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7/13/2013 4:03:50 AMDo women like submissive men? 
freethinkingage
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7/13/2013 4:06:41 AMDo women like submissive men? 
maciscool
Over 2,000 Posts (2,566)
Salem, NH
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Dominatrix's I think do

7/13/2013 4:09:14 AMDo women like submissive men? 
mercedes01
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (77,358)
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Australia
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3rd



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7/13/2013 4:13:50 AMDo women like submissive men? 

txrose64
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (30,691)
Pearland, TX
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Not at all, I'm a rather "assertive" (ok aggressive at times) female and I'll walk all over you if you're not, and lack of respect too, I know ME, but others that's their cup of tea, and the Women's Libbers have bred a whole passel of the submissive types, finding a "real" man had become like a hunt for a Unicorn, you've heard of one but never actually seen one.

it's actually rather in vogue now to be a manly man, seems we (women) pretty much killed y'all all off, and now we've been stuck with these mamby pamby mama's boys that don't work and take care of their responsibilties and are sick of it, been there done that, and thank God some held out and didn't buckle to that BS.

I think as women and me included shot ourselves in the foot on this one. Luckily some of us are raising our sons "old school" so they don't have to call a damn plumber when the flap on the potty needs replacing, take care of their business, and are gentlemen. js.



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7/13/2013 4:14:33 AMDo women like submissive men? 
kiyora1
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,482)
Los Angeles, CA
29, joined Mar. 2013


An assertive man who knows when to submit is the hugest turn on.

7/13/2013 4:15:54 AMDo women like submissive men? 
jumpinprincess
Danville, IL
33, joined Jun. 2013


Hell naw

7/13/2013 4:17:31 AMDo women like submissive men? 

txrose64
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (30,691)
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it's ying and yang Kiyora, sometimes yeah I do that and sometimes he does that, it rocks!! but all the time, submissive, not for me, my ex slowly got into that SM shit and being the submissive, a lot of business men movers and shakers, are that way, they are lil generals in the board room and want dominated in the bedroom, it made my skin crawl! Not to mention the $400 an hour that Dominatrix was takes from the budget.

now mixing it up now and then, that's great, but all the damn time, yuck!

7/13/2013 4:18:12 AMDo women like submissive men? 
happylauren
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Crown Point, IN
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Ying-Yang, it's all about balance.

7/13/2013 4:20:18 AMDo women like submissive men? 

txrose64
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Hey Lauren!!
got my new phone and I'll shoot you some Buster and Monkee shots!! that lil chi of my bff's is cheering him up, and he's attached to my boy, who's seeing the advantages of the dog park with a cool cute well trained Wheaton!! Mom!! there's girls there!! and Buster liked 'em too!! too funny!

7/13/2013 4:25:04 AMDo women like submissive men? 
hbutif
Hopewell, VA
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online now!


it's about balance and being able to show the submissive side with your mate...not weak and be ran over or act more of a female than her ... it's a fine line with this because some males and females take advantage. about most just about me i like him to take control and show me he can handle anything that comes our way ... be submissive when we both agree on something that way we both are submissive

7/13/2013 4:40:49 AMDo women like submissive men? 

leather_lyle
Over 2,000 Posts (3,801)
Sacramento, CA
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Wether your talking about sexually or in general, some do and some don't. Sexually I've only known women who want to be dominated sexually and somewhat brutally. But as far as in general, it seems to be unattractive to be a beta male.

But dominatrix and femdom chics enjoy dominating. There's lotsa that kinda stuff on x videos.com.

7/13/2013 4:43:33 AMDo women like submissive men? 
mccirrus
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Some do, some don't. I am neither dominant, nor submissive.

7/13/2013 4:53:43 AMDo women like submissive men? 

leather_lyle
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Sacramento, CA
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Quote from mccirrus:
Some do, some don't. I am neither dominant, nor submissive.



I go with what the woman likes. She could wipe the sweat off her a$$ with my face or I could slap her across the mouth with my d1ck and say "is this what you like grandma, does this turn you on"?? Its important to be versatile.

7/13/2013 4:58:23 AMDo women like submissive men? 
mccirrus
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You are right Lyle, but in some ways, despite my earnest effort i might still fall short of properly role playing this submissive/dominant mental game, cause its not in my nature.

Having said that, if i fall in love with a chick who is into it, then i am sure that i will do my best to be dominant/submissive per her requests. As they say, practice makes perfect, so there is some hope for me in that department.

7/13/2013 5:10:34 AMDo women like submissive men? 

leather_lyle
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Quote from mccirrus:
You are right Lyle, but in some ways, despite my earnest effort i might still fall short of properly role playing this submissive/dominant mental game, cause its not in my nature.

Having said that, if i fall in love with a chick who is into it, then i am sure that i will do my best to be dominant/submissive per her requests. As they say, practice makes perfect, so there is some hope for me in that department.


Very wise bro. I used to be into being dominated by women but as time went by control was preferred by them to be taken by me.

I like to please a woman I love so whatever that is.I think that's all I prefer these days..

They complained that I wasn't slapping and choking them hard enough. It wasn't in my nature either but pleasing those I like is so I got better. As is what you were saying. Communication is key.

7/13/2013 5:12:26 AMDo women like submissive men? 
mccirrus
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I love pleasing women too, sexually that is!

7/13/2013 5:13:25 AMDo women like submissive men? 
coderedjulia
League City, TX
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ah domestic abuse is so sexy

7/13/2013 5:16:46 AMDo women like submissive men? 

leather_lyle
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Sacramento, CA
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Quote from coderedjulia:
ah domestic abuse is so sexy



Its not abuse its sex and there's a great chance its what gets you off.

7/13/2013 5:23:42 AMDo women like submissive men? 

txrose64
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anyway you want it that's the way you need, it!! Is my motto!! and a man in the lead is a turn on, I like to be pursued and it's the rare man that can with me, I am aggressive sexually, Lyle you're right, once we're an "us" it's no holds barred, anyway you want it that's the way you need it!!

(as long as it's no serious SM or involves pee or poop I'm good, I'm not into humiliation) some are though!! and it's finding what clicks with your needs, wants and desires, inside the bedroom and outside that's when the magic starts!!

it's a turn on to have your haired pulled and a gruff "suck my..." er..well you get it!!
and then so do I!!

7/13/2013 5:37:23 AMDo women like submissive men? 

leather_lyle
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Sacramento, CA
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@yep. Very true. I don't do those things either and nothing goes in or licks my butt. Journey is awesome. I love the song " be good to yourself!" Its an " us" thing. A team effort of mutual consideration and preferably love.

Strangely I find I teach more experienced women. Thanks for being real

7/13/2013 6:09:19 AMDo women like submissive men? 
1shortnsweet
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Reading, PA
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The last man I had a few dates with had a submissive way about him. Freaked me out. Don't like it in any way. Had a thought about what he must be into...don't care to see it, experience it, or think any further about it. Turn on the television, read what other people say and what they're into, and listen to conversations. It's disgusting. Real men are an endangered species.

7/13/2013 6:13:40 AMDo women like submissive men? 
maciscool
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Somebody call Dr. Phil please

7/13/2013 6:31:00 AMDo women like submissive men? 

txrose64
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Quote from leather_lyle:
@yep. Very true. I don't do those things either and nothing goes in or licks my butt. Journey is awesome. I love the song " be good to yourself!" Its an " us" thing. A team effort of mutual consideration and preferably love.

Strangely I find I teach more experienced women. Thanks for being real


Leather you know who's really in control in that sub/dom situation and it's NOT the dom.

and you bet, I am really open minded, I "get it". I have my personal preferences as does everyone else. Some things aren't for me but I absolutely get why they are for those that do.

and Journey rocks!! one of my all time faves!!

7/13/2013 6:35:23 AMDo women like submissive men? 
freethinkingage
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Corpus Christi, TX
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Obliviously most people here have no idea what a submissive is... lol. Only two or three of you actually knew what you were talking about.



Its not about abuse, or getting walked over in anyway... and it certainly isn't about NOT being manly. But thanks for taking part in a pole that you didn't understand.


in the simplest terms, A submissive, puts his partners wants, needs, desires and feelings before and beyond their own needs and feelings. Sexually the same goes, a submissive thinks only about their partners needs, they will submit to their partners wants without even considering their own pleasure and doesn't even think about asking their partner to please them.

It's sad that people comment and vote on things they have no knowledge of, at least now i know how some idiots get elected into government,

Thanks for taking part in the poll

7/13/2013 6:39:21 AMDo women like submissive men? 
midniteriddler1
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Most on this site truly have no clue
what a submissive is.

Nor do they have a clue what a dominant is.



As you've just found out.

7/13/2013 6:44:40 AMDo women like submissive men? 
1shortnsweet
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The question was do women like submissive men. No I do not. And I explained why. Do not CARE to know all the ins and outs of it.

Do I like a man who cares about giving to his partner and the relationship in general? Yes.

He does not have to be into other kinky stuff or behave in a way that is unnatural for a man to give anything in the relationship to his partner. He just has to be willing and have a good heart.

I do not find it necessary to be worshipped or to worship him. Just necessary to love and care for each other.



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7/13/2013 6:45:12 AMDo women like submissive men? 
freethinkingage
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Yes I find it fascinating the misconception. A sub/dom role is not abusive at all, it is a caring and loving relationship. And its not about humiliation or S/M or B/D. It may contain some disaplins for failure to please, but a in a masochistic and sadistic way. because the Sub needs to please in his nature and is worshiping in his nature, the worse feeling the sub can have is their partner not being pleased with them.

thanks midnight for your impute.

7/13/2013 7:23:09 AMDo women like submissive men? 

3n1wbgirl
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7/13/2013 7:38:28 AMDo women like submissive men? 

sue2222
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No, submissive has a "turn off" effect on me.

7/13/2013 7:55:55 AMDo women like submissive men? 
indigohorizon
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No

7/13/2013 8:01:32 AMDo women like submissive men? 
stumppy
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I avoid womenfolks like that. Women who want submissive men, are insecure types, and the submissive men they search for are simply desperate for attention, any attention.




7/13/2013 8:27:23 AMDo women like submissive men? 

hollywoodstar13
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no i like aggressive men

7/13/2013 8:29:00 AMDo women like submissive men? 

1darksavior
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Quote from tanzkity:
If I can't beat a man he is useless to me.....
hm

7/13/2013 8:35:35 AMDo women like submissive men? 
1shortnsweet
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Quote from eastwest312yo:
aren't all men submissive at the strip club?


Sure are...they're lower half is calling the shots.

7/13/2013 8:42:14 AMDo women like submissive men? 
serendipity_002
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Generally no....women don't like submissive men. Hey prefer doms and they complain about them.



7/13/2013 8:53:13 AMDo women like submissive men? 
willow445
Rochester, NY
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well now...I do like a guy that knows his mind and will not be led by the nose. I don't like a guy who is controlling. Much prefer the give and take type.

7/13/2013 8:54:47 AMDo women like submissive men? 
xirishprincessx
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I have no use for a submissive man
In or out of the bedroom

7/13/2013 8:55:52 AMDo women like submissive men? 
1shortnsweet
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A submissive man is creepy.

7/13/2013 10:29:42 AMDo women like submissive men? 
aries_jade66
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There should only be one of us in the relationship who sits when they pee.....




Mornin' Bruce!

7/13/2013 10:34:21 AMDo women like submissive men? 
1shortnsweet
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Quote from aries_jade66:
There should only be one of us in the relationship who sits when they pee.....




Mornin' Bruce!


The picture I see with a submissive type man is being at a symphony and in the middle of it someone plays an off note loudly. Painful to hear and what's wrong with this picture to see.

7/13/2013 10:36:29 AMDo women like submissive men? 
avgjoe42
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I am a horndog and find myself acting dominant with some women and submissive with others.

7/13/2013 10:43:19 AMDo women like submissive men? 

arlynetx
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I personally do not like submissive men that I want to have a relationship with. I like a man that can stand toe to toe with me. A doormat is not attractive. Now as for sexually I wouldn't be unhappy if my aggressive man will be submissive in bed once in a while.

7/13/2013 10:49:54 AMDo women like submissive men? 
serendipity_002
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I think it needs to be said...people have the ability to be both sub and dom....often they are act differently outside the home then they do inside the home.

Often times....high profile men who spend their entire day being dom and calling all the shots like to be submissive in the bedroom having a woman calling the shots.

Don't confuse sub with wimpy....they aren't one in the same....and their is a HUGE range depending on the person's personality.

7/13/2013 10:51:06 AMDo women like submissive men? 
cheatk
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Quote from 1shortnsweet:
A submissive man is creepy.


AGREE

7/13/2013 10:56:09 AMDo women like submissive men? 
1shortnsweet
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Robin - it's understood if a man has a lot of responsibilities and stress and would like a woman to initiate once in a while or focus on him. Fine. That's different from being a submissive.

I'll be the woman in the relationship. Thank you.

7/13/2013 10:59:12 AMDo women like submissive men? 
freethinkingage
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Quote from 2lipkisses:
*discipline
*input


now, c'mere... you deserve a spanking for such grammar!!



Nice, I like that. But.... I never said I was a submissive.... Just because I made a thread about submissive men does not mean I am a sub.... lots of assuming around here

7/13/2013 11:09:58 AMDo women like submissive men? 
serendipity_002
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Quote from 1shortnsweet:
Robin - it's understood if a man has a lot of responsibilities and stress and would like a woman to initiate once in a while or focus on him. Fine. That's different from being a submissive.

I'll be the woman in the relationship. Thank you.


Different strokes....

The benefit of being the Dom is the ability to set the stage and call the shots to YOUR liking. You have the "power" and the "control". It takes a little practice to pulling this off for some women because they are use to receiving rather than demand.

The benefit of being sub is the Dom has the authority to push your comfort zones in to areas you would like to experience but are afraid to. Fear of being judged or seen as too naughty....you know in a bad way.

Sex is fun and if you have a creative partner DAMN FUN.

7/13/2013 11:17:21 AMDo women like submissive men? 
singlelifesweet
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7/13/2013 11:18:20 AMDo women like submissive men? 
rillydude
Mesquite, TX
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fck that

7/13/2013 11:26:01 AMDo women like submissive men? 
pallazar
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I'll tell you the answer when my woman gets home and let's me know what to say.

7/13/2013 11:26:40 AMDo women like submissive men? 
xirishprincessx
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7/13/2013 11:35:14 AMDo women like submissive men? 
ramblinrose4u
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I am only going to be submissive to a certain degree!....like everything else I have my limits!...Keeping and holding on to my self respect being one of them! I sure as hell wouldn't want the man I am with to except any less either!



[Edited 7/13/2013 11:36:43 AM ]

7/13/2013 3:59:36 PMDo women like submissive men? 
cococharms1976
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Yeah......right

7/13/2013 4:09:04 PMDo women like submissive men? 

leather_lyle
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Sacramento, CA
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I'm typically dominant these days but its for the benefit of whatever woman I'm doing.

Whatever people like, communication is key. If you don't know what gets your partner off you'll struggle to please.

If you want a woman to cum back for more, put a smile on her face the first time and make sure she struggles to walk when your done.

7/13/2013 5:05:13 PMDo women like submissive men? 

mallory1987
Greenville, PA
30, joined Feb. 2013


Other women may, but submissive men ain't for me. They need to be the boss not a b****.

7/13/2013 5:44:27 PMDo women like submissive men? 

machug59
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Quote from sxymama362:
Sometimes u need a man to push on the bed pin u down or even pin u up against a wall...



You said it!!

7/13/2013 5:48:52 PMDo women like submissive men? 
sargenta
Pompano Beach, FL
45, joined Apr. 2013


It's not that I like it, but I'd make him submissive .

7/13/2013 5:50:45 PMDo women like submissive men? 
ethanisanatom
Scottsdale, AZ
24, joined Jul. 2013


I guarantee you, most women are attracted to dominate, confident, assertive and aggressive men. The reason being they like men who act like men. Different strokes for different folks and all that, but most women don't want a weak man.

7/13/2013 6:37:06 PMDo women like submissive men? 
wellendowed1982
Naperville, IL
35, joined Jul. 2013


No they dont like whiny small little b*tches like u gage.

7/13/2013 7:07:20 PMDo women like submissive men? 

carbonv
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I have never been one to be submissive, but I don't mind f**king "UP" from time to time either