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3/19/2017 9:51:59 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 
lukepayne
Philadelphia, PA
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I keep hope alive when I think about finding a good woman and committing to a relationship with her but after reflecting on my date searching experiences I am doubtful that middle aged women especially single mothers really want a serious relationship with a man. Maybe there are middle-aged women serious about meeting a good man who probably feel the same about us guys.

Im open to discussion on this subject.

Ladies especially middle aged single Moms who have not had a steady good man in your lives are you really interested in dating at our age, hopeful to make a love connection and finding a man that you can grow older with!

Really!

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3/19/2017 11:46:50 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 
kungfu_candy
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Alsónémedi
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Awww are we being forced to lay in the beds we made?


How about this? You sit down and talk with your friends, ask them to stop turning women into statistics and stick with the ones they marked?

I just find the numbers confusing...

So many single mothers and yet no single fathers?



3/19/2017 11:56:09 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

scpiper25
Cheraw, SC
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Quote from kungfu_candy:
Awww are we being forced to lay in the beds we made?


How about this? You sit down and talk with your friends, ask them to stop turning women into statistics and stick with the ones they marked?

I just find the numbers confusing...

So many single mothers and yet no single fathers?





I'm searching for answers, but all I can come up with is a simple NO.

3/20/2017 1:59:12 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

enigmaathand
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I suggest you YouTube Search the "Hot Crazy Matrix", as it explains how women view men, very well, at the end of it.

Women have a VERY LARGE "No-Go" zone. They have a "Husband" zone, and a "Fun" zone.

You move into the "Husband" zone, once you have obtained and acquired sufficient amounts of MONEY, and it is not relevant how attractive you are.

If you are hot and broke, you are placed in the "FUN" zone.

If you are neither of those, well, you get the idea.

And this holds doubly true for single mothers, because they NEED a rich sucker, to be dumb enough to play "Captain Save-A-Hoe" and financially bail them out of the bed they made for themselves, namely by allowing any man with money to enter that bed initially....

3/20/2017 3:01:16 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 
sddnly_snoozin
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Quote from kungfu_candy:
Awww are we being forced to lay in the beds we made?


How about this? You sit down and talk with your friends, ask them to stop turning women into statistics and stick with the ones they marked?

I just find the numbers confusing...

So many single mothers and yet no single fathers?



And it's always their fault they are single moms. C'mon Kungfu. You know the DH drill

OP, you talk like single moms don't have choices and to be fair. That could be part of the problem.

Our priorties are different as they are focused on our children and quite a few men don't like that. Because they feel that it should be them.

You would have to be the right kind of man for her to believe that you had a future together. Because most of us are not inclinded to just let any of you into our kid's life.

3/20/2017 3:32:03 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

enigmaathand
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Quote from kungfu_candy:
Awww are we being forced to lay in the beds we made?


How about this? You sit down and talk with your friends, ask them to stop turning women into statistics and stick with the ones they marked?

I just find the numbers confusing...

So many single mothers and yet no single fathers?

Gee, I don't know why that is......maybe because Courts ALWAYS side with the WOMAN?

Or they live in Ohio, where we have a specific LAW that makes the father have ZERO LEGAL RIGHTS(but 100% FULL FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY) of his children to a single skank that can't keep her legs closed.

3/20/2017 6:48:16 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 
kungfu_candy
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Alsónémedi
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Quote from enigmaathand:
Gee, I don't know why that is......maybe because Courts ALWAYS side with the WOMAN?

Or they live in Ohio, where we have a specific LAW that makes the father have ZERO LEGAL RIGHTS(but 100% FULL FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY) of his children to a single skank that can't keep her legs closed.


I'm sure all those father's are so broken up about it. How awful it must be to be able to run around like you're single and knock up all the women you meet because you don't have a kid latched onto you like an obvious leech.

I guess turning into or continuing the life of a philanderer is a coping mechanism. And having more children they won't acknowledge or take care of it just a symptom of the deep grief they feel for not having to live with their mistake or carry it.



No f**ks given here. I enjoy this misery too much. That's exactly what y'all get for jumping into every pair of legs that spreads for you.

You know what I think when some guy randomly asks to go down on me? (You wouldn't BELIEVE how often this question pops up in my life) It ain't "Jackpot!" It's more along the lines of "Ewww... just where hasn't that mouth been? It's too filthy to even go near my buttcrack."

And just a few seconds of thought protects me from something that could effect me for a lifetime. Too bad being raised in a patriarchal society means having the benefit of not being taught self-accountability.

3/20/2017 6:56:07 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

enigmaathand
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Quote from kungfu_candy:
I'm sure all those father's are so broken up about it. How awful it must be to be able to run around like you're single and knock up all the women you meet because you don't have a kid latched onto you like an obvious leech.

I guess turning into or continuing the life of a philanderer is a coping mechanism. And having more children they won't acknowledge or take care of it just a symptom of the deep grief they feel for not having to live with their mistake or carry it.



No f**ks given here. I enjoy this misery too much. That's exactly what y'all get for jumping into every pair of legs that spreads for you.

You know what I think when some guy randomly asks to go down on me? (You wouldn't BELIEVE how often this question pops up in my life) It ain't "Jackpot!" It's more along the lines of "Ewww... just where hasn't that mouth been? It's too filthy to even go near my buttcrack."

And just a few seconds of thought protects me from something that could effect me for a lifetime. Too bad being raised in a patriarchal society means having the benefit of not being taught self-accountability.
You should come to Ohio, and meet some of the single fathers that get no rights to their children. Talk to them, and hear the pain in their words, because the mother KNOWS she can use that kid against him and keep his children from him and have the courts ALWAYS side with HER, because the LAW gives her the right to do it.

Maybe you would enjoy seeing the misery of men, that actually DO pay their child support, living off Top Ramen and driving around in beater a** cars that barely run, because the state takes away all THEIR money.

Yes, there are a good percentage of men, that drop woken as soon as the kid comes along(as one study conducted on the topic showed approximately 21% of father want nothing to do with their children).

Or, would you like to speak with my best friend? You know, the one that shot himself in my garage with my 9mm, while I was at work?

See, what you speak of, is what only one side and a minority of men that f**k women over.

3/20/2017 6:57:02 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

sadlsticsienna
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They should of not gotten the women pregnant then

3/20/2017 7:48:49 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

easttowest72
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Im a middle aged single mom who dates. What guys don't understand is we have alot of options. They expect us to date anything or redbox and chill. Finding a good guy is like finding a needle in a haystack.

3/20/2017 8:02:37 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

burt_hurt
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Finding a middle aged woman without kids who isn't f**ked up in the head is like finding a needle in 100 haystacks

3/20/2017 8:06:09 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

easttowest72
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I think everyone has some type of damage. To me the people who have been married for 20 years and get divorced without even a curse word, are messed up.

3/20/2017 8:08:16 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

burt_hurt
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Well yes, everyone is messed up. but the problem with single moms it's not just one messed up human..it's her and her brats.

"Yes I'd love to be daddy to your f**ked up 11yr old kids..being a cuckold is what I've always wanted".



[Edited 3/20/2017 8:08:33 AM ]

3/20/2017 8:36:41 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

easttowest72
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Dating someone who is divorced isn't cuckold. See your messed up. Some guys want a women not to have anyone else in their life. That is selfish. I wanted kids. Mine aren't messed up.

3/20/2017 8:36:55 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

bumblebee7
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Quote from easttowest72:
I think everyone has some type of damage. To me the people who have been married for 20 years and get divorced without even a curse word, are messed up.


I don't there ever was such a couple....except for the couples on shows like Leave it to Beaver and Ozzie and Harriot.and etc.

But those weren't real.

3/20/2017 8:38:50 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

bumblebee7
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Quote from burt_hurt:
Finding a middle aged woman without kids who isn't f**ked up in the head is like finding a needle in 100 haystacks


The solution is, to find the most f**ked up in the head woman...because if nothing else, they say the nuttier they are, the better in bed they are.

3/20/2017 8:47:38 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

easttowest72
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I dated a guy whose wife told him she didnt love him anymore. He was nice to her through the divorce because she took Alot less. He paid her $13,000. They had a 3 story brick house on 11 acres. He had $300,000 in retirement accounts.

3/20/2017 8:47:42 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

dark_gable0585
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
They should of not gotten the women pregnant then
so you're saying women who spread their legs are innocent....and you wonder why nobody respects you

3/20/2017 8:53:40 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

miss_trsh1
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no I will tell ya why
I am not about to be someone's nursemaid
mama, teacher or sugar mama

got my own goals
I will not set those on hold
for any man

been there done that

3/20/2017 10:14:03 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

mylegsarecold
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
so you're saying women who spread their legs are innocent....and you wonder why nobody respects you

It's the OP that is being the crybaby, not the woman with the child.
She is too busy taking care of the kid to be running around sniffling
about not finding any good men.

3/20/2017 10:29:32 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

dark_gable0585
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Quote from mylegsarecold:
It's the OP that is being the crybaby, not the woman with the child.
She is too busy taking care of the kid to be running around sniffling
about not finding any good men.
white knight to the rescue

3/20/2017 10:31:55 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
so you're saying women who spread their legs are innocent....and you wonder why nobody respects you
its called a condom lads or withdrawal. You're welcome

3/20/2017 10:33:50 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

dark_gable0585
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
its called a condom lads or withdrawal. You're welcome
it's called a joint decision....youre welcome

3/20/2017 10:36:06 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

sadlsticsienna
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Quote from dark_gable0585:
it's called a joint decision....youre welcome
Its called not premature ejaculation you Arrr welcome
If they have CONTROL over their dik they can lower the risk of pregnancy by a lotttt

3/20/2017 10:37:20 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

dark_gable0585
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
Its called not premature ejaculation you Arrr welcome
If they have CONTROL over their dik they can lower the risk of pregnancy by a lotttt
it's called her body...so like i said....two wrongs don't make it right...try again

3/20/2017 10:38:12 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

sadlsticsienna
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Its called men can't control their dik. Try again

3/20/2017 10:40:21 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 
stratus55
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o just do it..everyone should see beavis an buttheads...leave it to beaver show..hilarious.....

hey sara hunny,i bet you seen it..........think of good funny an fun things to laugh by..thats the deal...........

3/20/2017 11:05:21 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 
lukepayne
Philadelphia, PA
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opps



[Edited 3/20/2017 11:06:40 AM ]

3/20/2017 11:08:07 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 
lukepayne
Philadelphia, PA
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I can't say that I agree with your reply but I have to say that it is an honest one no doubt does shed some light on the the discussion.

Thanks for sharing!!

3/20/2017 11:33:11 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

scpiper25
Cheraw, SC
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Yep, and some of us have, wait for it, our Own incomes, we work, and I'm sure it would be asking too much for some to consider widows or unfortunate events that could result in one being a single mom...::zen:

3/20/2017 11:33:45 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

easttowest72
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Middle age women have learned dating is alot more fun than the relationship turns out to be. Getting dressed up and going out vs cooking him dinner, giving him a massage, doing his laundry

3/20/2017 11:35:19 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

mustangwriter
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The other day I was out with my daughters eating lunch.
As I looked around I saw all the middle aged women and turned to my daughters and said "Look. its my dating pool"
They grimaced.

3/20/2017 11:42:16 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

dark_gable0585
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Quote from easttowest72:
Middle age women have learned dating is alot more fun than the relationship turns out to be. Getting dressed up and going out vs cooking him dinner, giving him a massage, doing his laundry
there is a old saying....be careful what you wish for...you just might get it

3/20/2017 11:46:32 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 
lukepayne
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In response to easttowest72. I agree 4sure!

thanks for sharing!

3/20/2017 11:50:55 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

enigmaathand
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Quote from scpiper25:
Yep, and some of us have, wait for it, our Own incomes, we work, and I'm sure it would be asking too much for some to consider widows or unfortunate events that could result in one being a single mom...::zen:
Single Mothers are the "Chrysler 200" of human beings:

There is plenty of supply.
There is very little demand.
And if you do buy it, it will become a money pit as soon as the warranty expires

3/20/2017 11:52:31 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

enigmaathand
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Quote from burt_hurt:
Finding a middle aged woman without kids who isn't f**ked up in the head is like finding a needle in 100 haystacks
I'd rather waste my time, searching for that solid gold needle, in 10 million haystacks.

At least the solid gold needle has value. A woman doesn't.

3/20/2017 12:25:23 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

mylegsarecold
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Quote from enigmaathand:
I'd rather waste my time, searching for that solid gold needle, in 10 million haystacks.

At least the solid gold needle has value. A woman doesn't.

Looks like you will be rolling in the hay with yourself for a very long time.

3/20/2017 12:30:35 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

enigmaathand
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Quote from mylegsarecold:
Looks like you will be rolling in the hay with yourself for a very long time.
Looks to me like that was the point of my statement, to begin with, Captain Obvious


For some reason, you seem to think solitude is punishing. After dating any amount of WOMEN, solitude becomes PREFERRED....

3/20/2017 12:42:02 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

mylegsarecold
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Quote from enigmaathand:
Looks to me like that was the point of my statement, to begin with, Captain Obvious


For some reason, you seem to think solitude is punishing. After dating any amount of WOMEN, solitude becomes PREFERRED....

I am sure the women appreciate your solitude also.

3/20/2017 12:49:08 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 
kungfu_candy
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Alsónémedi
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Quote from enigmaathand:
You should come to Ohio, and meet some of the single fathers that get no rights to their children. Talk to them, and hear the pain in their words, because the mother KNOWS she can use that kid against him and keep his children from him and have the courts ALWAYS side with HER, because the LAW gives her the right to do it.

Maybe you would enjoy seeing the misery of men, that actually DO pay their child support, living off Top Ramen and driving around in beater a** cars that barely run, because the state takes away all THEIR money.

Yes, there are a good percentage of men, that drop woken as soon as the kid comes along(as one study conducted on the topic showed approximately 21% of father want nothing to do with their children).

Or, would you like to speak with my best friend? You know, the one that shot himself in my garage with my 9mm, while I was at work?

See, what you speak of, is what only one side and a minority of men that f**k women over.


I only have one question: Are those men fighting for their sons or daughters? Here in LA the only time a man gives a damn IF he does is when it's for his son. And this isn't a personal issue as from what I can tell my half brother's on my father's side can't stand him and all have daddy issues because of him. Right now his favorite is his youngest girl and of all his children there's only two: me and her. This information is very dated.

The only joy I take is knowing that, that is the same path layed ahead of all the men who chose filth over me. I can be honest about it. From a fair point of view I can feel sorry from them but from a selfish, bitter, rejected one you damn right their pain is my pleasure. As it proves me point about men and the choices they make. Over half the women in my family are single mothers and none of them went running after the father or child support. My family believes in letting the man make the choice of wanting to be there or not, and not chasing his wallet as some form of punishment. I recall my grandma setting my cousin straight when she wanted to seek child support against the father of her baby. Hell my grandma wont even let my brother file for government assistance out of pride. So despite all these women in my family being statistics they aren't your stereotype which PROVES that all those men made that choice. Unless you want to tell they were ALL raped? Oh and the women in several families acquainted with mine are the same. One is completely full of single mothers. All of them college educated, none of them on government assistance nor seeking child support, successfully raising or have raised their sons and daughters on their own.

What happened to your friend was a damn shame, but at what point does self accountability come into play? He chose that women. Just like these women choose the losers they lay with and get trapped by. Self-accountability. Just like if I was caught up by a man in college or high school I could choose to keep it, or get rid of it. All these women who had theirs made their choice and then can't take it back just like these men can't take back a reckless f**k and keep it from turning into a baby. Just like you chose to take matters into your hands when you got your procedure.

I could easily say the women you speak of are a minority and yet here we both are with very valid numbers. And the only difference between us and them are the proactive choices we made and still make to prevent that from happening to us. THAT. SIMPLE.

But this still has nothing to do with the fact that all you men want to attack single women but you aren't doing shit to your scumbag friends who are cumming all up in your prospects. You wont go after them with a pitchfork to keep them from f**king up your crops. Instead you take the indirect route and toss out the crops your friends f**ked over.

3/20/2017 2:30:02 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

scpiper25
Cheraw, SC
49, joined Jan. 2017


Quote from enigmaathand:
Single Mothers are the "Chrysler 200" of human beings:

There is plenty of supply.
There is very little demand.
And if you do buy it, it will become a money pit as soon as the warranty expires


Perhaps...but on more than 1 occasion a man has drooled at the prospect of landing a single mom when they find out she has her own income, owns her own property, and has successfully raised her child...

But by all means, don't allow any of the above burst your bubble

Some real sad truth...Married women are the ones who catch the most hell, and that's really pathetic...As many times as I may say I don't date married or in-a-relationship men, they always show up on my doorstep, tails wagging, don't be so sure about that supply and demand thing you've been misinformed about...

3/20/2017 2:40:40 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

dark_gable0585
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Quote from mylegsarecold:
I am sure the women appreciate your solitude also.
they appreciate your bootlicking

3/20/2017 3:13:20 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

enigmaathand
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@ Kungfu_Candy: If I could count the number of tikes, I have had to tell a fellow Ohio male that his child custody battle was pointless, I would run out of numbers.

Many Ohio men will spend tens of thousands of dollars, in costly attorney fees, court costs, paternity tests(CSEA will ONLY PAY for this when the WOMAN requests it, by the way, in Ohio), etc.

In the end, they typically get slapped with child support, and maybe partial visitation on every other weekend with 2 weeks in the summer. Occasionally, the courts will allow the partial custodian to claim the child as a tax exemption every other year(which of course pisses off the lazy, money grubbing, entitled mother because it reduces her EIC refunds from the IRS).

75.4% of ALL single-parent households are headed by the MOTHER, where I live, in Ohio.

I have a friend, that lost her adoption custody case, to a 14-year old crack wh*re(literally, not joking). Even as a MINOR, they get FULL CUSTODY under that law, and even with proof of drug abuse presented by my friend, she still lost her case in front of the judge.

3/20/2017 3:18:58 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

enigmaathand
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@ scpiper25: Those men you speak of, are probably in terrible marriages/relationships, with lazy, entitled skanks that expect to sit around all day, while HE foots the bill. They probably come with so much emotional baggage, from the constant b*tching they hear everyday from said skank, that YOU would be a breath of fresh air to them.

Clearly, their behavior is NOT ACCEPTABLE, as they should dump the b*tch they married. I understand the courts favor the women, but if they are that miserable, they would be better to eat the costs of divorce and child support, than to male it worse with another woman and possible infidelity.

But, many men are about as intelligent as most women: They aren't.

The fact they even got married is a clear indicator of very low IQ levels, probably well below the standard average of 100. I would say closer to 75, which is moderately retarded, but hey.....they chose their fate.

Single men, with high IQs, do not place as much demand on single mothers. Otherwise, you wouldn't be here, now would you.

You have established that you could have other married men, so by stating that they show up amd inferring that you don't take the bait, it can be reasonably implied that you want a single man.

3/20/2017 3:20:24 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

enigmaathand
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@ Dark Gable: They appreciate his bootlicking, but they are still out f**king with guys like me, all the time.....

3/20/2017 3:21:47 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

dark_gable0585
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Quote from enigmaathand:
@ Dark Gable: They appreciate his bootlicking, but they are still out f**king with guys like me, all the time.....
and he just doesn't get it lol

3/20/2017 5:20:44 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

pickygirl72
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If some guys think we are all bat crazy with or without kids I feel do us women a favor and just spend your money on prostitutes. Their this solves all your problems.

I am tired of the women hating threads, its getting old. Work on your own shit from your past relationships before you seek out another. WE are not all the same.

3/20/2017 5:22:22 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

enigmaathand
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Then don't post in those threads, and save us the trouble of having to read what comes out of your cum dumpster....

3/20/2017 5:38:22 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

packersbabe920
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (74,967)
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013


Op u can date somebody your age or go alittle younger your choice, you're focusing too hard on a middle age women if she's dating or not

3/20/2017 5:56:54 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

dark_gable0585
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,758)
Sacramento, CA
31, joined Feb. 2014
online now!


@picky at least they are honest instead of beating around the bush

3/20/2017 6:08:00 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 
lukepayne
Philadelphia, PA
41, joined Nov. 2013


Quote from packersbabe920:
Op u can date somebody your age or go alittle younger your choice, you're focusing too hard on a middle age women if she's dating or not


Thanks for sharing! I appreciate you!

3/20/2017 6:19:56 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

lucky_1million
Over 1,000 Posts (1,493)
Pewaukee, WI
50, joined Jun. 2013


Quote from easttowest72:
Middle age women have learned dating is a lot more fun than the relationship turns out to be. Getting dressed up and going out vs cooking him dinner, giving him a massage, doing his laundry...


I'm going to add... having lots of sex with the guy, only to find out later on that he doesn't take the relationship all too seriously... and he has been having sex with someone else...and he doesn't respect you even when you are doing your part to maintain a good relationship...

THIS ^^^ makes dating and friendship a more enjoyable option.



Not a single mother though.

I feel more hopeful about having a group of good friends to grow older with.



[Edited 3/20/2017 6:20:47 PM ]

3/20/2017 7:58:47 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

scpiper25
Cheraw, SC
49, joined Jan. 2017


Quote from enigmaathand:
@ scpiper25: Those men you speak of, are probably in terrible marriages/relationships, with lazy, entitled skanks that expect to sit around all day, while HE foots the bill. They probably come with so much emotional baggage, from the constant b*tching they hear everyday from said skank, that YOU would be a breath of fresh air to them.

Clearly, their behavior is NOT ACCEPTABLE, as they should dump the b*tch they married. I understand the courts favor the women, but if they are that miserable, they would be better to eat the costs of divorce and child support, than to male it worse with another woman and possible infidelity.

But, many men are about as intelligent as most women: They aren't.

The fact they even got married is a clear indicator of very low IQ levels, probably well below the standard average of 100. I would say closer to 75, which is moderately retarded, but hey.....they chose their fate.

Single men, with high IQs, do not place as much demand on single mothers. Otherwise, you wouldn't be here, now would you.

You have established that you could have other married men, so by stating that they show up amd inferring that you don't take the bait, it can be reasonably implied that you want a single man.


Yes on the single man thing, as for the intelligent single man thing and demand, it's always been a blessing they they don't...I'm getting some much needed R and R for the 1st time in 18 years...

As for single dad's, Ive know 3 damned fine ones and I wouldn't dream of putting any type of demand on them...As for me being on this site, it's a guilty pleasure I allow myself

3/20/2017 8:57:16 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

enigmaathand
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,224)
Leavittsburg, OH
36, joined Mar. 2013


I am going to be fair with you, since you were honest with me in that response:

Your profile states you want a man, that hasn't been jaded by modern dating.

Honestly, you look good for a 49 year old woman, and you probably can still attract men very well. I certainly wouldn't kick you out of my bed, for eating crackers, so to speak(it was a cheesy cliché my dad used to always use).

To find a man, that hasn't been ruined by today's women, you better plan on dating an infant; LITERALLY

And I am not kidding you, at all.

Good Luck, because the odds are not "ever in your favor" with that choice.

3/21/2017 4:32:12 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

packersbabe920
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (74,967)
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013


Quote from lukepayne:
Thanks for sharing! I appreciate you!



You're Welcome

3/22/2017 12:03:39 AMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

driver406
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (51,938)
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009


I had a crush on one of those, OPie, but she has more baggage than the international airport so I leave her alone except on a professional basis.

3/22/2017 5:24:03 PMDating middle-aged single mother's - really! 

packersbabe920
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (74,967)
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013


driver