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11/30/2012 1:47:47 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
fergalicity0037
Sarasota, FL
42, joined May. 2012


Why do some guys feel it is expected of any girl that chats with them and shows one little tiny bit of interest in the first couple hours of chatting,to give them their phone number? I run into this alot...i don't think it's smart...and some won't even chat anymore if i don't give them my phone number Right away

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11/30/2012 1:49:09 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
l0stspirit84
Over 2,000 Posts (2,644)
Leavenworth, KS
33, joined Oct. 2012


Just shut up and give me your number already!

11/30/2012 1:50:09 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
mrfingers008
Over 1,000 Posts (1,511)
Yucaipa, CA
55, joined Jul. 2012


I dont even bring it up. If we are chatting and she is interested and wants me to call she will bring it up. Maybe Im wrong but it seems to work that way for me.

11/30/2012 1:52:20 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
fergalicity0037
Sarasota, FL
42, joined May. 2012


Quote from l0stspirit84:
Just shut up and give me your number already!


Lol! Yep just like that ! If I gave my number to everyone who asked for my number, my phone would never stop ringing....

11/30/2012 1:53:17 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
l0stspirit84
Over 2,000 Posts (2,644)
Leavenworth, KS
33, joined Oct. 2012


Quote from fergalicity0037:
Lol! Yep just like that ! If I gave my number to everyone who asked for my number, my phone would never stop ringing....
Mine too Teehee

11/30/2012 1:53:26 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
get2knowuwell
Over 2,000 Posts (3,430)
Fort Worth, TX
51, joined Aug. 2009


can i call collect?

11/30/2012 1:53:38 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

kerm1528
Over 2,000 Posts (2,220)
Hesperia, CA
45, joined May. 2012


Clearly this are men you shouldn't waste your time on then. Personally I don't have a problem exchanging numbers with somebody I enjoyed talking to.
I tend to let the woman I'm speaking with determine when that happens though. That way I know she's comfortable with it.

11/30/2012 1:56:15 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
l0stspirit84
Over 2,000 Posts (2,644)
Leavenworth, KS
33, joined Oct. 2012


Quote from devildog55:
Are you still talking...you heard the man number please
Semper Fi?

11/30/2012 1:57:27 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

calthropstu
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,619)
Phoenix, AZ
38, joined Aug. 2012


Quote from fergalicity0037:
Why do some guys feel it is expected of any girl that chats with them and shows one little tiny bit of interest in the first couple hours of chatting,to give them their phone number? I run into this alot...i don't think it's smart...and some won't even chat anymore if i don't give them my phone number Right away


This is because a lot of people are more comfortable talking than typing.

This is less of a problem with the younger generation who grew up with texting. I personally prefer either talking on the phone or typing in real time to the less than ideal method that this website supports.



[Edited 11/30/2012 1:59:17 AM ]

11/30/2012 2:00:58 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

claudius5
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,941)
Petaluma, CA
68, joined May. 2009


It is not a big thing and I think this is much ado about nothing. If you don't think it is wise, then don't do it. You do not need validation from anyone else. If you want to find out why the rush, ask them when they ask you because in truth only they know why they do it. If they won't chat anymore then you should take that as a sign that you dodged a bullet.

11/30/2012 2:11:07 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

amargosa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (15,945)
Riddle, OR
59, joined Aug. 2011


Why not? If they call your cell after you tell them not to,they get an instant ticket. If they txt anything lewd without you doing it, they get an instant ticket. Nothing to worry about. It is not like they can reach through the phone and squeeze your boobs. I think this is just another "I'm soooooo hot and all these guys are after me" thread.


(Yawn.)

11/30/2012 2:15:07 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
worldsbest1
Sun City, CA
54, joined Apr. 2012


<------ Use's throw away cells,smash and start fresh no problem,to
Get my Satellite phone # fast,you must be a 12 on a 1 to 10 scale,no average ladies
period.

11/30/2012 2:17:55 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

max811
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,416)
Palmetto, FL
37, joined Aug. 2010


They just want some ass.

11/30/2012 2:24:13 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

bowlerxxx
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,752)
Decatur, GA
53, joined Feb. 2011


For some a couple of hours chatting online feels like 2 weeks. So they really think they know you. Reality is it's only been 2 hours. It doesn't happen as much to people that have been on irc,chat rooms,usenet,web boards,bbs..... for any lengh of time but for those that are new it's a differant story. In other words to you it may seem quick but for them it seems like good timing.


Then again as been stated they could just be horny.

11/30/2012 2:33:24 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
tjl2280
Brush Prairie, WA
37, joined Dec. 2009


I think that after about 8 thoughtful emails (4 each way) It's time to move forward. Too many people on here want to play pen pals for weeks and I'm not down for that.

If you're interested there is no reason not to give out your number, talk on the phone and set up a meet.

Talking on the phone once before meeting makes things more comfortable. You can get a feel for someone easier and know if you want to meet them.

I've dealt with too many flakes, you spend all that time getting to know someone for nothing, this sorts through those people for me.

So, for the guys who interest you think about what I wrote and take chances. For the creeps who just ask for your number on the first message, tell them to f**k off.

11/30/2012 2:37:23 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

amargosa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (15,945)
Riddle, OR
59, joined Aug. 2011


If I have a good long first first conversation online with someone, I will always ask for their number and offer mine. Very seldom been turned down. It is a non-issue and a ridiculous thing to be paranoid about. Are you afraid they are going to ask you what color panties you have on? Hell, they can do that here.



[Edited 11/30/2012 2:37:53 AM ]

11/30/2012 2:49:05 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

im7
Over 2,000 Posts (2,432)
Chapel Hill, NC
52, joined May. 2011


Someone said it already. They want a date, not to be your pen pal.

11/30/2012 3:09:30 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
cajnj
Jersey City, NJ
29, joined Nov. 2012


Quote from im7:
Someone said it already. They want a date, not to be your pen pal.


I get numbers from here all the time. the fact of matter is that before you can find anybody, you are going to have eliminate the fear of rejection. Put up or get off the site.

You know, there's alot on here that make excuses and i still get involved in that senseless crap from time to time, just be careful is all. happy hunting

11/30/2012 3:36:08 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
jaszn
San Jose, CA
98, joined Nov. 2012


Give them a number to pizza place.



[Edited 11/30/2012 3:36:59 AM ]

11/30/2012 3:43:34 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

amargosa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (15,945)
Riddle, OR
59, joined Aug. 2011


Quote from dmhall:
Would you seriously surrender your phone number after a few thoughtful messages? Psychos? Scam artists? Potential ex girlfriends with serious emotional issues? Hello!



Fer Chrissake, what are they going to do? Say bad things to you? If you have a cellphone, they cannot get away with that without paying a price. Cellphones mean the end of crank calls, unless they are calling from a phone booth or using a stolen phone.

11/30/2012 3:50:36 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
chris_90352
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (16,743)
Sykesville, MD
44, joined Sep. 2010


Quote from fergalicity0037:
Why do some guys feel it is expected of any girl that chats with them and shows one little tiny bit of interest in the first couple hours of chatting,to give them their phone number? I run into this alot...i don't think it's smart...and some won't even chat anymore if i don't give them my phone number Right away


Possible 'chatting' detected. You have already posted in this thread recently. Please wait for some other people to reply before posting in this thread again, or wait like an hour or so, whichever comes first. Sorry for the inconvenience.

Chatting: there's yer problem. The refuge of folks who aren't serious about ever meeting in person, the folks who are too scared to date, the folks (like scammers and married men and women) who have something to hide.

Why dilly-dally around with lying to each other by e-mail or chat for more than a couple days, when you can meet in person and lie to each other face-to-face where it counts?

11/30/2012 3:53:04 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
jakers81
Coronado, CA
35, joined Oct. 2012


I'm f**king bored. Can you people create some interesting threads instead of this bullshit so I can finally stop posting dog humping gifs? Thanks.


11/30/2012 3:54:06 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
chris_90352
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (16,743)
Sykesville, MD
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11/30/2012 3:55:53 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
jakers81
Coronado, CA
35, joined Oct. 2012




11/30/2012 4:01:00 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
liquidideal
Argyll and Bute, Scotland
United Kingdom
44, joined Nov. 2012


Recently had a guy without an initial message send me a friend request. Then he sends me 9 messages asking me for my phone number. Not happening. Kind of creepy honestly to ask for it only after having messaged someone once or twice.

11/30/2012 4:03:28 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
jakers81
Coronado, CA
35, joined Oct. 2012


Quote from liquidideal:
Recently had a guy without an initial message send me a friend request. Then he sends me 9 messages asking me for my phone number. Not happening. Kind of creepy honestly to ask for it only after having messaged someone once or twice.

I only sent you 8 messages, ok? And had I known you were gonna burn me publicly in the forums I would have stopped after the 5th or 6th... geeze!

11/30/2012 4:07:37 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
jakers81
Coronado, CA
35, joined Oct. 2012


watch the dog, not the b*tch...



11/30/2012 8:05:37 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
jjay1970
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (41,468)
Syracuse, NY
47, joined Oct. 2011


Quote from fergalicity0037:
Why do some guys feel it is expected of any girl that chats with them and shows one little tiny bit of interest in the first couple hours of chatting,to give them their phone number? I run into this alot...i don't think it's smart...and some won't even chat anymore if i don't give them my phone number Right away


I can see some logic in their procedure especially since there are alot of fakes and other people on here who aren't serious about dating and meeting people.

How much time should a guy waste before finding out that the gal he's chatting with never goes on dates and just likes to play online?


11/30/2012 8:07:10 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
barrydalmi
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,546)
Belleville, IL
54, joined Dec. 2007


It's your sparkling personality, the come hither galnce and and and and...

11/30/2012 8:12:25 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
shygirlangie
San Antonio, TX
30, joined Oct. 2012


This so bothers me! If I feel like the conversation has been good they will get my google number which I love because I can't get pics on it or send pics. I can also change it anytime I want. Very rarely do people get my real number until after we have met.

11/30/2012 8:23:12 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
jjay1970
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (41,468)
Syracuse, NY
47, joined Oct. 2011


Interesting. Maybe I should check into a google number. Does it get forwarded to your cell?

Typically, I give out my number when we make plans to meet so that if anything comes up (running late, lost trying to find restaurant, etc.) she can let me know. Usually she reciprocates.

I'm not a big talker on the phone - prefer in person - so odds are we've chatted online for a week before meeting and don't talk on the phone until after meeting.

It just seems to make sense. Why spend time on the phone if I haven't met her yet? If you haven't met the person, isn't she a stranger still? And why would you talk to a stranger you don't know if you have chemistry with?



11/30/2012 8:24:50 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

eztobewith71
Over 1,000 Posts (1,021)
Ocala, FL
46, joined Apr. 2012




11/30/2012 8:26:46 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
phreewolf420
Over 1,000 Posts (1,037)
Richmond, VA
39, joined Oct. 2012


Get there number and call them.there are apps were u can disgise your #

11/30/2012 9:32:19 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
fergalicity0037
Sarasota, FL
42, joined May. 2012


Quote from amargosa:
Why not? If they call your cell after you tell them not to,they get an instant ticket. If they txt anything lewd without you doing it, they get an instant ticket. Nothing to worry about. It is not like they can reach through the phone and squeeze your boobs. I think this is just another "I'm soooooo hot and all these guys are after me" thread.


(Yawn.)

Thanks for saying I'm hot...that's not what I mean...I'm not conceited like that I am just tired of guys wanting personal info ten minutes after chatting is all!! Ur probably that kinda guy...when u dont know facts it's better to keep ur opinion to ur self Sherlock Holmes

11/30/2012 9:34:05 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
jjay1970
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (41,468)
Syracuse, NY
47, joined Oct. 2011


It's not fun wasting time chatting with someone you're never gonna meet.

11/30/2012 9:35:49 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
fergalicity0037
Sarasota, FL
42, joined May. 2012


Quote from tjl2280:
I think that after about 8 thoughtful emails (4 each way) It's time to move forward. Too many people on here want to play pen pals for weeks and I'm not down for that.

If you're interested there is no reason not to give out your number, talk on the phone and set up a meet.

Talking on the phone once before meeting makes things more comfortable. You can get a feel for someone easier and know if you want to meet them.

I've dealt with too many flakes, you spend all that time getting to know someone for nothing, this sorts through those people for me.

So, for the guys who interest you think about what I wrote and take
chances. For the creeps who just ask for your number on the first message, tell them to f**k off.

I like your answer best!!! Thanks

11/30/2012 9:36:10 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

eztobewith71
Over 1,000 Posts (1,021)
Ocala, FL
46, joined Apr. 2012


Quote from fergalicity0037:
Thanks for saying I'm hot...that's not what I mean...I'm not conceited like that I am just tired of guys wanting personal info ten minutes after chatting is all!! Ur probably that kinda guy...when u dont know facts it's better to keep ur opinion to ur self Sherlock Holmes


So what was your phone number again??

11/30/2012 9:38:09 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

stobil
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (24,812)
Gallatin, TN
37, joined Nov. 2009


I'd try to get a number for texting, but I have no interest in phone calls, so your phone wouldn't be ringing.

11/30/2012 9:42:06 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
fergalicity0037
Sarasota, FL
42, joined May. 2012


Quote from jjay1970:
Interesting. Maybe I should check into a google number. Does it get forwarded to your cell?

Typically, I give out my number when we make plans to meet so that if anything comes up (running late, lost trying to find restaurant, etc.) she can let me know. Usually she reciprocates.

I'm not a big talker on the phone - prefer in person - so odds are we've chatted online for a week before meeting and don't talk on the phone until after meeting.

It just seems to make sense. Why spend time on the phone if I haven't met her yet? If you haven't met the person, isn't she a stranger still? And why would you talk to a stranger you don't know if you have chemistry with?
Exactly my point thank you

11/30/2012 9:44:07 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
sofetch12
Over 1,000 Posts (1,107)
Willingboro, NJ
30, joined Nov. 2012


Maybe a verbal discussion by phone is what the other person prefers. Can't blame them completely, they could be chatting through this website, getting to know someone and WHAM! They get a surprise. Its not a girl they were talking to, but some dude. So maybe they wish to have further validity of who they are speaking to on the other end. Can't blame someone for that.

On the otherhand, yeah, my generation LOVES texting and the whole Social Media craze (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram). I find that to be a bit mroe annoying. "Add me to Facebook" "I'll follow you on Twitter." For those of us who don't have those websites (Yes me, and I stated it so in my profile), it gets annoying when that is the ONLY way my generation will communicate... And creep.

Just go with how you're feeling with the guy. Eventually, when the time is right for you, you will speak with him off of this website.

All the Best

11/30/2012 9:45:50 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
fergalicity0037
Sarasota, FL
42, joined May. 2012


Quote from stobil:
I'd try to get a number for texting, but I have no interest in phone calls, so your phone wouldn't be ringing.

You know what I mean lol!! a lot of guys I know hate texting maybe we should get to know eachother then...here's my number...941- wait Nevermind lol

11/30/2012 9:45:53 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

stobil
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (24,812)
Gallatin, TN
37, joined Nov. 2009


I love creeping!

11/30/2012 9:48:30 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
fergalicity0037
Sarasota, FL
42, joined May. 2012


Quote from sofetch12:
Maybe a verbal discussion by phone is what the other person prefers. Can't blame them completely, they could be chatting through this website, getting to know someone and WHAM! They get a surprise. Its not a girl they were talking to, but some dude. So maybe they wish to have further validity of who they are speaking to on the other end. Can't blame someone for that.

On the otherhand, yeah, my generation LOVES texting and the whole Social Media craze (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram). I find that to be a bit mroe annoying. "Add me to Facebook" "I'll follow you on Twitter." For those of us who don't have those websites (Yes me, and I stated it so in my profile), it gets annoying when that is the ONLY way my generation will communicate... And creep.

Your generation? Lol...I had a cell phone and Internet at 25 too..ur too cute
Just go with how you're feeling with the guy. Eventually, when the time is right for you, you will speak with him off of this website.

All the Best


11/30/2012 9:48:31 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

eztobewith71
Over 1,000 Posts (1,021)
Ocala, FL
46, joined Apr. 2012


I prefer talking on the phone and texting...this way you find out if she talks likes a big burly guy..and on the other hand with texting you find out what grade she completed..

11/30/2012 9:48:39 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
sofetch12
Over 1,000 Posts (1,107)
Willingboro, NJ
30, joined Nov. 2012


@stobil - Hahahaha, I know. A LOT of people like to creep! I just don't care enough to snoop around others peoples business, because its sure none of mine, or they would include me.

11/30/2012 9:49:28 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

anna302010
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,867)
Republic, MO
37, joined Dec. 2010


Its a phone number not your SSN!
Get over yourself and realize that if someone REALLY wanted to get at you they are more likely to ask for a last name, email address or FB account!

Not to mention its a quick way to see if someone is playing around, dishonest or hiding a husband/bf/lover etc.

I personally LIKE talking on the phone.
I like actually hearing a man laugh, or demonstrate a quick wit.
Besides, I catch people in lies a whole lot quicker when they dont have the time to edit their responses.

Sounds to me as if you want to hide behind your computer. Not sure if its your insecurity or the fact that you are basically a dishonest person trying to hide who you really are.
Either way I wouldnt waste my time on someone like that.

11/30/2012 9:52:44 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
shygirlangie
San Antonio, TX
30, joined Oct. 2012


Quote from jjay1970:
Interesting. Maybe I should check into a google number. Does it get forwarded to your cell?


Yes texts come through in the app and calls will ring to my cell as though they have my real number. Just be cautious that if you use the automated voice for your voicemail sometimes it will say your real number.

11/30/2012 9:55:42 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
shygirlangie
San Antonio, TX
30, joined Oct. 2012


Anna for me not wanting to give my real number isn't about wanting to hide behind a computer. I have had situations where I tell someone that I am not really interested and they begin to send harassing messages. I can block people from calling my phone, but the block doesn't work for texting.

11/30/2012 9:56:21 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

stobil
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (24,812)
Gallatin, TN
37, joined Nov. 2009


<<< Sounds like Tiny Tim.

11/30/2012 9:58:20 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

eztobewith71
Over 1,000 Posts (1,021)
Ocala, FL
46, joined Apr. 2012


<<< sounds like slingblade... alright then...

Photobucket

11/30/2012 9:58:54 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

kerm1528
Over 2,000 Posts (2,220)
Hesperia, CA
45, joined May. 2012


There is an app called blacklist that you can get. It's free and pretty self explanatory I think

Works on calls and texting



[Edited 11/30/2012 9:59:49 AM ]

11/30/2012 9:59:34 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
1shortnsweet
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,088)
Reading, PA
63, joined Aug. 2011


Quote from amargosa:
Why not? If they call your cell after you tell them not to,they get an instant ticket. If they txt anything lewd without you doing it, they get an instant ticket. Nothing to worry about. It is not like they can reach through the phone and squeeze your boobs. I think this is just another "I'm soooooo hot and all these guys are after me" thread.


(Yawn.)


Not everyone has a cell phone and no land line. I use my land line and only my cell for emergencies. So it can be an issue.

11/30/2012 10:00:53 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

nowntime
Elmira, NY
64, joined Sep. 2012


i didn,t apply for a stenographer,nor did i apply for a switch board opperator! myself personally i,d prefer to talk rather than type!easier,can say more in less time!but only if we both are compatible and what we both agree on!most guys don,t have the gift to gab like some women,but i think they,d rather talk than type!

11/30/2012 10:02:29 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

stobil
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (24,812)
Gallatin, TN
37, joined Nov. 2009


I don't think gabbing is a gift, certainly not for the person hearing it.

11/30/2012 10:05:48 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

kerm1528
Over 2,000 Posts (2,220)
Hesperia, CA
45, joined May. 2012


Personally prefer texting over the site's mail system. Just more convenient. Of course I also prefer that we're both comfortable with it lol

11/30/2012 10:06:31 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
fergalicity0037
Sarasota, FL
42, joined May. 2012


Quote from shygirlangie:
Anna for me not wanting to give my real number isn't about wanting to hide behind a computer. I have had situations where I tell someone that I am not really interested and they begin to send harassing messages. I can block people from calling my phone, but the block doesn't work for texting.

Meeee toooo!!!! We all have meet crazies online, but let me tell u I have some CRAZY stories....I am not overly guarded persay but just careful, with technology these days I worry more about being info hacked than stalked, seeing that cell phones are more computers than phones these days. It's true

11/30/2012 10:10:36 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
shygirlangie
San Antonio, TX
30, joined Oct. 2012


Quote from fergalicity0037:
Meeee toooo!!!! We all have meet crazies online, but let me tell u I have some CRAZY stories....I am not overly guarded persay but just careful, with technology these days I worry more about being info hacked than stalked, seeing that cell phones are more computers than phones these days. It's true


Haha I have had some fun ones. People tell me I should write my experiences down somewhere and do a blog or something.

11/30/2012 10:10:56 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
fergalicity0037
Sarasota, FL
42, joined May. 2012


Quote from eztobewith71:
I prefer talking on the phone and texting...this way you find out if she talks likes a big burly guy..and on the other hand with texting you find out what grade she completed..

I have a great voice actually can sing...but I know what u mean, it could be a guy behind the computer rather than some sexy girl you thought it was...I have been fooled before, a couple of times...therefore I play it safe.

11/30/2012 10:24:11 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 
fergalicity0037
Sarasota, FL
42, joined May. 2012


Quote from shygirlangie:
Haha I have had some fun ones. People tell me I should write my experiences down somewhere and do a blog or something.


Oh yeah!! I know what u mean, I could star in my own Lifetime Original movie lol!!!

11/30/2012 10:27:40 AMWhy the rush on exchanging phone numbers? Come on guys! 

stobil
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (24,812)
Gallatin, TN
37, joined Nov. 2009


^^^ You'd be beaten.