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5/22/2014 3:22:03 AMI'm probably gonna... 
heart_hurts
Boonville, IN
57, joined Mar. 2014


Regret this but yet anxious to see what others really do think i guess.




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5/22/2014 5:00:48 AMI'm probably gonna... 

indecisive_4
Over 2,000 Posts (2,264)
Bonaire, GA
43, joined Aug. 2013


You need to learn how to use paragraphs...or spacing between subjects.


Your description hurt my eyes so I couldnt make myself read through all of it.

I more than sure your photos are real ...

But they come off as looking not real...

Being the most clear ones are way too small ..and the larger ones are way to blurry.


The ecards ..I call them.
I know or am sure they express a point that you relate too.
But such photos kinda make a profile less interesting , by somewhat lacking originality.
In the way its something you didn't write or create from your own thoughts.

I'm not trying to be an a**hole...just sharing my insight.

5/22/2014 5:04:14 AMI'm probably gonna... 

_proslacker1_
Asbury Park, NJ
39, joined May. 2014


Holy run on paragraph batman!!!!!!


And you seem to like to yell in your profile(that would be your caps lock)

Ad no one wants a liar or cheater, j/s

Oh yeah, and it's liar, not lier

5/22/2014 8:04:29 AMI'm probably gonna... 

terbear1234
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,059)
Bremerton, WA
42, joined Apr. 2010


“Didn’t say” for income and job in the stats tells me that you’re unemployed. If you have a job, let us know what it is.

Saying you’re willing to explore might send the wrong message.

Everyone likes all kinds of music. Saying that is like saying you like the sun. I’d nuke that part.

If your children no longer live with you, why are they first and foremost? Aren’t you at a point in your life when you need to live your life and let them live theirs? That made you sound like a meddling mother.

So, if Bandit is your best friend, does that mean that he will be replaced by the man with whom you end up in a relationship? And why must your man be an animal lover? I’m not an animal lover, but that doesn’t mean I can’t very peacefully co-habitate with them and even enjoy them.

“Str8” should be spelled straight. Unless you’re 13. Actually, that entire paragraph is negative. I’d nuke the whole thing.

“Passionet” should be “passionate.” Again, that part might give off the wrong vibe. You might consider nuking it.

You’re ready to live life? What are you doing now? Just waiting? That’s so sad! You can only live life if you have a partner? That doesn’t make you sound like a whole person.

I’d nuke the last two paragraphs. The second to last one makes you sound jaded and angry. The last night is just unnecessary. They know what to do.

I’d unfeatured any friends (current or future). It makes it look like you’re just here to collect friends.

5/22/2014 12:27:37 PMI'm probably gonna... 
blkswtnss
Blythe, CA
42, joined Apr. 2014


I thought your personal pics were great..
The long long long bio had me uninterested..maybe make it shorter and more to the point..
Good luck in ur quest OP..

5/23/2014 10:03:58 PMI'm probably gonna... 
luxorus
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,034)
Peoria, IL
39, joined Apr. 2014


It's ok. There's one paragraph that makes me feel like the man you seek should make maneuvers like he would at a gentle men's club. I hate winking.

5/23/2014 10:06:34 PMI'm probably gonna... 
luxorus
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,034)
Peoria, IL
39, joined Apr. 2014


Quote from luxorus:
It's ok. There's one paragraph that makes me feel like the man you seek should make maneuvers like he would at a gentle men's club. I hate winking.


I think you want a man who's affectionately spontaneous throughout everyday life with you.

5/24/2014 1:21:15 PMI'm probably gonna... 
heart_hurts
Boonville, IN
57, joined Mar. 2014


All i can say is WOW!
Well ty everyone for your input...makes me rethink this whole matter.

5/24/2014 1:28:27 PMI'm probably gonna... 
heart_hurts
Boonville, IN
57, joined Mar. 2014


Well i deleted at least 3/4 of it...lol

5/24/2014 1:35:35 PMI'm probably gonna... 

terbear1234
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,059)
Bremerton, WA
42, joined Apr. 2010


We need to know what kind of relationship you seek (friends, FWB, FB, or LTR) and what qualities you appreciate in a man.

5/24/2014 1:51:42 PMI'm probably gonna... 
hounds_again
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (15,661)
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2013


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cPJAEbOe5kU&feature=youtube_gdata_player

5/26/2014 1:23:22 PMI'm probably gonna... 
heart_hurts
Boonville, IN
57, joined Mar. 2014


Quote from terbear1234:
We need to know what kind of relationship you seek (friends, FWB, FB, or LTR) and what qualities you appreciate in a man.



For a woman you seem to have a lot of interest...what's up with that?

5/26/2014 2:27:48 PMI'm probably gonna... 

ron10000
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,924)
Green Bay, WI
70, joined Oct. 2008


Quote from heart_hurts:
For a woman you seem to have a lot of interest...what's up with that?


Just that she is one of the best reviewers on this site. Very helpful to both men and women.

5/27/2014 9:55:57 AMI'm probably gonna... 
badchevy4x4babe
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,800)
Fort Worth, TX
29, joined May. 2011


Your profile description is sufficient: if you're 12. At your age, there's much more a viewer needs to know to know if he has any interest in you.

Three basics are needed with online dating:
Hobbies/interests - what is your life like, how do you fill your hours outside of work
Job/careers/future goals - what do you do, what do you enjoy about it, what are your plans for the future - early retirement? Travel? Etc
Relationship - what do you seek ltr, NSA, strictly platonic

The quality of your pics/the coloring/the wardrobe/hairdo all appear at least 20 years outdated. And they're all posed. No candid shots. I personally hate the MEME pictures with quotes and garbage. They don't do anything for you. You're better off adding photos of YOU.

I also find your username very bitter/depressing. Why did you choose that as your username?



[Edited 5/27/2014 9:57:56 AM ]

5/27/2014 10:06:02 AMI'm probably gonna... 
my2sunshine
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,637)
Pulaski, NY
51, joined Apr. 2013


If your heart really hurts you should see a doctor and quit smoking.
Best wishes.

5/28/2014 7:58:53 PMI'm probably gonna... 
forums_only
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (16,593)
Maple Ridge, BC
55, joined Aug. 2010


Regret this but yet anxious to see what others really do think i guess.


When you use 'full figured' as the body type, a full length shot is pretty much expected. Your version of 'full' may be completely different from someone elses, and if a guy isn't sure, he's going to pass. You may be too small for someone seriously into the BBWs.

No occupation implies you're looking for a wallet. How do you support yourself? Retired? Pension? Homemaker? Between gigs? If you have a trade/profession, that should be your occupation unless you're truly unemployed because of a disability or lottery. Of course, this doesn't apply if you are simply looking for sex, but we're not really sure WHAT you're really looking for because you didn't answer that question.

As someone your age who used the online system successfully to find a wonderful partner, I'd have a lot more suggestions for you but you seem quite concerned about taking advice from women. And for the record, I'm here by invitation to offer suggestions to those that really want them.

A freebie for ya: when you post in Sex & Dating, those posts are permanently attached to your profile and give a pretty good idea of someone's true colours.

One more for the road: when you 'block' someone, everyone else can still read (and agree with) what they've written on your thread. It just makes you look silly.

Good luck.

6/2/2014 5:23:27 AMI'm probably gonna... 
heart_hurts
Boonville, IN
57, joined Mar. 2014


Quote from ron10000:
Just that she is one of the best reviewers on this site. Very helpful to both men and women.

if u say so

6/2/2014 5:28:16 AMI'm probably gonna... 
heart_hurts
Boonville, IN
57, joined Mar. 2014


Quote from forums_only:
When you use 'full figured' as the body type, a full length shot is pretty much expected. Your version of 'full' may be completely different from someone elses, and if a guy isn't sure, he's going to pass. You may be too small for someone seriously into the BBWs.

No occupation implies you're looking for a wallet. How do you support yourself? Retired? Pension? Homemaker? Between gigs? If you have a trade/profession, that should be your occupation unless you're truly unemployed because of a disability or lottery. Of course, this doesn't apply if you are simply looking for sex, but we're not really sure WHAT you're really looking for because you didn't answer that question.

As someone your age who used the online system successfully to find a wonderful partner, I'd have a lot more suggestions for you but you seem quite concerned about taking advice from women. And for the record, I'm here by invitation to offer suggestions to those that really want them.

A freebie for ya: when you post in Sex & Dating, those posts are permanently attached to your profile and give a pretty good idea of someone's true colours.

One more for the road: when you 'block' someone, everyone else can still read (and agree with) what they've written on your thread. It just makes you look silly.

Good luck.


Well i could have several for you as well...i'm just not that arrogant...so don't ASSUME anything...Sorry i even asked for opinions...but yes, i admit i did...lesson well learned