)
Orlando, FL
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1. Shitty
2. Meh
3. It's fine
4. Make her squeel


Let's say you met someone amazing and started to fall in love. Dated for a few months, and then found out they were married but in an abusive relationship that they wanted out of, but it was difficult to do so for many reasons (kids, finances, etc).

Now, would you still pursue this relationship with the hope that one day you might be together? Or is that a shitty move? (ignoring the fact that she knew she was married).

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9/2/2016 10:52:47 AMMorality question for women 
forum_rose
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,041)
Killeen, TX
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Drop her. If she withheld vital information for a few months, what else is she hiding. And seriously, I don't understand how someone can be married with children and find time to carry on an affair. Doesn't the partner or children express concern as to where she has been? And if so, she has been lying to her family on top of you?

9/2/2016 10:54:00 AMMorality question for women 

blondie855
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,147)
Chicago, IL
61, joined Aug. 2014


Drop them ASAP!!!!

Honesty up front and foremost..

9/2/2016 10:54:57 AMMorality question for women 

miss_trsh1
Over 2,000 Posts (2,782)
Mount Pleasant, MI
48, joined Sep. 2014


fukin run man run

9/2/2016 10:55:44 AMMorality question for women 

mrfckinpetey
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,504)
Orlando, FL
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Quote from forum_rose:
Drop her. If she withheld vital information for a few months, what else is she hiding. And seriously, I don't understand how someone can be married with children and find time to carry on an affair. Doesn't the partner or children express concern as to where she has been? And if so, she has been lying to her family on top of you?


Well the husband does the same, and her explanation could be that she didn't want to miss an opportunity to potentially be happy.

But yeah, it definitely isn't a good start.

Btw this is hypothetical, or rather an embellishment of a past experience. =P

9/2/2016 10:56:01 AMMorality question for women 

mr_zipzip
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New York, NY
33, joined May. 2014


why not,

9/2/2016 10:57:26 AMMorality question for women 

mustangwriter
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Boerne, TX
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I'd cut her loose faster than a West Texas diamondback.

9/2/2016 10:57:41 AMMorality question for women 

bookwormtobutte
Over 1,000 Posts (1,912)
Rio Rancho, NM
36, joined Jan. 2016


If a relationship is truly abusive there is no reason in the world good enough to stay.
I'm of the mind of if they are willing to cheat with you, they are willing to cheat on you.
Only thing I might be flexible in is if they were separated and not living together.

But this is all me and my opinion. I don't expect anyone to live their life my way.

9/2/2016 10:59:35 AMMorality question for women 

jake_is_fake
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,397)
Avenel, NJ
78, joined Jun. 2015


Run as fast as you can....once a liar always a liar, you'll never be able to believe anything they say

And I agree the same holds for cheating



[Edited 9/2/2016 11:00:10 AM ]

9/2/2016 11:03:01 AMMorality question for women 
forum_rose
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,041)
Killeen, TX
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Petey

9/2/2016 11:05:11 AMMorality question for women 
brandycool1
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Syracuse, NY
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Petey


OT:
Give her the number to the local domestic violence assistance and drop her like a hot potato.

9/2/2016 11:06:48 AMMorality question for women 

mr_1234m
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Louisville, KY
51, joined Apr. 2014


Quote from mustangwriter:
I'd cut her loose faster than a West Texas diamondback.


She lied once about him, the next guy will get the same regarding you

9/2/2016 11:08:05 AMMorality question for women 

mrfckinpetey
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,504)
Orlando, FL
32, joined Jun. 2014


Quote from forum_rose:
Petey


Psh, you deleted me from your Facebook friends for like the 5th time and still try to be nice to me? Petey ain't having it.

9/2/2016 11:08:23 AMMorality question for women 

eyesofmedusa
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Cairo
Egypt
52, joined Jun. 2012


Walk....quickly...

She shld hv been upfront...if he abuses her...dnt think he won't come at the man she is cheating with....

So she put man #2 in danger..without telling him...

9/2/2016 11:37:18 AMMorality question for women 
brandycool1
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Syracuse, NY
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Quote from eyesofmedusa:
Walk....quickly...

She shld hv been upfront...if he abuses her...dnt think he won't come at the man she is cheating with....

So she put man #2 in danger..without telling him...

This, too.

9/2/2016 11:39:51 AMMorality question for women 

nyjamiaca
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Baldwin, NY
39, joined Jul. 2016


Up to u.

I would date her and tell her as long as she is married u r not gonna commit. Date other women.

Love sucks

9/2/2016 11:46:08 AMMorality question for women 
sinceresammy
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,655)
Dayton, OH
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Will my husband use my lover for target practice?

9/2/2016 11:47:41 AMMorality question for women 
soulflight
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Baltimore, MD
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She's married and lied about it.

That's a no brainer. Move on.

If she is being abused, she has issues to address that don't include dating for a long time.

9/2/2016 11:58:32 AMMorality question for women 

playingindirt
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Eugene, OR
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you're just a means to get out of what she's messed up in.

9/2/2016 12:01:42 PMMorality question for women 

eyesofmedusa
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Cairo
Egypt
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An abuser sees her as property...

And he will get nasty...

9/2/2016 12:11:29 PMMorality question for women 

heresed60
Louisville, KY
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Hasta La Vista Baby

9/2/2016 12:21:08 PMMorality question for women 

easttowest72
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Bremen, GA
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Sounds like she is playing the field and when he catches her he pop her upside her head. Have fun and try not to get beat with her

9/2/2016 12:32:13 PMMorality question for women 

iam_resurrected
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Reno, NV
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Quote from mr_1234m:
She lied once about him, the next guy will get the same regarding you



yep, she gained entrance into you/him more than you/him intended to by prying upon your good nature.
when that gets violated it is time to become the violator and get rid of that mess.

9/2/2016 1:08:44 PMMorality question for women 

mrfckinpetey
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Orlando, FL
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Quote from eyesofmedusa:
An abuser sees her as property...

And he will get nasty...


I would actually enjoy that confrontation more than the one with her lol.

There are only two things truly worth doing in life. To f**k someone who wants you to f**k them, and to kill someone who wants to kill you.

9/2/2016 1:32:38 PMMorality question for women 
Zelda88
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Sugar Land, TX
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Or distract her from her misery. Even if she leaaves her husband, she may not automatically want to be with you, you're the time filler, brief happiness.

And any rebound relationship won't last. She needs to work on her problems for a while before having a relationship.



Quote from playingindirt:
you're just a means to get out of what she's messed up in.


9/2/2016 1:33:30 PMMorality question for women 
Zelda88
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Sugar Land, TX
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You are shitty.

and a liar.

There are NO morals being applied.



Quote from mrfckinpetey:
I would actually enjoy that confrontation more than the one with her lol.

There are only two things truly worth doing in life. To f**k someone who wants you to f**k them, and to kill someone who wants to kill you.




[Edited 9/2/2016 1:34:39 PM ]

9/2/2016 1:40:09 PMMorality question for women 
Dynastic
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Aurora do Norte
Brazil
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I would try and help Anyone out of being in an abusive relationship

9/2/2016 1:42:02 PMMorality question for women 
forum_rose
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Killeen, TX
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Quote from mrfckinpetey:
Psh, you deleted me from your Facebook friends for like the 5th time and still try to be nice to me? Petey ain't having it.
I did no such thing

9/2/2016 1:42:58 PMMorality question for women 
Zelda88
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Sugar Land, TX
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I don't get a "helping" vibe from what he's written. Self-centered about what he can GET.

9/2/2016 1:49:48 PMMorality question for women 

mrfckinpetey
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Orlando, FL
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Quote from Zelda88:
I don't get a "helping" vibe from what he's written. Self-centered about what he can GET.


It's both if we're all being honest.

9/2/2016 1:50:28 PMMorality question for women 
scoobs78
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Kansas City, MO
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Quote from Dynastic:
I would try and help Anyone out of being in an abusive relationship


Hopefully u help the woman who's getting beat and not the dude beating her. Make sure u get her long away from and to a safer place from him because he won't stop once they release him from jail. He will find her and come after her

You should never comfort or try to Reason with the abuser that's what the cops and the usage of thier nightsticks n handcuffs are for.

9/2/2016 1:50:55 PMMorality question for women 
Zelda88
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stfu you're disgusting

9/2/2016 1:51:08 PMMorality question for women 

mrfckinpetey
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Orlando, FL
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Quote from Zelda88:
You are shitty.

and a liar.

There are NO morals being applied.



Quote from mrfckinpetey:
I would actually enjoy that confrontation more than the one with her lol.

There are only two things truly worth doing in life. To f**k someone who wants you to f**k them, and to kill someone who wants to kill you.


Yeah, i kind of openly admit that but thanks for stating the obvious lol.

9/2/2016 1:51:12 PMMorality question for women 

Mercedes_02
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AñatuyaAñatuya
Australia
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Those married or living with some one won't ever leave they have every excuse under the sun leave well enough alone as those types are just out to use you emotionally as well as physically.

Those who are truly in an abusive relationship aren't interested in another bloke that's for sure.

9/2/2016 1:52:04 PMMorality question for women 
Zelda88
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And you're ugly. How much money are you giving her?

9/2/2016 1:53:49 PMMorality question for women 

mrfckinpetey
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Orlando, FL
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Quote from Zelda88:
And you're ugly. How much money are you giving her?


Now you're just being salty lol. I don't give anyone money, and the situation is hypothetical. The real situation was more along the lines of they were separated but still living together. Now she moved out on her own and I'm bored of her lol.

Btw I'm pretty darn sexy these days.

/flex

9/2/2016 1:59:02 PMMorality question for women 
Zelda88
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I have seen your pic.

9/2/2016 2:01:33 PMMorality question for women 

gdaddy47
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Columbia, TN
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Go for it. She will leave her husband very soon just for you and you will have a happy life and she will be true to only you. Yeah, go for it



[Edited 9/2/2016 2:01:58 PM ]

9/2/2016 2:01:40 PMMorality question for women 

mrfckinpetey
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Orlando, FL
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Quote from Zelda88:
I have seen your pic.


You aren't the only one sweetheart.

You should try a different angle. Maybe call me short or something, at least that makes sense lol.

9/2/2016 2:04:36 PMMorality question for women 

stl1
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Saint Louis, MO
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Quote from forum_rose:
Drop her. If she withheld vital information for a few months, what else is she hiding. And seriously, I don't understand how someone can be married with children and find time to carry on an affair. Doesn't the partner or children express concern as to where she has been? And if so, she has been lying to her family on top of you?




It was apparently easy for my ex. She used her three older children to babysit our three younger children. As a matter of fact, one day I asked her if she was having an affair. Her response?

"When would I have time to have an affair?"

She found the time.

9/2/2016 2:09:54 PMMorality question for women 
Zelda88
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nah. The pic was enough


Quote from mrfckinpetey:
You aren't the only one sweetheart.

You should try a different angle. Maybe call me short or something, at least that makes sense lol.


9/2/2016 2:11:48 PMMorality question for women 

ltlwing
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Williamsburg, OH
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Quote from soulflight:
She's married and lied about it.

That's a no brainer. Move on.

If she is being abused, she has issues to address that don't include dating for a long time.



...I know my belief system don't mesh with everyone else's. Married is married,is married. Immature to start relationship before finishing the one your in.. married,or not...big red flag!



[Edited 9/2/2016 2:13:01 PM ]

9/2/2016 2:12:49 PMMorality question for women 

mrfckinpetey
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Orlando, FL
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Quote from Zelda88:
nah. The pic was enough


Quote from mrfckinpetey:
You aren't the only one sweetheart.

You should try a different angle. Maybe call me short or something, at least that makes sense lol.


Lol are you delusional enough to believe that your insults are doing anything other than making me giggle over how butt hurt you are? Or do you really not have anything better to do? Lol

9/2/2016 2:15:20 PMMorality question for women 
4uijack
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New Port Richey, FL
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That's exactly like I used to do to your mom, OPie!!!!

9/2/2016 2:15:48 PMMorality question for women 

flatheadone
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Greenwood, FL
53, joined Jul. 2012


Pimp her out like the ho she is give your buddy's a discount rate but charge everyone else full price

9/2/2016 2:20:38 PMMorality question for women 

celyn67
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San Antonio, TX
49, joined Jan. 2016


No, I would end it. It WOULD be tough if I loved him, but I'm not going to be with a married man, even if that's his situation. And he might end up staying married the rest of his life due to the situation.

9/2/2016 2:20:43 PMMorality question for women 

mva_0615
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Avon Lake, OH
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Quote from mrfckinpetey:
Lol are you delusional enough to believe that your insults are doing anything other than making me giggle over how butt hurt you are? Or do you really not have anything better to do? Lol


No actually she doesn't. She's very boring to say the least

Cheesy

9/2/2016 2:22:16 PMMorality question for women 
Zelda88
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Sugar Land, TX
27, joined Jun. 2016


you giggle? that's kinda gay I'm not hurt about anything. Just point out scumbags.


Quote from mrfckinpetey:
Lol are you delusional enough to believe that your insults are doing anything other than making me giggle over how butt hurt you are? Or do you really not have anything better to do? Lol


9/2/2016 2:23:38 PMMorality question for women 

celyn67
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San Antonio, TX
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Quote from eyesofmedusa:
Walk....quickly...

She shld hv been upfront...if he abuses her...dnt think he won't come at the man she is cheating with....

So she put man #2 in danger..without telling him...



9/2/2016 2:24:57 PMMorality question for women 

mrfckinpetey
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,504)
Orlando, FL
32, joined Jun. 2014


Quote from Zelda88:
you giggle? that's kinda gay I'm not hurt about anything. Just point out scumbags.


Quote from mrfckinpetey:
Lol are you delusional enough to believe that your insults are doing anything other than making me giggle over how butt hurt you are? Or do you really not have anything better to do? Lol


Uh oh, a giggle! Someone call the masculinity police! Lol. What the f**k is wrong with a giggle? It's a short laugh, quit reaching lol.

Anyway point out until you're blue in the face. I love free advertising. =)

9/2/2016 2:25:52 PMMorality question for women 

celyn67
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San Antonio, TX
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Quote from gdaddy47:
Go for it. She will leave her husband very soon just for you and you will have a happy life and she will be true to only you. Yeah, go for it



9/2/2016 2:33:32 PMMorality question for women 

flatheadone
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Greenwood, FL
53, joined Jul. 2012


Op do you douche her out before you f**k her and before you send her home
Or do you both deal with what the other guy leaves as a door prize

9/2/2016 2:34:50 PMMorality question for women 

countryladypoet
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Clarion, PA
50, joined Dec. 2012


I'd have to deeply consider my choices.. he could be lying

9/2/2016 3:01:13 PMMorality question for women 

Mercedes_02
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AñatuyaAñatuya
Australia
101, joined Dec. 2014


Quote from mrfckinpetey:
Now you're just being salty lol. I don't give anyone money, and the situation is hypothetical. The real situation was more along the lines of they were separated but still living together. Now she moved out on her own and I'm bored of her lol.

Btw I'm pretty darn sexy these days.

/flex



You enjoyed the chase.

9/2/2016 3:03:31 PMMorality question for women 

playingindirt
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Eugene, OR
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Quote from mrfckinpetey:
Yeah, i kind of openly admit that but thanks for stating the obvious lol.

you're okay with being like this?

9/2/2016 3:05:24 PMMorality question for women 
Dynastic
Over 2,000 Posts (2,598)
Aurora do Norte
Brazil
40, joined Jul. 2016


Quote from scoobs78:
Hopefully u help the woman who's getting beat and not the dude beating her. Make sure u get her long away from and to a safer place from him because he won't stop once they release him from jail. He will find her and come after her

You should never comfort or try to Reason with the abuser that's what the cops and the usage of thier nightsticks n handcuffs are for.


Ummmm one thats a retarded rumor made up by the Klan. And yes of course id help the abused not the abuser

9/2/2016 3:05:42 PMMorality question for women 

mrfckinpetey
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,504)
Orlando, FL
32, joined Jun. 2014


Quote from Mercedes_02:
You enjoyed the chase.


We're still friends, and i did like her, I'm just not the kind of guy to stick with anything for long.

9/2/2016 3:07:20 PMMorality question for women 

Mercedes_02
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AñatuyaAñatuya
Australia
101, joined Dec. 2014


Quote from mrfckinpetey:
We're still friends, and i did like her, I'm just not the kind of guy to stick with anything for long.


I hope she didn't leave thinking you were going to be her future
because that would be cruel.

9/2/2016 3:08:24 PMMorality question for women 

mrfckinpetey
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,504)
Orlando, FL
32, joined Jun. 2014


Quote from playingindirt:
you're okay with being like this?


I prefer it, yes.

Being nice never got me anywhere, this does.

9/2/2016 3:08:57 PMMorality question for women 

archer513
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Cincinnati, OH
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Cheating sluts always need an excuse. She was a crazy b*tch and dude was hittin it because crazy b*tch's got the freaky puss. Op seems pretty grounded and logical...he knew