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2/4/2015 9:27:53 AMHow to know if She likes you? 

theron12
Baton Rouge, LA
25, joined May. 2011


If a woman likes you wouldn't they txt you from here & there? Should the guy always have to initiate conversation? I mean I know that you can't expect women to hit you up first I know the guy has to chase the woman but I mean after doing that for a while if it's not the other way around does that mean they are not interested? I mean if you like someone I'm pretty sure throughout the day if it's someone you REALLY wanted to talk to, then you would make a point to at least send 1 txt message. Just need some advice with this. I'm young & I know there are a lot of more mature women on here so if you think you can relate to why younger women do this, I would like to hear.

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2/4/2015 11:25:57 AMHow to know if She likes you? 

bigdinv
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (22,228)
Houston, TX
37, joined Sep. 2011


Send her a note.

2/4/2015 11:32:27 AMHow to know if She likes you? 
wnts2byrs
Over 1,000 Posts (1,370)
Conway, AR
45, joined Oct. 2014


Have you said anything to her about how you feel? If not & you plan to do so, tread lightly for you may come off needy, demanding, untrusting, jealous, etc.

2/4/2015 11:52:13 AMHow to know if She likes you? 
trustbutverify1
Middleburg, FL
44, joined Jul. 2014


Ha ha PARTY PARTY WE ALL NEED TO PARTY TOGETHER IM SO WASTED HA HA

2/4/2015 11:56:11 AMHow to know if She likes you? 
dezweather
Over 1,000 Posts (1,114)
Phoenix, AZ
45, joined Oct. 2014


If she grabs your d*ck, she likes you.

2/4/2015 12:46:11 PMHow to know if She likes you? 
rocky_dennis
Over 2,000 Posts (3,742)
Mechanicsburg, PA
39, joined Nov. 2013


Any woman that was interested in me, always sent some sort of text as simple as, have a great day/night as I do the same, with women I am interested in. Most of the time we didn't have time for conversations, but always made time to acknowledge that person. I can't speak for others, but if a woman doesn't show me something as simple as that, I wouldn't make time for her.

2/4/2015 12:57:50 PMHow to know if She likes you? 
lookin4him2012
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,801)
Boone, NC
49, joined Jan. 2012


Quote from theron12:
If a woman likes you wouldn't they txt you from here & there? Should the guy always have to initiate conversation? I mean I know that you can't expect women to hit you up first I know the guy has to chase the woman but I mean after doing that for a while if it's not the other way around does that mean they are not interested? I mean if you like someone I'm pretty sure throughout the day if it's someone you REALLY wanted to talk to, then you would make a point to at least send 1 txt message. Just need some advice with this. I'm young & I know there are a lot of more mature women on here so if you think you can relate to why younger women do this, I would like to hear.


I've actually dated men who couldn't initiate anything and I always had to do it and over time it gets old and I get bored and move on. I don't think one person should have to do the chasing or carrying on the relationship if the other person isn't willing to do their half. It should come naturally and be 50/50 if both people are mutually interested. If not, then you're just wasting your time.

2/4/2015 1:09:57 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

mizzangeleyezo4
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (73,087)
Tujunga, CA
41, joined Jan. 2013


Quote from rocky_dennis:
Any woman that was interested in me, always sent some sort of text as simple as, have a great day/night as I do the same, with women I am interested in. Most of the time we didn't have time for conversations, but always made time to acknowledge that person. I can't speak for others, but if a woman doesn't show me something as simple as that, I wouldn't make time for her.

I agree! Something as simple as "hi have a great day" says alpt to the person recovering the text

2/4/2015 1:13:47 PMHow to know if She likes you? 
unique_woman
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,662)
Omaha, NE
30, joined Dec. 2014


Quote from rocky_dennis:
Any woman that was interested in me, always sent some sort of text as simple as, have a great day/night as I do the same, with women I am interested in. Most of the time we didn't have time for conversations, but always made time to acknowledge that person. I can't speak for others, but if a woman doesn't show me something as simple as that, I wouldn't make time for her.


I agree

2/4/2015 1:21:21 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

mizzangeleyezo4
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (73,087)
Tujunga, CA
41, joined Jan. 2013


Ugh!! Saw my typos

2/4/2015 1:24:23 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

iceheart86
Florence, OR
31, joined Jan. 2015


If she has sex with you, she likes you.

2/4/2015 1:33:25 PMHow to know if She likes you? 
idliketotalk
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,105)
Punxsutawney, PA
55, joined Oct. 2013


Have you met this girl in person or is texting as deep as your relationship has gotten so far?

2/4/2015 1:33:29 PMHow to know if She likes you? 
amusicluvr
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (23,676)
Salem, OR
65, joined Nov. 2013


Yep. If she wanted to talk to you, she would. If she doesn't, it is because she doesn't want you. Move on, and find someone else.

2/4/2015 1:34:12 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

SoufianeC
Malibu, CA
24, joined Jan. 2015


Quote from dezweather:
If she grabs your d*ck, she likes you.


what a childish comment..

2/4/2015 1:45:10 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

theron12
Baton Rouge, LA
25, joined May. 2011


This is actually a girl I went to high school with. We were real good friends (as I was always shy & scared to ask her out) we use to talk/txt back then. That was 2011 when we graduated. Now in December I see her on Instagram & I start liking a lot of photos because I'm like damn she looks good. So out the blue she sends me a message with her number & we started texting from there. This has been about a month now & every morning before I go to work (5am) I txt her good morning & she doesn't reply until like 6pm. I'm thinking in my head NO ONE is that busy that you didn't look at your phone not once the whole day. Especially being younger like we are we are ALWAYS in our phones. Then I may txt her how her day was & things like that. She might txt back a hour later. Then I just say goodnight & repeat again the next day. I'm just trying to see if yall think I should continue to do this or if I should see if she ever try to talk to me because like I said I don't want to seem like I'm chasing after her. I mean you lookn good & all but damn...

2/4/2015 1:48:59 PMHow to know if She likes you? 
idliketotalk
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,105)
Punxsutawney, PA
55, joined Oct. 2013


Ask her on a date, if she says yes then she is interested, if she says no, then she is not.

2/4/2015 1:49:26 PMHow to know if She likes you? 
greeneyesshelly
Sneedville, TN
23, joined Jan. 2015


OK if she gets jealous then most likely she likes u most likely. Yes u are right she should send u at least one message but if she does and for some reason u don't replie back to that message she sent u maby because u were busy at the time but see she don't know that so she may think u didn't replie because ur not Interested so that may make her back down so keep ur eyes open let her know that u are interested

2/4/2015 1:50:54 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

SoufianeC
Malibu, CA
24, joined Jan. 2015


Quote from theron12:
This is actually a girl I went to high school with. We were real good friends (as I was always shy & scared to ask her out) we use to talk/txt back then. That was 2011 when we graduated. Now in December I see her on Instagram & I start liking a lot of photos because I'm like damn she looks good. So out the blue she sends me a message with her number & we started texting from there. This has been about a month now & every morning before I go to work (5am) I txt her good morning & she doesn't reply until like 6pm. I'm thinking in my head NO ONE is that busy that you didn't look at your phone not once the whole day. Especially being younger like we are we are ALWAYS in our phones. Then I may txt her how her day was & things like that. She might txt back a hour later. Then I just say goodnight & repeat again the next day. I'm just trying to see if yall think I should continue to do this or if I should see if she ever try to talk to me because like I said I don't want to seem like I'm chasing after her. I mean you lookn good & all but damn...


Sorry to tell you that man but she is not interested in you .. so i would suggest you to pass on that girl. If she really wants to get back to you, trust me, she would have already done ! Girls are exactly like us.. for most.. if she really likes you she would have been replying to you in the minute after you texted her..

2/4/2015 2:05:11 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,105)
Pinon Hills, CA
47, joined Sep. 2011


If someone has the habit of NOT calling first, well it usually means they lost interest.

2/4/2015 2:16:06 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

theron12
Baton Rouge, LA
25, joined May. 2011


Quote from SoufianeC:
Sorry to tell you that man but she is not interested in you .. so i would suggest you to pass on that girl. If she really wants to get back to you, trust me, she would have already done ! Girls are exactly like us.. for most.. if she really likes you she would have been replying to you in the minute after you texted her..


Yea that's what I figure

2/4/2015 2:16:49 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

theron12
Baton Rouge, LA
25, joined May. 2011


Yea cause if she txts me I txt back like the next minute or 2. But after my reply it's like 5-6 hours before I get a txt back...if that

2/4/2015 2:43:11 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

claudius5
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,941)
Petaluma, CA
68, joined May. 2009


Time to move on. If she was into you she would have initiated some responses to let you know she's thinking about you. I think by texting her so much, you might appear needy and that is not a good thing.

2/4/2015 2:45:30 PMHow to know if She likes you? 
vagmasterflash
Over 2,000 Posts (3,458)
Durand, WI
52, joined Nov. 2014


You just know...if she likes you. It's the vibe.

2/4/2015 2:54:52 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

theron12
Baton Rouge, LA
25, joined May. 2011


I have taken her on one date. We went out to eat, & went downtown to get some daiquiris. After that night I said i was not going to txt her first just to see if she would txt me or call. She txt me like a day later & said "I thought you were different" I'm like what you mean? She say that I probably think she talks to a lot of other guys. In my head I'm like (ya think) lol. But I never told her that. But I mean it's obvious she probably is which I wouldn't trip on that because it's not like we are together or anything so I have no reason to. But like yall said if you like someone you will find time to txt them or let them know you are interested in them.

2/4/2015 2:55:15 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

theron12
Baton Rouge, LA
25, joined May. 2011


Quote from vagmasterflash:
You just know...if she likes you. It's the vibe.

Yea you might be right

2/4/2015 3:07:18 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

cosmicgem
Over 1,000 Posts (1,902)
Springfield, MO
61, joined Jun. 2011


Quote from theron12:
This is actually a girl I went to high school with. We were real good friends (as I was always shy & scared to ask her out) we use to talk/txt back then. That was 2011 when we graduated. Now in December I see her on Instagram & I start liking a lot of photos because I'm like damn she looks good. So out the blue she sends me a message with her number & we started texting from there. This has been about a month now & every morning before I go to work (5am) I txt her good morning & she doesn't reply until like 6pm. I'm thinking in my head NO ONE is that busy that you didn't look at your phone not once the whole day. Especially being younger like we are we are ALWAYS in our phones. Then I may txt her how her day was & things like that. She might txt back a hour later. Then I just say goodnight & repeat again the next day. I'm just trying to see if yall think I should continue to do this or if I should see if she ever try to talk to me because like I said I don't want to seem like I'm chasing after her. I mean you lookn good & all but damn...


2 points here. 1. Some businesses I have worked required phones to be left in your car. So. Perhaps that is why. Also depends on the hours she works etc.
2. You knew her before. You have text back and forth for a Whole Month and Haven't asked her Out????? I imagine That is why she is losing interest. You may have missed your window of opportunity. Buck up and ask her out.

2/4/2015 3:25:37 PMHow to know if She likes you? 
idliketotalk
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,105)
Punxsutawney, PA
55, joined Oct. 2013


Ok, you've known her since school, you've been texting and have been out on one date.

Yep, you are getting the vibe and the vibe is to keep looking.

2/4/2015 3:30:15 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

theron12
Baton Rouge, LA
25, joined May. 2011


Quote from idliketotalk:
Ok, you've known her since school, you've been texting and have been out on one date.

Yep, you are getting the vibe and the vibe is to keep looking.

That's what I'm starting to think

2/4/2015 4:36:30 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

cole_tanner
Fort Pierre, SD
36, joined Dec. 2012


Grow a pair and just ask her out and put it all out on the table

2/4/2015 5:06:35 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

packersbabe920
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (102,903)
Green Bay, WI
53, joined Jul. 2013


op you're showing more interests and she's showing less, time to let go

2/4/2015 5:17:06 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

theron12
Baton Rouge, LA
25, joined May. 2011


Quote from packersbabe920:
op you're showing more interests and she's showing less, time to let go

right

2/5/2015 3:25:00 AMHow to know if She likes you? 

bumblebee7
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (77,386)
Fort Payne, AL
63, joined Apr. 2011


Quote from theron12:
This is actually a girl I went to high school with. We were real good friends (as I was always shy & scared to ask her out) we use to talk/txt back then. That was 2011 when we graduated. Now in December I see her on Instagram & I start liking a lot of photos because I'm like damn she looks good. So out the blue she sends me a message with her number & we started texting from there. This has been about a month now & every morning before I go to work (5am) I txt her good morning & she doesn't reply until like 6pm. I'm thinking in my head NO ONE is that busy that you didn't look at your phone not once the whole day. Especially being younger like we are we are ALWAYS in our phones. Then I may txt her how her day was & things like that. She might txt back a hour later. Then I just say goodnight & repeat again the next day. I'm just trying to see if yall think I should continue to do this or if I should see if she ever try to talk to me because like I said I don't want to seem like I'm chasing after her. I mean you lookn good & all but damn...


it could be this....she sends you the number out of no where, you chat...all is well.

at some point,, she figures its been long enough, and you should have asked to meet, especially since she started the thing. Since you didn't, she figures you are either the chicken type or whatever.

or, she simply got in touch with you because of sharing the same high school, and that was her only interest, and you took it and ran with the idea it could be more, you came on that way, and she is not interested in that and trying to send the message without coming out and saying it.

Or your too aggressive and showing your cards and leaving no mystery, too easy to figure out....and/or she see's you as the dreaded "too nice a guy" as on the threads about them on here, where they are doormats.

Dude, ask her out.....see what happens.

that will tell you something.

2/5/2015 4:08:23 AMHow to know if She likes you? 
cavie59
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,203)
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010


There is ONLY one sure fire way to know if a woman likes you,


















































If she tells you that she likes you. Nothing else will work.

2/5/2015 5:50:24 AMHow to know if She likes you? 
a4umposter
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,301)
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Dec. 2014


She would text you first sometimes. But have you started texting her less often than you used to? If so, she might think you aren't interested anymore.

2/5/2015 9:40:36 AMHow to know if She likes you? 

hogaseman
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,197)
Benátky nad Jizerou
Czech Republic
66, joined Jun. 2014


She swallow s on first date

2/5/2015 9:57:56 AMHow to know if She likes you? 

yetskimama
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,062)
Walterboro, SC
67, joined Sep. 2011


When she begs you to stay.

2/5/2015 6:30:37 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

theron12
Baton Rouge, LA
25, joined May. 2011


Quote from a4umposter:
She would text you first sometimes. But have you started texting her less often than you used to? If so, she might think you aren't interested anymore.

Yea since it seems like I was chasing her I did slow down or stop on the txt messages

2/5/2015 6:31:45 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

theron12
Baton Rouge, LA
25, joined May. 2011


Quote from bumblebee7:
it could be this....she sends you the number out of no where, you chat...all is well.

at some point,, she figures its been long enough, and you should have asked to meet, especially since she started the thing. Since you didn't, she figures you are either the chicken type or whatever.

or, she simply got in touch with you because of sharing the same high school, and that was her only interest, and you took it and ran with the idea it could be more, you came on that way, and she is not interested in that and trying to send the message without coming out and saying it.

Or your too aggressive and showing your cards and leaving no mystery, too easy to figure out....and/or she see's you as the dreaded "too nice a guy" as on the threads about them on here, where they are doormats.

Dude, ask her out.....see what happens.

that will tell you something.


Maybe you right also. Maybe I did just think since oh she gave me her number then this could be more. Maybe she just needed a friend

2/5/2015 8:16:06 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

driver406
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (59,740)
Saint Paul, MN
66, joined Oct. 2009


I'm untextable except on my laptop, but yes, in theory, you are correct, OP. If a woman is truly interested she ought to do something to show it.

2/13/2015 8:02:05 PMHow to know if She likes you? 
whydo
Hartford, CT
41, joined Oct. 2013


It can happen the other way around!

2/13/2015 8:13:05 PMHow to know if She likes you? 
ruthsan6
Orlando, FL
56, joined Dec. 2013




2/13/2015 9:27:54 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

ctr916v2
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,717)
Roseville, CA
55, joined Nov. 2014


she is comfortable not lying to you and not letting you miss your turn

2/13/2015 11:39:54 PMHow to know if She likes you? 
woniota
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,030)
Jacksonville, FL
52, joined Jul. 2014


Quit p*ssyfooting around. If you want to date this girl then call her and ask for a date. Most women want a man to be assertive. Swallow your fear of rejection and step up. Hopefully she'll say yes but if she dosent then don't let it get you down.

Good luck.

2/13/2015 11:43:48 PMHow to know if She likes you? 

dixie_dancer
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,762)
Kansas City, KS
29, joined Feb. 2013


Here's a novel concept: ask her.

Everyone's texting and communication methods are different. Some people are not tied to their phone like a lifeline

2/27/2015 12:16:17 AMHow to know if She likes you? 

wildfir
Albany, IN
46, joined Sep. 2013


She will want to be with u and want to kiss u in public and just be loving towards u. Texting and love notes to u is another way she shows she likes u.

2/27/2015 6:52:23 AMHow to know if She likes you? 

testsignup
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,406)
Springfield, VA
64, joined Sep. 2009


Everyone is different. That's the real trick to it all. To figure out if someone really likes you, you have to really get to know them.

Some people, for example, get really chatty with you. But the fact that they are chatty can mean they want to spend more time with you, OR it can mean they are nervously trying to say a lot of crap to keep you busy talking, so you wont do anything more rash.

These days, with the ever growing modes of communication, texting, phoning, emails, snapchat etc, someone is always popping up and asking "if he/she will text, but not chat on the phone, does that mean they aren't interested?"

Most people who ask that kind of thing, don't even notice that their OWN patterns of communication are narrow. They may only talk on the phone to people they really like, and stick with texting for just-friends. Or the opposite. One popular one in my generation, is to give one or two word responses over electronic media, and only get warm and talkative in person.

Worst annoying truth of all, you can sometimes even go YEARS, thinking someone likes you, because they have sex with you, and talk to you, and so on. Then one day you wake up and realize that they really NEVER actually liked you. Because all that other stuff that they did with you, was just what they did with anyone they wanted to get something from for a while.

So get to know her.



[Edited 2/27/2015 6:53:03 AM ]

2/27/2015 9:19:11 PMHow to know if She likes you? 
blacklova
Chicago, IL
37, joined Sep. 2010


Quote from SoufianeC:
what a childish comment..
if she sucks your d*ck lick your balls and swollow your cum.. She likes you.. Is thst childish enough for you..

2/27/2015 9:20:39 PMHow to know if She likes you? 
iheartidiots
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,286)
Grove City, OH
40, joined Feb. 2012


Shoves her boobs in yo face.

2/27/2015 10:06:38 PMHow to know if She likes you? 
maine83
Capitol Heights, MD
34, joined Dec. 2012


I think dudes now days r so into feelings stop if she dont let it be known jus chill out n kick wit her at tha sametime keep her on tha team while u look for ur star player stop giving women control of ur life

2/28/2015 12:49:36 AMHow to know if She likes you? 
shyeyes69
Hillsboro, OR
29, joined Feb. 2015


Just be blunt and tell her how u feel not to assertively but people these days over think things just be honest and if she doesn't accept it move on its not meant to be! there's playing hard to get but sometimes that can be misleading and u think she's not interested us humana can be so complicating just be open and honest with what u want whether that be long term or short term I'd ur just open with what u want you'll know what the other party wants ams if its not the same u can just move on instead of driving yourself crazy

2/28/2015 3:26:10 AMHow to know if She likes you? 
ripcity120
Portland, OR
27, joined Nov. 2014


Just go for it dude why not?

2/28/2015 3:31:51 AMHow to know if She likes you? 
aldentee
Redding, CA
47, joined Aug. 2014


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That's right another sauce site b*tches ::mockery:

2/28/2015 5:27:15 AMHow to know if She likes you? 
mrhankchinaski
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,691)
Aurora, CO
56, joined Aug. 2014


She will casually rub her tit up against you then act embarrassed like it was an accident.

Also any kind of physical contact.

A big one is if they place their hand on your forearm.

Also if she just shuts the f**k up for two seconds and actually pays attention to what you are saying.


If she is doing these things, you just might get laid if ya don't do anything stupid.

2/28/2015 7:40:56 AMHow to know if She likes you? 
mustangwriter
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (24,547)
Boerne, TX
57, joined Nov. 2009


Honestly OP...If you can't tell... then she probably doesn't.

2/28/2015 8:57:03 AMHow to know if She likes you? 

testsignup
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,406)
Springfield, VA
64, joined Sep. 2009


Well, I wouldn't say that. There are no end of women here and elsewhere, who will complain that they gave some guy huge hints to try to get his positive attention, and he missed every single one.