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9/5/2017 8:37:39 AMI paid for a dating site 

bookwormtobutte
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Yeah that's right, this morning I broke out my wallet and gave Match $100 for a 6month subscription.




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9/5/2017 8:40:14 AMI paid for a dating site 

stl1
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Gotten laid yet, Books?

9/5/2017 8:44:15 AMI paid for a dating site 

bookwormtobutte
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Though I find it funny any time you read a message, this memo pops up making you pledge not to send out any money or financial information, to the people you talk to

I guess they figure if you're willing to pay for their service you might hand out cash to anyone.

9/5/2017 8:44:39 AMI paid for a dating site 
missamicable
Over 1,000 Posts (1,773)
Austin, TX
83, joined Jul. 2014


Let me know how that worked out for you.

9/5/2017 8:45:19 AMI paid for a dating site 

easttowest72
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Bremen, GA
45, joined Sep. 2014


Stl

Book I don't think paying increases your chances of finding better dates. Improving yourself and being honest with yourself about what you are looking for will help.

9/5/2017 8:45:27 AMI paid for a dating site 

bookwormtobutte
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Quote from stl1:
Gotten laid yet, Books?


Nope, unless you count BOB

9/5/2017 8:47:03 AMI paid for a dating site 
rocky_dennis
Over 2,000 Posts (3,497)
Mechanicsburg, PA
39, joined Nov. 2013


Nice, you can now deveope a conversation with a true scammer. One who understands, you've to spend money to make money.

9/5/2017 8:48:51 AMI paid for a dating site 

stanleyzee
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (58,395)
Dayton, OH
60, joined Dec. 2012


Zoosk is reasonable

BUT, the HONEY'S COST $39.99 @ ??????? WELL WORTH IT

Andddddddd I ain't even desperate

Z

9/5/2017 8:51:01 AMI paid for a dating site 

kandykayn
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Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013


Quote from easttowest72:
Stl

Book I don't think paying increases your chances of finding better dates. Improving yourself and being honest with yourself about what you are looking for will help.
A unemployed uneducated racist old multiple divorcee telling a young intelligent career bound black woman how to get a date?


Have a seat

Good luck Book!

9/5/2017 8:52:20 AMI paid for a dating site 

kandykayn
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Book brings a lot to the table and will be a lucky find for the right guy.

9/5/2017 8:52:30 AMI paid for a dating site 

bookwormtobutte
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I figure its worth a try.

9/5/2017 8:53:50 AMI paid for a dating site 

bookwormtobutte
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Quote from kandykayn:
Book brings a lot to the table and will be a lucky find for the right guy.


Oh Thank You, .
Keep Hope Alive

9/5/2017 8:54:04 AMI paid for a dating site 

easttowest72
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Bremen, GA
45, joined Sep. 2014


Well I'm not paying and have no problem getting dates. Women like you Kandy have nothing to offer but a booty call because that's what you've been your whole life. No man will take you seriously.

9/5/2017 8:58:08 AMI paid for a dating site 

kandykayn
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Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013


East
You are jealous.

Book is not looking for a man to pay her bills and take care of her and her other baby daddies children.

I'm not sure why you are even in her thread. You are the last person to give anyone advice unless they are divorcing. You have no career no life no man no education.

Just racism. while begging black women to speak to you online.

9/5/2017 8:59:19 AMI paid for a dating site 

kandykayn
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Quote from easttowest72:
Well I'm not paying and have no problem getting dates. Women like you Kandy have nothing to offer but a booty call because that's what you've been your whole life. No man will take you seriously.
I don't believe Book has children or baby daddies. What advice could a unemployed baby momma give to a Boss Lady?

9/5/2017 9:00:40 AMI paid for a dating site 
uncle_bulgaria
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Houston, TX
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A woman paying for a date? maybe the world is ending after all...

9/5/2017 9:04:37 AMI paid for a dating site 

easttowest72
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Bremen, GA
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I'm thinking the same thing uncle. A woman can go out everyday. Hell multiply times a day if she choose. There seems to be a bigger problem that the op isn't telling.

9/5/2017 9:07:11 AMI paid for a dating site 
uncle_bulgaria
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Houston, TX
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Indeed, a woman should never have to pay for a dating site...unless there is some underlying issues with said woman, I.E. unbalanced craziness, anger management issues, raging jealousy etc...

In which case she just wasted her money as the guys who go on a date are still going to figure out you're f**king nuts..regardless of your subscription to a dating site.

9/5/2017 9:09:33 AMI paid for a dating site 

stl1
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Saint Louis, MO
63, joined Jun. 2007


Quote from kandykayn:
A unemployed uneducated racist old multiple divorcee telling a young intelligent career bound black woman how to get a date?


Have a seat

Good luck Book!



Are you referring to me as unemployed, uneducated and racist, Mrs. Kayn?

I'm retired, not taking my Social Security yet as I am letting it grow 7% or so a year, have my 4 bedroom and two full baths house in one of the more desirable bedroom communities in St. Louis County and all vehicles paid for, have two associates degrees in vastly differing fields (human services and HVAC).

I do admit to being old (wait, and with any luck, so will you) and divorced.

One of the biggest racists I read on this site is you, Mrs. Kane. I do admit to having the biggest black male racists blocked. I believe there are two that I see quoted every once in a while. I usually make it a point to stay out of the racial threads. You may feel free to prove me wrong. I won't block you because you are too entertaining when you and E2W get in a catfight.

At least I'm not married and posting almost daily on a dating site.

9/5/2017 9:10:06 AMI paid for a dating site 

kandykayn
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Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013


Quote from uncle_bulgaria:
Indeed, a woman should never have to pay for a dating site...unless there is some underlying issues with said woman, I.E. unbalanced craziness, anger management issues, raging jealousy etc...

In which case she just wasted her money as the guys who go on a date are still going to figure out you're f**king nuts..regardless of your subscription to a dating site.
I would assume the exact same things about a multiple divorced woman who claims to date every weekend yet manages to be on DH 24/7.
Especially if that woman can't give her dates a erection.

Something is definitely off.

9/5/2017 9:11:08 AMI paid for a dating site 
uncle_bulgaria
Over 2,000 Posts (3,886)
Houston, TX
50, joined Apr. 2017


have my 4 bedroom and two full baths house

What do you do with the extra rooms?

"I think I'll sleep in bedroom #3 tonight and maybe I'll take a shit in The South facing bathroom...who knows!"



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9/5/2017 9:11:15 AMI paid for a dating site 

kandykayn
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Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013


Quote from stl1:
Are you referring to me as unemployed, uneducated and racist, Mrs. Kayn?

I'm retired, not taking my Social Security yet as I am letting it grow 7% or so a year, have my 4 bedroom and two full baths house in one of the more desirable bedroom communities in St. Louis County and all vehicles paid for, have two associates degrees in vastly differing fields (human services and HVAC).

I do admit to being old (wait, and with any luck, so will you) and divorced.

One of the biggest racists I read on this site is you, Mrs. Kane. I do admit to having the biggest black male racists blocked. I believe there are two that I see quoted every once in a while. I usually make it a point to stay out of the racial threads. You may feel free to prove me wrong. I won't block you because you are too entertaining when you and E2W get in a catfight.

At least I'm not married and posting almost daily on a dating site.
No I was speaking to East. I am not here daily and I don't beg men to pay my bills or try to get advice on how to get my date sexually excited. But I'm glad you got that bio off your chest.

9/5/2017 9:12:41 AMI paid for a dating site 

kandykayn
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Clarksville, TN
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St1

If you really felt that way you can utilize your block button you are out of my generation I don't care what some Jim crow law old head thinks of me. I think nothing of you.

9/5/2017 9:12:45 AMI paid for a dating site 

easttowest72
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Bremen, GA
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No you get money for welfare and give the guys money to come over and duck you.

Kandycoon first of the month check is gone Mad at a white woman because she will be sitting home the rest of the month



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9/5/2017 9:13:54 AMI paid for a dating site 

_purdibirdi_
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France
51, joined Apr. 2014


Quote from uncle_bulgaria:
Indeed, a woman should never have to pay for a dating site...unless there is some underlying issues with said woman, I.E. unbalanced craziness, anger management issues, raging jealousy etc...

In which case she just wasted her money as the guys who go on a date are still going to figure out you're f**king nuts..regardless of your subscription to a dating site.



... and there's that TINDER site, that's free isn't it? I went on there and had to delete myself shortly after. I had so many dudes wanting to meet up for drinks, dinner, coffee etc. It was a little overwhelming if'n you ask me.

good luck book.

9/5/2017 9:14:45 AMI paid for a dating site 

kandykayn
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So says the babymomma
How many fathers do your kids have East?

9/5/2017 9:16:10 AMI paid for a dating site 
uncle_bulgaria
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Houston, TX
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Tinder is a f**k site. I have a friend who met his current "girlfriend" on tinder...she's one of those 45 yr old "rock chicks" that hangs out a local rock bars/clubs (he's in a local band) wearing leather and denim with big hair and thinking it's still the 80s.



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9/5/2017 9:16:26 AMI paid for a dating site 

_purdibirdi_
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France
51, joined Apr. 2014


Quote from stl1:
Are you referring to me as unemployed, uneducated and racist, Mrs. Kayn?

I'm retired, not taking my Social Security yet as I am letting it grow 7% or so a year, have my 4 bedroom and two full baths house in one of the more desirable bedroom communities in St. Louis County and all vehicles paid for, have two associates degrees in vastly differing fields (human services and HVAC).

I do admit to being old (wait, and with any luck, so will you) and divorced.

One of the biggest racists I read on this site is you, Mrs. Kane. I do admit to having the biggest black male racists blocked. I believe there are two that I see quoted every once in a while. I usually make it a point to stay out of the racial threads. You may feel free to prove me wrong. I won't block you because you are too entertaining when you and E2W get in a catfight.

At least I'm not married and posting almost daily on a dating site.





9/5/2017 9:16:45 AMI paid for a dating site 

kandykayn
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Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013


A woman who worked for her pleasures in life needs no advice from a non working babymomma.

Book is out of your league. She does not have to beg men to pay her bills and take care of her illegitimate children.

9/5/2017 9:17:28 AMI paid for a dating site 

easttowest72
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Bremen, GA
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Kandycoon how many baby daddy could you prove and how many could you not find to get the DNA test

Does book need advice from a crazy b*tch on a dating site claiming to be married because she can't get a date?



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9/5/2017 9:18:24 AMI paid for a dating site 
uncle_bulgaria
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Houston, TX
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Quote from kandykayn:
She does not have to beg men to pay her bills and take care of her illegitimate children.


Do her subs cover that?

9/5/2017 9:20:23 AMI paid for a dating site 

kandykayn
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Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013


As long as Book does not make the path of spreading her legs for money she will not end up like East.

How you get them is how you lose them. When women go for men just for money they are usually left for the cute working woman he met at work.

Right East.

9/5/2017 9:21:31 AMI paid for a dating site 

stl1
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)

9/5/2017 9:22:01 AMI paid for a dating site 
uncle_bulgaria
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Houston, TX
50, joined Apr. 2017


Realistically don't expect any relationship to last these days. With that in mind nothing is stopping you from enjoying a short term f**kfest.

if you are looking for a life partner you were born in the wrong century.

9/5/2017 9:22:27 AMI paid for a dating site 

kandykayn
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Clarksville, TN
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East all of your illegitimate kids have diffrent daddies.

You have three.

Three illegitimate kids and a few C-section cuts is all you bring to the table.



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9/5/2017 9:22:39 AMI paid for a dating site 

easttowest72
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Yes hopefully book can learn from your mistake. Men don't want a welfare Wh*re.

Your kids have your maiden name because you never married. I haven't gone by my maiden name in 27 years. My kids don't have a blank where father is on the birth certificate



[Edited 9/5/2017 9:24:52 AM ]

9/5/2017 9:25:46 AMI paid for a dating site 

kandykayn
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Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013


Quote from easttowest72:
Yes hopefully book can learn from your mistake. Men don't want a welfare Wh*re.

Your kids have your maiden name because you never married. I haven't gone by my maiden name in 27 years. My kids don't have a blank where father is on the birth certificate
Exactly why you are still a serial weekend "dater" They don't even want to have sex with a welfare queen.

9/5/2017 9:27:20 AMI paid for a dating site 

kandykayn
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Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013


Three babydaddies.
Three rejections
Three men who didn't want you even after birthing their kids.

Gold digging never works out in your favor in the end.

9/5/2017 9:29:04 AMI paid for a dating site 

kandykayn
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Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013


I believe Book is looking for a real relationship not a weekend dated where she is expected to "perform" hard ons.

East my children and I have my husband's name. All of your kids have different last names. Go find your baby daddies must be why you on dh 24/7 hoping to catch them or one of the ambitious women they left you for.



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9/5/2017 9:30:23 AMI paid for a dating site 
uncle_bulgaria
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Houston, TX
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Quote from kandykayn:
I believe Book is looking for a real relationship


Then she wasted $100. Match is a f**k site too.



[Edited 9/5/2017 9:30:34 AM ]

9/5/2017 9:30:43 AMI paid for a dating site 

_purdibirdi_
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France
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Quote from uncle_bulgaria:
Realistically don't expect any relationship to last these days. With that in mind nothing is stopping you from enjoying a short term f**kfest.

if you are looking for a life partner you were born in the wrong century.


I agree, except, I don't have to chase men and I don't care to keep the company of a "skirt chaser" either(for any length of time). I just didn't have the time... and I was turned off by someone getting pissed at the fact that I couldn't meet until the following week when my schedule permited. wtf... I do have a life and had prior obligations long before talking to them. weirdos.

9/5/2017 9:39:30 AMI paid for a dating site 

kandykayn
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Purdi and St I will do you a favor don't get too bored.

Out of respect for Yets

9/5/2017 9:39:58 AMI paid for a dating site 

easttowest72
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From my experience men are still wanting relationships and marriage. Its just that they want to marry up. Equal or less is only short term.

9/5/2017 9:47:48 AMI paid for a dating site 

_purdibirdi_
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France
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Quote from kandykayn:
Purdi and St I will do you a favor don't get too bored.

Out of respect for Yets



^guilty.

doesn't seem as bad, tho, as I have aged. I mean, what I would have thought to be a "boring" man in my youth, doesn't seem to be boring to me now.

.... or maybe it just takes me longer to get bored, now?

... wow, I AM getting 'old-timers' apparently!

9/5/2017 9:48:35 AMI paid for a dating site 
uncle_bulgaria
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Houston, TX
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Quote from easttowest72:
From my experience men are still wanting relationships and marriage.


Some do, doesn't mean it will actually happen or last though. Less and less men are feeling that way as it makes zero sense for them to get married because of the shit storm that getting divorced causes...there really is no good reason to get married these days. It's just a tradition that at best gets you invited to other married peoples dinner parties..at worst will rip your life apart for years.

9/5/2017 9:50:44 AMI paid for a dating site 

sadlsticsienna
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Naa v I'd rather sit back and let the boys come to me lol. Not need to pay $$$

9/5/2017 9:51:36 AMI paid for a dating site 
uncle_bulgaria
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Houston, TX
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Quote from sadlsticsienna:
Naa v I'd rather sit back and let the boys come to me lol. Not need to pay $$$


Exactly. There are no reasonable circumstances where a woman should have to pay for a dating site.

it's the same philosophy as going to bars/clubs...many of the ladies get in free...the bar knows the more hot chicks the more dude spending $$$ will be there.



[Edited 9/5/2017 9:52:24 AM ]

9/5/2017 9:52:40 AMI paid for a dating site 

easttowest72
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That's what I'm saying if the woman has aquired more wealth and he isn't going to lose anything in the divorce

He also wants her to be in better shape than he is and do more of the chores.

9/5/2017 9:53:07 AMI paid for a dating site 

kandykayn
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Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013


Quote from uncle_bulgaria:
Exactly. There are no reasonable circumstances where a woman should have to pay for a dating site.
Seems she is just trying something new.

Like you said Times have changed the good men have to be found. They are few and far in between.

9/5/2017 9:54:13 AMI paid for a dating site 
uncle_bulgaria
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Houston, TX
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Quote from kandykayn:
Seems she is just trying something new.

Like you said Times have changed the good men have to be found. They are few and far in between.


Well they sure are not on dating sites..that's just money down the drain

Only the dysfunctional seriously use dating sites..."normal" people go out and meet...people.



[Edited 9/5/2017 9:55:00 AM ]

9/5/2017 9:55:21 AMI paid for a dating site 

kandykayn
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Book also has to watch out for Gold diggers.
Unfortunately men have caught on and now see themselves as equal opportunity receivers rather than givers.

9/5/2017 9:56:18 AMI paid for a dating site 
4uijack
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Quote from _purdibirdi_:
^guilty.

doesn't seem as bad, tho, as I have aged. I mean, what I would have thought to be a "boring" man in my youth, doesn't seem to be boring to me now.

.... or maybe it just takes me longer to get bored, now?

... wow, I AM getting 'old-timers' apparently!


Hey baby!!

9/5/2017 9:57:20 AMI paid for a dating site 

_purdibirdi_
Nice
France
51, joined Apr. 2014


Hopefully, there may be a few good menz in this Mozzarella cheese making class I'm signed up for. Gonna learn how to make Brie, feta, and other kinds of cheeses. I can't wait.


you're def correct, only gonna meet peeps if'n you get out and do it!

@ Bulgaria




you'all have yourselves a wonderful day. I'm off to Denver for the day.



[Edited 9/5/2017 9:59:47 AM ]

9/5/2017 9:59:17 AMI paid for a dating site 
sinceresammy
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If you were money smart and hadn't jumped at the first offer, you could have gotten Match for 50% off or fifty bucks.

BTW, I've had nearly 160 women contact me on POF over the last year. Rich, handsome, intelligent, and Jewish fellows with a fat black cat are in high demand!

9/5/2017 10:01:23 AMI paid for a dating site 

_purdibirdi_
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.... See ya later, Uncle Bularky!

9/5/2017 10:01:53 AMI paid for a dating site 
uncle_bulgaria
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Houston, TX
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BTW, I've had nearly 160 women contact me on POF over the last year. Rich, handsome, intelligent, and Jewish fellows with a fat black cat are in high demand!


Right but how many worked out?

I have a friend who's been on match for years...I refer to him as a 'serial dater'..he has a "match date" 2 or 3 times a month...sometimes 2 or 3 a week!. He's even brought them to our weekly "boys night out" and they've dragged along their fat friends.

12yrs later he's still on match and still single. Getting dates isn't he problem, finding one worthwhile is.

9/5/2017 10:02:55 AMI paid for a dating site 

kandykayn
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Clarksville, TN
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Quote from uncle_bulgaria:


BTW, I've had nearly 160 women contact me on POF over the last year. Rich, handsome, intelligent, and Jewish fellows with a fat black cat are in high demand!


Right but how many worked out?

I have a friend who's been on match for years...I refer to him as a 'serial dater'..he has a "match date" 2 or 3 times a month...sometimes 2 or 3 a week!. He's even brought them to our weekly "boys night out" and they've dragged along their fat friends.

12yrs later he's still on match and still single. Getting dates isn't he problem, finding one worthwhile is.
Round of Applause
So true.

9/5/2017 10:04:14 AMI paid for a dating site 

Suzhi
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Quote from sinceresammy:
If you were money smart and hadn't jumped at the first offer, you could have gotten Match for 50% off or fifty bucks.

BTW, I've had nearly 160 women contact me on POF over the last year. Rich, handsome, intelligent, and Jewish fellows with a fat black cat are in high demand!


Ask if they got a friend for me, Sammy...

9/5/2017 10:10:48 AMI paid for a dating site 
sinceresammy
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Dayton, OH
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Quote from Suzhi:
Ask if they got a friend for me, Sammy...


Mikey POF is free, but you can't call the ladies skanks or b*tches. You'll get kicked off.

However, if you write a nice non-threatening profile and cast your net, the ladies will come flocking to you. The trick is to let the game come to you!

And once they know you have a pet pig named Rosie, you'll instantly win their hearts. BTW, nothing works out in this world when you get over 50. That stuff only worked when you were 20!

9/5/2017 10:11:09 AMI paid for a dating site 

sadlsticsienna
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I would like a nice Russian man though