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5/29/2011 11:50:52 AMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
amy016
Snellville, GA
51, joined May. 2011


I have gotten a few posts that include this phrase and I don't know what it means... I haven't answered any because I didn't want to agree to something I didn't understand.




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5/29/2011 11:51:24 AMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
vickyxoxo
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,176)
Lakeland, FL
27, joined Mar. 2011


no strings attached. like f**k buddies

its best not to agree to something you dont know about.



[Edited 5/29/2011 11:53:26 AM ]

5/29/2011 11:56:01 AMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
lotus68
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,160)
Tokyo
Japan
48, joined Jul. 2010


Usually it refers to a relationship where you are both free to do whatever with whom ever. (No Strings Attached)

5/29/2011 11:56:28 AMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
luvkillsslowly
Over 1,000 Posts (1,704)
Columbia, SC
31, joined Apr. 2011


No strings attached aka NSA and F**k Buddies aka FB or FWB are actually different. NSA fun is usually exactly that, no friends no nothing.

5/29/2011 11:57:01 AMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 

bumblebee7
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (73,426)
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011


No strings attached....can be as in a FWB, F-buddy....activities partner, dating only, etc

But even with a F(friends) W(with)B(benefits-sex)...they can be no strings, but still have monogamy...same with a F(uck) buddy...can be monogamous.

All this in consideration of what the two agree on.

No strings can be ...nothing serious, but monogamous...to nothing serious and being able to see others.

Yes, you can have a f-buddy or fwb and be monogamous, just draw the line at getting too attached or serious...some people can, some can't do this, without getting too involved..

Again these type arrangemenst are up to what both agree on and are called ground rules.



[Edited 5/29/2011 11:59:33 AM ]

5/29/2011 12:02:56 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
amy016
Snellville, GA
51, joined May. 2011


Thanks!!! I'm glad I asked!!!!

5/29/2011 12:05:10 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
badcatjack
Wilmore, KS
45, joined Jan. 2011


NSA=oxymoron.....strings always there just loosely defined.

5/29/2011 12:05:34 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
teachableguy
Over 1,000 Posts (1,994)
Kennesaw, GA
48, joined Apr. 2011


That could have made for some akward emails!

5/29/2011 12:06:34 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
mustangwriter
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (24,547)
Boerne, TX
56, joined Nov. 2009


Geez...and all this time I thought they were looking for someone in the National Security Agency.

5/29/2011 12:18:23 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
settee_s
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,936)
Flower Mound, TX
64, joined May. 2011


Wait.....what?

Was it the new advertures or the fun loving part that made your imagination run wild, Neo?

5/29/2011 12:19:53 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
libertine666
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,139)
West Springfield, MA
51, joined Feb. 2011


National Security Agency. be seeing you.

5/29/2011 12:26:40 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
settee_s
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,936)
Flower Mound, TX
64, joined May. 2011




Adventure is a bad word? It could mean I'm up for anything?

Drat....and I thought it only meant an unusual or exciting experience...

..my bad..



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5/29/2011 12:26:54 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 

a_keeper
Over 1,000 Posts (1,670)
Elizabethtown, KY
52, joined Aug. 2007


I didn't know what "nsa" meant either.
I haven't recieved any emails like that and don't won't too!

5/29/2011 12:31:15 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
lotus68
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,160)
Tokyo
Japan
48, joined Jul. 2010


Quote from mustangwriter:
Geez...and all this time I thought they were looking for someone in the National Security Agency.






5/29/2011 12:37:47 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
rlm68
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (18,110)
Aurora, CO
48, joined Apr. 2010


oh i didnt reply because i thought nsa meant ...no stupid Aholes

5/29/2011 12:38:43 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 

chris_90352
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (16,743)
Sykesville, MD
44, joined Sep. 2010


Quote from a_keeper:
I didn't know what "nsa" meant either.
I haven't recieved any emails like that and don't won't too!


Quote from amy016:
I have gotten a few posts that include this phrase and I don't know what it means... I haven't answered any because I didn't want to agree to something I didn't understand.


Don't feel bad, ladies - we almost have to learn a new language when joining a social site like this

If it helps, I created a thread (link) that includes a ton of abbreviations and jargon you will likely see at least once if you are here for any length of time. Some of the terms might seem obvious or quite familiar, but most of them were new to me when I joined this site. Hope it helps

5/29/2011 12:41:23 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
seekinfun22
Mission Hills, CA
28, joined May. 2011


On my profile it means No Shit holes Allowed, No Stupid Asses, there's more but it does mean no strings attached and those guys are married or bored with their lives

5/29/2011 12:42:45 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 

bitsybon
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,068)
Jacksonville, FL
59, joined Jan. 2010


This is Dh

N o

S tupid

A nswers





5/29/2011 12:50:48 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 

a_keeper
Over 1,000 Posts (1,670)
Elizabethtown, KY
52, joined Aug. 2007


Quote from chris_90352:
Don't feel bad, ladies - we almost have to learn a new language when joining a social site like this

If it helps, I created a thread (link) that includes a ton of abbreviations and jargon you will likely see at least once if you are here for any length of time. Some of the terms might seem obvious or quite familiar, but most of them were new to me when I joined this site. Hope it helps
Thanks Chris, should I just print it out? If not I won't remember where its at!-LOl.

5/29/2011 12:59:47 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 

gdaddy47
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,749)
Columbia, TN
69, joined Sep. 2009


There is no such thing as NSA. When you have sex with someone then there are strings.

5/29/2011 1:07:36 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
seekinfun22
Mission Hills, CA
28, joined May. 2011


Some how strings do become attached and things get awkward and it gets awkward once u try to end things

5/29/2011 1:08:26 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
jammil
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Valdosta, GA
34, joined Apr. 2010


Quote from seekinfun22:
Some how strings do become attached and things get awkward and it gets awkward once u try to end things


Kinda like a relationship...

5/29/2011 1:08:37 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 

stobil
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (24,774)
Gallatin, TN
37, joined Nov. 2009


No Stupidity Allowed

5/29/2011 1:08:55 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 

chris_90352
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (16,743)
Sykesville, MD
44, joined Sep. 2010


Quote from a_keeper:
Thanks Chris, should I just print it out? If not I won't remember where its at!-LOl.


You are quite welcome to print it out, if you like

5/29/2011 1:17:47 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
seekinfun22
Mission Hills, CA
28, joined May. 2011


Quote from jammil:
Kinda like a relationship...


Finally someone gets me jk but nsa and relationships are the same f**k nsa its pointless get yourself having feelings for the other person than u find out that guy has more girls behind ur back or visa versa

5/29/2011 1:20:54 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
jammil
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,954)
Valdosta, GA
34, joined Apr. 2010


If all you're looking for is a f**k, then best go with the hookup and many of them if there's a need. Now if you do it dishonestly and try and string them along because of whatever reason then I really got anything positive to say about that.

5/29/2011 1:26:42 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
seekinfun22
Mission Hills, CA
28, joined May. 2011


All I've gotta say is

HOOKUP - S.T.Ds
Nsa - S.T.Ds
One night stands - S.T.Ds

None of that shit is safe

Condoms break, someone gets pregnant, so many things can go wrong

5/29/2011 1:27:41 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
jammil
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,954)
Valdosta, GA
34, joined Apr. 2010


Apparently it doesn't matter, it's popular to do as it doesn't cost nearly as much as a divorce.

5/29/2011 1:30:08 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
seekinfun22
Mission Hills, CA
28, joined May. 2011


Ur putting ur body at risk, so tell me would u rather die of of an infectious disease or die poor due to your divorce?

5/29/2011 1:35:35 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
luvkillsslowly
Over 1,000 Posts (1,704)
Columbia, SC
31, joined Apr. 2011


Just curious. If you're not looking for nsa or fwb, then why the screen name "seekinfun"? I understand that seeking fun might actually mean different to you than what people actually perceive it. Though this is DH, you might be unintentionally giving the wrong message.

No way am I trying to being rude, so please don't take it as that.. I am just curious is all.

Hey Jammil



[Edited 5/29/2011 1:39:11 PM ]

5/29/2011 1:37:08 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
seekinfun22
Mission Hills, CA
28, joined May. 2011


Fun as in dating and seeing how things go, yea plus I loving giving mixed messages like they did to me sometimes u gotta revearse it and throw it in their face and see how many will still be around once u tell them sex isn't the fun I'm seeking so if ur willing to still date me that's cool



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5/29/2011 1:37:29 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
jammil
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,954)
Valdosta, GA
34, joined Apr. 2010


I'm speaking for the trends that are going around. I'm currently in a relationship with a very sweet girl and am only here for the forums and my friends here.

Now to your question... Those who don't have their health don't have anything regardless of possessions. Those who've been gutted by divorce feel violated by not only the woman on the other side of the courtroom, but also by the very system they swore to align with. I can't make that call honestly as both suck ass. I'll go off of what I'm seeing close to home. I know of a guy who married and divorced young and is now partying it up every weekend and hooking up with as many young and available attractive women as he can. I also know of another guy who did that and has done the same thing and not so close to home.

Based on that there's more benefit for those men to be man wh*res than to settle down with a woman who could divorce them. (One has remarried and has remained there for quite some time and I have no reason to suspect he's cheated.)

I also know of quite a few women who divorced young and have a string of partners too. I'm not going to judge them either.

5/29/2011 1:40:43 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
luvkillsslowly
Over 1,000 Posts (1,704)
Columbia, SC
31, joined Apr. 2011


To each and their own I suppose.

5/29/2011 2:25:14 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 

bitsybon
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,068)
Jacksonville, FL
59, joined Jan. 2010


NSA

No
Sex
Attached




5/29/2011 2:28:05 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 

yugllihgnirps
Over 1,000 Posts (1,314)
Spring Hill, FL
42, joined Feb. 2011


Normal structured activities?

Nooner sex anyone?

Naughty sex agreement?



[Edited 5/29/2011 2:29:41 PM ]

5/29/2011 2:29:33 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
mercedes01
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (77,358)
New South Wales
Australia
98, joined Jan. 2010


I thought it mean't nascar,I had no idea myself

5/29/2011 2:32:15 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 

chris_90352
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Sykesville, MD
44, joined Sep. 2010


Quote from mercedes01:
I thought it mean't nascar,I had no idea myself




5/29/2011 2:38:39 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
angelofhonesty
Over 2,000 Posts (2,315)
San Antonio, TX
47, joined Mar. 2009


It basically means will you put up with my bullshit because you are last on my priority list. No strings attached, means ...I f**k you but keep my balls, don't even think of putting them in your damn purse.... It means I get to disrespect you and have sex with you only and you better accept it, becasue there's no way in hell I'm taking you out, taking you to meet my family or close friends, there's no way I'm making plans with you because I have to make myself available to others, but if nothing else better plans out, yes I will come over and f**k you. So be on stand by!!!NSA to means Nothing (but a ) Stupid Ass!!!

5/29/2011 2:45:36 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
perfectstrangr
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,365)
Long Beach, CA
34, joined Jun. 2010


Quote from badcatjack:
NSA=oxymoron.....strings always there just loosely defined.


There's always rules. Unspoken rules, that both understand.

5/29/2011 3:01:03 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
seekinfun22
Mission Hills, CA
28, joined May. 2011


Sometimes rules are made to be broken

5/29/2011 3:04:37 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 

bitsybon
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,068)
Jacksonville, FL
59, joined Jan. 2010


Quote from seekinfun22:
Sometimes rules are made to be broken


I think rules should be made to be bacon.




5/29/2011 3:09:32 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 

bumblebee7
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Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011


OP.....NSA is a farce....no matter the situation...there can be minut strings...we are humans...it has to be...but these types of string are easily broken...meaning, not very far at all to fall.

Then, no one gets hurt.....or just slightly so and easy to get over.

5/29/2011 3:14:43 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
seekinfun22
Mission Hills, CA
28, joined May. 2011




Quote from bitsybon:
I think rules should be made to be bacon.




5/29/2011 3:16:17 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
swamp_donkey_v2
Over 1,000 Posts (1,276)
Chicago, IL
81, joined May. 2011


if they use alot of these abbreviations it means they're casual about everything, and they're "pro's" and theyre probably writing to as many people as they have time to.

5/29/2011 3:17:44 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
jammil
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,954)
Valdosta, GA
34, joined Apr. 2010


Quote from luvkillsslowly:
Just curious. If you're not looking for nsa or fwb, then why the screen name "seekinfun"? I understand that seeking fun might actually mean different to you than what people actually perceive it. Though this is DH, you might be unintentionally giving the wrong message.

No way am I trying to being rude, so please don't take it as that.. I am just curious is all.

Hey Jammil


Got wrapped up, LOL! HI!

5/29/2011 3:22:49 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
swamp_donkey_v2
Over 1,000 Posts (1,276)
Chicago, IL
81, joined May. 2011


And be careful with these people because most of them lie their asses off about EVERYTHING, mostly con artists and pathological liars out to see what they can get out of you, and if you get hurt along the way that's icing on the cake for them. They lie about anything and everything and WILL give you an std, use everything you did for them against you, and they have no trouble calling the police and lying to them about anything just to cause drama.
dont trust anybody or anything above your own instincts and learn to trust and use your instincts because you can be in contact with 500 people over years and it's possible every single one of them is a liar.

5/29/2011 3:24:57 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
perfectstrangr
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,365)
Long Beach, CA
34, joined Jun. 2010


Mercs thought it meant nascar. That's priceless. I'm still laughing.

5/29/2011 3:30:24 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 
jammil
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,954)
Valdosta, GA
34, joined Apr. 2010


True NSA is hooking up the rest is a game. Merc's naivety was quite humorous!

5/29/2011 3:43:59 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 

yugllihgnirps
Over 1,000 Posts (1,314)
Spring Hill, FL
42, joined Feb. 2011


It means, can I use your junk to orgasm with till I find someone I want to date...

5/29/2011 3:46:44 PMI guess I'm naive but what does "nsa" mean??? 

bumblebee7
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (73,426)
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011


lol...mercedes is yanking your chain.....lol...she's a smart girl who likes to joke around a lot......