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11/26/2016 10:08:01 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 

chris3357m
Columbus, OH
30, joined Dec. 2012


i keep talking to ladies that are like this and this seems to be becoming more of the norm. am i imagining things or is this rly popular here lately? just curious. i mean i don't rly want to sleep with someone who sleeps with everyone personally, but i guess that's just me. like i like to have my lady all to myself, i don't wanna share lol. does that make me possessive? idk

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11/26/2016 10:15:06 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 

sadlsticsienna
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,268)
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016


An open relationship fair enough maybe but open marriage, that's kinda retardeed and defeats the point of marriage in the first place. Also risky in terms of diseases and pregnancy.

11/26/2016 10:23:18 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (245,175)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


Not just no.. But HELL TO THE NO!

11/26/2016 11:39:43 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,358)
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011


Why get married then?

11/26/2016 11:42:54 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,358)
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011


Sounds like your lady friends just want the benefits of marriage but not the commitment. I feel sorry for the men they trap.

11/26/2016 11:47:29 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 

sadlsticsienna
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,268)
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016


Yeah tje guys are cucked lol

11/27/2016 12:37:52 AMMarriage but in an open relationship 

smstephanie73
Fargo, ND
43, joined Oct. 2016


You can't use this site as your bases on woman this place is a stopping zone for some crazy shit. I am no expert but I would say the average married woman is not in an open relationship.

11/27/2016 12:08:17 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 

chris3357m
Columbus, OH
30, joined Dec. 2012


good stuff yeah that's kinda how i feel about it too
had to look up the term cucked but seems about right. again i try not to be one to judge but yeah if you're that guy or girl allowing it, i am definitely concerned for you =/

11/27/2016 12:10:30 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 

hotinfla
Over 2,000 Posts (2,264)
Jacksonville Beach, FL
62, joined Aug. 2016


Quote from smstephanie73:
You can't use this site as your bases on woman this place is a stopping zone for some crazy shit. I am no expert but I would say the average married woman is not in an open relationship.
i would agree with that comment, however there are many more than you think that either cheat or have lovers that their spouse knows about.
this is a subject that not too many people are open about. just because you don't see or hear much about it doesn't mean that it isn't out there.

11/27/2016 12:11:18 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 

chris3357m
Columbus, OH
30, joined Dec. 2012


Quote from hotinfla:
i would agree with that comment, however there are many more than you think that either cheat or have lovers that their spouse knows about.
this is a subject that not too many people are open about. just because you don't see or hear much about it doesn't mean that it isn't out there.


i block most the troll and griefing posters. not many of quality left here, i agree. but i still respect the opinions of others as long as they are real, legit responses.

11/27/2016 12:40:52 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (245,175)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


Quote from chris3357m:
i block most the troll and griefing posters. not many of quality left here, i agree. but i still respect the opinions of others as long as they are real, legit responses.


Isn't that a bit judgemental, Chris?

Are you saying that only you can determine when a real person is making a legitimate comment, especially if that comment is opposed to your own opinion?

11/27/2016 12:44:06 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 

chris3357m
Columbus, OH
30, joined Dec. 2012


Quote from cupocheer:
Isn't that a bit judgemental, Chris?

Are you saying that only you can determine when a real person is making a legitimate comment, especially if that comment is opposed to your own opinion?


in so much as a comment is extremely rude, overly aggressive, or overtly negative to a large degree, i just don't need that in my life.

i'm not against opinions in opposition of mine, i openly welcome them as i may just be misunderstood on a topic, which is sometimes the case and may be why i raise a topic in the first place because i believe i may not understand.

"to know all is to forgive all."

however, i do not reward overly unjust, self centered, unfair people or ideas to the best of my ability.

again, i understand that we're all creatures of emotion, full of vanity and pride. but there's a limit, where one has just lost their humanity and it becomes clear and evident beyond a reasonable doubt.



[Edited 11/27/2016 12:45:36 PM ]

11/27/2016 2:04:41 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 
cubcougar
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,651)
Lucerne, CA
64, joined Oct. 2010


Quote from smstephanie73:
You can't use this site as your bases on woman this place is a stopping zone for some crazy shit. I am no expert but I would say the average married woman is not in an open relationship.






The Average Husband ... is getting taco sauce on the swartzn**ger cause they are a boy slut that is a dumb f**k.

After all she PICKED him ... wanting a dumb f**k in her life ... so as to control him with secrets, lies, misrepresentations, etc etc etc.

Both of them are stuck in their Toddler Tantrum mentality for the most part and still in their Duck Disease.

This is why I do not get f**ked up on drink or drugs and I give my self to my woman.

I do it for selfish reasons and it is what I 'want' to do ... also I want to be honest and I want to be in love with the person I love and not f**k around while f**king up my life.

Do I get that from other people ... not on your life ... so far.

Sooooo I have gotten rid of expecations and judgements about those expectations.

She does what she WANT to do ... just like I do what I want to do.

If she wants to be honest and forthcoming ... wowieeezowwie ... that is something I can really love.

If she wants to lie and f**k around on secrets ... then that is what she wants to do.

If she wants to honest about an open marriage of sex and money ... then that is what she wants to do.

HE is HONEST about the taco sauce on his swartzn**ger .. and she is honest about licking it off.

The family and kids know .. the neighbors and cops know ... ok I can get with it as I have no judgements or expecations on what they want to do.

I want some thing else.

I want healthy ... and not sick.

I have had enough lessons on what the beast 6 - sick - 6 .... is all about.

sumbuddie wear blind sea





[Edited 11/27/2016 2:05:31 PM ]

11/27/2016 2:13:44 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 
Orchid73
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,935)
Abano TermeMilan
Italy
44, joined Sep. 2016


No, it doesn't make you possessive, but what might work for somebody else it doesn't work for you and viceversa. Vivit et vivet.

11/27/2016 2:31:30 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 

dr_i_got_answer
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,624)
Gwynn Oak, MD
50, joined Jun. 2014


Quote from smstephanie73:
You can't use this site as your bases on woman this place is a stopping zone for some crazy shit. I am no expert but I would say the average married woman is not in an open relationship.


I'm beginning to see much wisdom in your retorts but I'm also just getting familiar with you too.

But I agree with you. I've always known ppl to have open marraiges and relationships but it's ALWAYS been a small margin of the population. I've seen it on "Real Sex" on HBO and back in the hippy days.

Lately I've been seeing a few ppl post about some polygamous shit. That's suppose to be about one man having many wen all living together that HE can have sex with openly but not the women with other men.

I don't know if that's the same or not but I HAVEN'T seen any evidence of this being popular among the masses.

11/27/2016 3:06:17 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 

dr_i_got_answer
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,624)
Gwynn Oak, MD
50, joined Jun. 2014


Quote from chris3357m:
good stuff yeah that's kinda how i feel about it too
had to look up the term cucked but seems about right. again i try not to be one to judge but yeah if you're that guy or girl allowing it, i am definitely concerned for you =/


I KNOW this is gonna be extremely hard or impossible for most women to except but....

In the Bible it says a man can have as many wives AS HE CAN AFFORD! This is spiritually based and NOT just for his "d*ck hard/hard up" sexual fulfillment like most of these spineless, boot licking, manginas you see in DH forums begging for sex.

So I can see a man having more than one woman if he's providing for them all in one setting where EVERYONE does their part to contribute. No lying, sneaking, deceiving and cheating going on. Just being a provider, protector and setting rules and standards to govern them.

But this society worships Gov't and get ALL their morals, ethics, principles, standards and sense of right and wrong FROM THE GOV'T! So WHATEVER the Gov't say they listen, follow, never question and give their lives for.

11/27/2016 3:34:10 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (245,175)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


Quote the relevent scripture.

And then I will slap the truth on here for ALL to read.

11/27/2016 5:05:21 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 

smstephanie73
Fargo, ND
43, joined Oct. 2016


Yeah silly thing called laws and marriage today. Biblical times were a different matter. Today's laws call it illegal to be married to more then one woman.

11/27/2016 6:50:25 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 
cubcougar
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,651)
Lucerne, CA
64, joined Oct. 2010


Quote from smstephanie73:
Yeah silly thing called laws and marriage today. Biblical times were a different matter. Today's laws call it illegal to be married to more then one woman.



Dearest Steph ... Abraham made babies with his Slave Wife where all the Palestinans and Muslins come from ...

and ... Abraham made babies with his Jew Wife where all the Jews come from.

The God of Abraham wrote the Koran for the slave f**kees .. and the Torah for the slave f**kers.

Be that at it is with Males having taco sauce on their swartzn**ger as does the God of their making in the above ...

After all the Virgin Mary is a MILF cum bucket doing the Ghost of our Father in Heaven while Joe is a c*ckold having play sex no condoms ... since she is already pregnant.




All hail the thin skinned narcistic megalomanical spoiled rich kid with an itchy Twitter finger and

lies, lies, lies ..



11/27/2016 7:58:21 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 

driver406
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (53,201)
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009


What is the purpose of marrying if you agree in advance that she can sleep around like a cheap wh*re or a barnyard animal in heat while probably denying you at the same time?!?! HA! You'll get a surprise when she runs off with some black bad boy stud and decides to divorce you! Open or not she'll take everything but the holes in your socks. Open marriage is a way of being committed without really being committed. I think it is hypocritical.

11/27/2016 9:00:49 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 
missamicable
Over 1,000 Posts (1,747)
Austin, TX
83, joined Jul. 2014


No....don't date wh*res OP...

11/27/2016 10:03:26 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 
amusicluvr
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (23,565)
Salem, OR
64, joined Nov. 2013


Open relationships are not my cup of tea. I give fidelity, and want to get it in return.

11/28/2016 1:28:41 AMMarriage but in an open relationship 

chris3357m
Columbus, OH
30, joined Dec. 2012


Quote from missamicable:
No....don't date wh*res OP...


i hear ya. i don't mean too, i promise!

11/28/2016 1:36:18 AMMarriage but in an open relationship 
FancyFox101
Fort Worth, TX
35, joined Nov. 2016


any man who marries me i am not sharing him

11/28/2016 1:38:46 AMMarriage but in an open relationship 
Bizzy_smalls23
Beecher, IL
27, joined Oct. 2016


Quote from FancyFox101:
any man who marries me i am not sharing him


One of my ex's used to LOVE getting shared

11/28/2016 1:45:51 AMMarriage but in an open relationship 
cubcougar
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,651)
Lucerne, CA
64, joined Oct. 2010


Quote from missamicable:
No....don't date wh*res OP...



When it is about sex and money ...

AND they are honest about it ...

I have admiration for such things.

It is the lies, deception and betrayal that is such a muck it up.

sumbuddie wear blind sea



11/28/2016 1:52:38 AMMarriage but in an open relationship 
Bizzy_smalls23
Beecher, IL
27, joined Oct. 2016


Quote from cubcougar:
When it is about sex and money ...

AND they are honest about it ...

I have admiration for such things.

It is the lies, deception and betrayal that is such a muck it up.

sumbuddie wear blind sea



That's the thing...I had an ex who became an escort behind my back while dating...she would meet other guys to f**k them and get them off but would always eat paid for it and took good care of me actually so was kind of a give n take situation I guess

11/28/2016 2:05:13 AMMarriage but in an open relationship 

chris3357m
Columbus, OH
30, joined Dec. 2012


some people honestly just dont know what they want and i understand that better than anyone i guess. i feel like i'm always trying to figure out just what the f**k i want in life love and work haha. never happy, it's true. always gotta be working towards something lol. but i agree honesty is a swell thing, no doubt. but then again, no one is f**king honest anymore, let's just be honest for a second. please show me someone who isn't lieing these days, i love blatanly honest people. i also hate them sometimes, but i still respect that shit lol

11/29/2016 12:13:26 AMMarriage but in an open relationship 

lucky_1million
Over 1,000 Posts (1,706)
Pewaukee, WI
50, joined Jun. 2013


Quote from smstephanie73:
You can't use this site as your bases on woman this place is a stopping zone for some crazy shit. I am no expert but I would say the average married woman is not in an open relationship.


I had only 1 couple contact me on this site when my profile was unhidden.

I appreciate the honesty.

It becomes easier to say "no thanks".

You have more to worry about the ones who seem mysterious.

11/29/2016 2:06:09 AMMarriage but in an open relationship 
cavie59
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (16,524)
Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010


Quote from chris3357m:
i keep talking to ladies that are like this and this seems to be becoming more of the norm. am i imagining things or is this rly popular here lately? just curious. i mean i don't rly want to sleep with someone who sleeps with everyone personally, but i guess that's just me. like i like to have my lady all to myself, i don't wanna share lol. does that make me possessive? idk


While some women MIGHT be in an "Open Marriage", the chances are that only a quarter are telling the truth. The rest are lying so that they do not feel guilty when they cheat.

11/29/2016 8:12:04 AMMarriage but in an open relationship 
keekeekeek2
Moriguchi
Japan
34, joined Oct. 2016


Quote from chris3357m:
some people honestly just dont know what they want and i understand that better than anyone i guess. i feel like i'm always trying to figure out just what the f**k i want in life love and work haha. never happy, it's true. always gotta be working towards something lol. but i agree honesty is a swell thing, no doubt. but then again, no one is f**king honest anymore, let's just be honest for a second. please show me someone who isn't lieing these days, i love blatanly honest people. i also hate them sometimes, but i still respect that shit lol


Are you sure? Because, if a woman tells you she's into open relationships? wouldn't she be- being "honest" with you?

If a woman doesn't want a monogamous relationship with you- move the heck on. it is just that simple.

11/29/2016 8:21:15 AMMarriage but in an open relationship 
Hellcat3680
Over 2,000 Posts (2,067)
Oshawa, ON
37, joined Nov. 2016


I see absolutely no point in getting married if you're both just going to screw around.


Nothing about that is logical in any way.

11/29/2016 11:51:14 AMMarriage but in an open relationship 

sadlsticsienna
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,268)
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016


Quote from chris3357m:
some people honestly just dont know what they want and i understand that better than anyone i guess. i feel like i'm always trying to figure out just what the fu.ck i want in life love and work haha. never happy, it's true. always gotta be working towards something lol. but i agree honesty is a swell thing, no doubt. but then again, no one is fu.king honest anymore, let's just be honest for a second. please show me someone who isn't lieing these days, i love blatanly honest people. i also hate them sometimes, but i still respect that sh.it lol
bb I don't lie D: lol



[Edited 11/29/2016 11:52:27 AM ]

11/29/2016 11:56:17 AMMarriage but in an open relationship 
crumpet_dreams
Over 2,000 Posts (3,874)
Beverly Hills, CA
39, joined Sep. 2016


Hellcat has a nice rack.

11/29/2016 1:02:23 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 
amusicluvr
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (23,565)
Salem, OR
64, joined Nov. 2013


Open relationships are best for singles who date steadily, but want a little variety. An open relationship is stupid for married folks. Open marriages give you all of the detriments of marriage-legal responsibility for each other's debts, etc-with none of the benefits of marriage. Open marriages usually fail, ending in divorce. If you are that anxious to be apart, it makes no sense to get married.

11/29/2016 1:04:36 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 

chris3357m
Columbus, OH
30, joined Dec. 2012


Quote from sadlsticsienna:
bb I don't lie D: lol


i know, it's a beautiful thing rly. i don't care what anyone says. when you're surrounded by liars, thieves, and pillagers, the beautiful ones with a heart who love and appreciate become all that much more valued and treasured

11/29/2016 1:13:59 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 
marriedncheatin
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,766)
Twin Falls, ID
50, joined Jul. 2012


Quote from Hellcat3680:
I see absolutely no point in getting married if you're both just going to screw around.


Nothing about that is logical in any way.

You want to play with my screwdriver

11/29/2016 3:18:14 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 

hotinfla
Over 2,000 Posts (2,264)
Jacksonville Beach, FL
62, joined Aug. 2016


Quote from marriedncheatin:
You want to play with my screwdriver
you can drill me whenever you want

11/29/2016 10:32:56 PMMarriage but in an open relationship 
marriedncheatin
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Twin Falls, ID
50, joined Jul. 2012


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