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2/20/2015 3:13:34 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
luv_me_forever_
Cut Off, LA
29, joined Jul. 2014


I met this guy. His sister is a good friend of mine. He has a 3 month old little girl. I don't know if I like him or if I am falling in love with him. We both got out of bad relationships around the same time. Any advice?




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2/20/2015 3:16:17 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
a4umposter
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San Antonio, TX
50, joined Dec. 2014


I could fall in love with a man even if he has a child.

How long have you both been out of your previous relationships & how long ago or recently did the two of you meet?

2/20/2015 3:19:11 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
luv_me_forever_
Cut Off, LA
29, joined Jul. 2014


About 2 weeks out of each of our relationships.
We just met today. His little girl just melts my heart. I just wanted do what I could for him and that precious little girl.

2/20/2015 3:21:13 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
a4umposter
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San Antonio, TX
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You both are very fresh out of relationships. Be careful about getting into another one too soon. Be careful not to rush things. Both of you should take time.

2/20/2015 3:22:47 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
luv_me_forever_
Cut Off, LA
29, joined Jul. 2014


Quote from a4umposter:
You both are very fresh out of relationships. Be careful about getting into another one too soon. Be careful not to rush things. Both of you should take time.


Thank you. I truly appreciate your advice, a4umposter.

2/20/2015 3:29:52 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
a4umposter
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San Antonio, TX
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You're welcome & thanks. I'm no expert, but most times rushing things doesn't work out well. Best to take time for the new relationship to develop. I hope it all works out well for you.

2/20/2015 3:40:29 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
riflessivo
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AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
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You fall in love with the person.

What is worrying is.

1. You seem to think people with children are not worth falling in love with.

2. You have both only being single 2 weeks

3. You only met today and already are thinking about love.

2/20/2015 3:51:12 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
happylauren
Over 2,000 Posts (3,682)
Crown Point, IN
56, joined May. 2013


You really need to take time out to heal. If you become involved too soon it will be a rebound relationship. In your shoes I would go for a friendship with this man.

I am sorry for your breakup. Healing wishes headed your way. Good luck, be good to yourself.

2/20/2015 3:57:29 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
millyreturns
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Suffolk, VA
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Allow him and yourself to heal first jeez. Jumping right into another relationship just show signs of desperation like you need somebody when you really don't.

2/20/2015 4:01:09 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 

theloser2123
Manassas, VA
26, joined Apr. 2014


Suck that dudes d*ck dry

2/20/2015 4:54:59 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
unique_woman
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Omaha, NE
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Yes, some people can fall in love with someone who has a child.

2/20/2015 4:55:51 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
unique_woman
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Quote from luv_me_forever_:
About 2 weeks out of each of our relationships.
We just met today. His little girl just melts my heart. I just wanted do what I could for him and that precious little girl.


& Good luck

2/20/2015 4:56:38 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
unique_woman
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Quote from a4umposter:
You both are very fresh out of relationships. Be careful about getting into another one too soon. Be careful not to rush things. Both of you should take time.

I agree

2/20/2015 5:15:37 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
naturebiy
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Bangkok
Thailand
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3 month old child..hmmmm

Well..

Are you going to be able to deal with the fact that he will have to deal with the childs monther on a frequent basis..that is if he is going to be part of the childs life.



[Edited 2/20/2015 5:15:47 AM ]

2/20/2015 6:17:07 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 

bumblebee7
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Fort Payne, AL
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Quote from luv_me_forever_:
About 2 weeks out of each of our relationships.
We just met today. His little girl just melts my heart. I just wanted do what I could for him and that precious little girl.


Personally if the previous relations were involved enough.

I think getting back in the saddle in two weeks isn't enough time to come to terms correctly and get over it completely....and by doing that, your asking for trouble.

and just meeting someone and thinking your in love....shows you have some other issue lurking....needy or something.

anyone can fall in love with anyone, so a child doesn't make or break things with that.

Seriously op, thinking you've fallen on the first meet....really shows there is something wrong there.

and most don't introduce their kids to a prospect this early either..

Sounds like a train wreck to me in the progress.

2/20/2015 6:19:51 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 

bumblebee7
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Fort Payne, AL
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Op...reading this and now focusing on your site name.

I'm sorry, but I suspect insecurities and neediness.

You need to find a way to figure that out and solve it...with help from someone qualified.

until you do this....I afraid you'll just head into trouble all the time...and not get what you want.



[Edited 2/20/2015 6:20:14 AM ]

2/20/2015 6:58:37 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
oppsiidazi
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Orr, MN
48, joined Oct. 2014


At this stage in my life, no. My kids are all almost grown. His (kids) need to be too.

2/20/2015 7:46:15 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
ymia_dikhed
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,937)
Gresham, OR
44, joined Dec. 2011


Yes I could fall in love with someone who has a child.


In my opinion op I think you are jumping the gun. You just got out of a relationship with someone else and you are already talking about love with this guy. It's no Bueno.

I don't usually give much advice because I know people are going to do what people are going to do regardless. With that said, I hope you the best.

2/20/2015 7:51:38 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
luv_me_forever_
Cut Off, LA
29, joined Jul. 2014


Thank you all for your opinions on my situation. I'm taking everything in a positive light. God bless you all.

2/20/2015 1:20:35 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
hisbaby4ever13
Over 1,000 Posts (1,732)
Ramseur, NC
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Yes.

With the exception of just ONE guy, everyone I have ever dated, all had at least one child.

My future fiancé has a teenage son and we get along wonderfully.

2/20/2015 2:59:39 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 

mizzangeleyezo4
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Tujunga, CA
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Take your time..no need to rush into anything.

2/20/2015 4:49:36 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
missamicable
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2/20/2015 5:09:49 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
lily_bblove
Over 1,000 Posts (1,698)
Orlando, FL
23, joined Nov. 2013


Quote from theloser2123:
Suck that dudes d*ck dry


lmao
very touching advice

@bumblebee



[Edited 2/20/2015 5:10:44 PM ]

2/20/2015 5:20:13 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
lolass30
Overton, TX
34, joined Jan. 2015


Quote from luv_me_forever_:
I met this guy. His sister is a good friend of mine. He has a 3 month old little girl. I don't know if I like him or if I am falling in love with him. We both got out of bad relationships around the same time. Any advice?


You need to take time for yourself
You just met today and its too soon to think about love..... Think about why it didnt work out before..... Best wishes to you.

2/20/2015 5:26:39 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
cubcougar
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Lucerne, CA
65, joined Oct. 2010


Quote from luv_me_forever_:
I met this guy. His sister is a good friend of mine. He has a 3 month old little girl. I don't know if I like him or if I am falling in love with him. We both got out of bad relationships around the same time. Any advice?



Go fix your self up FIRST ... you know how to pick sick pricks.

Healthy pricks are something you do NOT LIKE what so ever as they are unfamiliar and not anything like Dear Old Dad who got taco sauce on his swartzn**ger.

Or PLAN TWO .. KEEP PICKING SICK PRICKS.

WATCH THEM CRASH AND BURN.

Then after you do that a few more times .. maybe then you will start to say ''Shit it must me ME that is f**ked up"

As you pick them.

He is an addict, lies, cheats, steals ... good christian man ... loves the Virgin Mary that has baby sex with the Ghost of her Father in Heaven.

The learning curve is a bit flat at first but it does pick up after awhile ... but not for the dumbest of people.

They keep doing the same old shit expecting different results.

They are stuck in their Toddler Tantrum mentality cause of their Duck Disease issues.

sumbuddie wear blind sea



2/20/2015 5:28:00 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
cubcougar
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Lucerne, CA
65, joined Oct. 2010


Quote from lolass30:
You need to take time for yourself
You just met today and its too soon to think about love..... Think about why it didnt work out before..... Best wishes to you.


She has no Emotional Intelligence Lass ... so her thinkings are not right in the up stairs.

Her thinking picked the last sick prick.

She is messed up in a big way I am sorry to say ...

sumbuddie wear blind sea



2/20/2015 5:46:19 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
shellyo73
Leesburg, FL
44, joined Mar. 2014


You can absolutely fall inlove with a person if they have a child. Imagine it was you with a child would you want someone to be so shallow as to not wanna be with you due to having a baby or child of any age? Com on ppl its a child and every1 including the parent needs and wants love. A child can be a blessing.... Think about it.

2/20/2015 5:48:58 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
josfsd06
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Sioux Falls, SD
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Wow! You're two weeks out of a relationship and looking for your next? That isn't love, ope. That's hormones.

2/20/2015 6:50:10 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
cubcougar
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Lucerne, CA
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Quote from josfsd06:
Wow! You're two weeks out of a relationship and looking for your next? That isn't love, ope. That's hormones.



nawww .. it is sex and money ....

that was the basis of her first relationship along with the nesting hormones.

there was no love there .. as Addicts do not love, nor do they care about the rights of others nor the welfare of others ... they are addicts.

duhhhhhh



2/20/2015 7:02:38 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
josfsd06
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,270)
Sioux Falls, SD
59, joined Mar. 2014


Quote from cubcougar:
nawww .. it is sex and money ....

that was the basis of her first relationship along with the nesting hormones.

there was no love there .. as Addicts do not love, nor do they care about the rights of others nor the welfare of others ... they are addicts.

duhhhhhh



The sex is what I meant by "hormones". The money thing, well...

2/20/2015 7:25:30 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 

packersbabe920
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Green Bay, WI
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Take it slow, cause he could be dating u on the rebound

2/20/2015 8:08:38 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
josfsd06
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Sioux Falls, SD
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Quote from packersbabe920:
Take it slow, cause he could be dating u on the rebound


Holy shit! She'll be dating HIM on the rebound! She's TWO WEEKS out of a, so called, relationship!

2/20/2015 8:21:55 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
lolass30
Overton, TX
34, joined Jan. 2015


Quote from cubcougar:
She has no Emotional Intelligence Lass ... so her thinkings are not right in the up stairs.

Her thinking picked the last sick prick.

She is messed up in a big way I am sorry to say ...

sumbuddie wear blind sea




I agree!!!!


2/20/2015 8:33:05 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 

driver406
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Saint Paul, MN
66, joined Oct. 2009


I fell in like with a babe who has 2 kids! But Dad is still in the picture and she's 16 years younger and I don't need the drama so I leave her alone.

2/20/2015 8:48:56 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
cubcougar
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Lucerne, CA
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Quote from josfsd06:
The sex is what I meant by "hormones". The money thing, well...


oh silly me and my honesty in calling a spade a shovel ...

she is doing sex and money with the last guy .,..

and doing sex and money with the next guy two weeks later ...

she don't do love ...

she has no Emotional IQ .. neither does the guys she is sexing up ..

they are only there for the sex as well.

no love to it ..



2/20/2015 9:32:24 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
idliketotalk
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Punxsutawney, PA
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Well I for sure believe you can fall in love with a person who has a child.

As for your situation OP. After just meeing him you are already talking love, that seems a bit sudden.

How long was your last relationship, a day or more?

Call it love or lust or like or whatever, but be very careful that you do not become the mother of another child of his anytime soon.

2/20/2015 11:14:22 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
vagmasterflash
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Durand, WI
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Anything is possible....or not.

2/20/2015 11:32:29 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
tjl503
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Portland, OR
38, joined Dec. 2012


Yes I can. It's pretty hard to find someone who doesn't have a kid these days. You need to decide if you want to date a man with kids or not. We (guys) deal with it all the time dating moms who have kids full time.

Most guys don't have full custody of their kids. if he does have full custody prepare to be an instamom. I've been an insta-dad in the past and it's overwhelming. Even if he only gets her once a week you'll still get attached. It's twice as hard if things don't work out when you have a kid you care for in the mix. Advice? Make up your mind if you want to be a step mommy figure to his bastard kid. If you do want to give it a go take things slow, if not find a guy who doesn't have kid baggage.

2/20/2015 11:46:56 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 

mizzangeleyezo4
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Tujunga, CA
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Yes I could. I've never dated anyone with kids..kinda weird I guess

2/20/2015 11:48:01 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
sarahgoldsmith
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Chantilly, VA
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Yes, I can love a man who has kids & I did. I love him so I love everything that is a part of him. I will treat his kids as my own too. I will acknowledge that they have a mom. If the step mother is good to them then they can have more than two moms. I don't mind dating a man that has kids.

2/20/2015 11:49:42 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 

mizzangeleyezo4
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Tujunga, CA
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Quote from packersbabe920:
Take it slow, cause he could be dating u on the rebound

No one wants to be the rebound

2/21/2015 1:45:51 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
cavie59
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Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010


Quote from luv_me_forever_:
His little girl just melts my heart.


This statement shows that you are not falling for him, but you are falling for his little girl.

Do not move to fast, as you could end up breaking more than one heart.

2/21/2015 2:15:46 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
josfsd06
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Sioux Falls, SD
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Quote from cubcougar:
oh silly me and my honesty in calling a spade a shovel ...


Point. Subtlety is too often wasted with some of these folks.

2/21/2015 3:31:59 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 

bumblebee7
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Fort Payne, AL
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Interesting how some answer the title without really reading the whole thread carefully.

Okay people....she and the guy are only "two weeks" out of their last relation.

She thinks she fell in love with him, on the first meet.

Its a train wreck and they are both needy as hell and both are on the rebound.

and no one falls in love that quick and it be real love.

2/21/2015 5:59:13 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
cubcougar
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Lucerne, CA
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Quote from josfsd06:
Point. Subtlety is too often wasted with some of these folks.


Yup ... being stuck in the Toddler Tantrum mentality they make things up.

To them Snow White and the Three Bears having sex with the Wicked Wood Cutter is real.

In another country they be tossing virgins into Volcano for their Father Earth to have cherry pop time with.

Around here it is the Heavenly Father that has cherry pops going on with his Daughters and maybe do His Sons as well ... just like the Priests do.

As above .. so below.

They look insane .. but really .. just little children who have not grow up yet.

They are addicts ... sucking on the baby bottle or the whisky bottle or the crack pipe or the Big Pharma.

They will not give them selves to their woman ... she is not interested in a man and wants boy sluts that f**k around on her ... as that is her Dad and got into her Duck Disease.

She can only cum with taco sauce on that swartzn**ger.

She is just as sick as he is ...

but don't know it.



2/21/2015 6:48:22 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 

sweetnsassy1957
Valparaiso, IN
61, joined Jun. 2014


Try it and find out. Just keep in mind there is a mother to that child for years to come and you may end up losing your good friend.

2/21/2015 10:32:48 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 

packersbabe920
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Quote from mizzangeleyezo4:
No one wants to be the rebound



Right, he just might get back with his baby momma the baby only 3months

2/21/2015 10:48:16 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 

passioninjersey
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Jersey City, NJ
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Yes as long as his relationship with his baby momma has been over a few years

2/22/2015 7:46:10 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 

arizonasunshine
Duluth, MN
32, joined Dec. 2008


You say "His little girl just melts my heart."
I ask you...Does HE melt your heart?

2/23/2015 12:57:57 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
whydo
Hartford, CT
41, joined Oct. 2013


An infant not a child. And he's on the cusp of giant life changes.

2/23/2015 2:43:02 AMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 

pickygirl72
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Pinon Hills, CA
47, joined Sep. 2011


Quote from luv_me_forever_:
About 2 weeks out of each of our relationships.
We just met today. His little girl just melts my heart. I just wanted do what I could for him and that precious little girl.

Do not just date him cause the little girl melts your heart
Look at the WHOLE picture. Are u guys compatible? Are u guys on the same level in life? Are u both completely over the ex'es? Just be friends for now and see how things go.

2/23/2015 7:46:16 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 

mistermister81
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Opa Locka, FL
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Quote from luv_me_forever_:
I met this guy. His sister is a good friend of mine. He has a 3 month old little girl. I don't know if I like him or if I am falling in love with him. We both got out of bad relationships around the same time. Any advice?


What type of dumb a** question is that!

2/23/2015 7:55:40 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
nicoli7
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,619)
Louisville, KY
34, joined Jul. 2014


No...you can't fall in love with someone that has a child...

I mean ....that's just f**kin weird..


2/23/2015 7:56:53 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
iheartidiots
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Grove City, OH
40, joined Feb. 2012


Of course. Is this a serious question?

How old are you?

2/23/2015 8:01:34 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
nicoli7
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Louisville, KY
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^^

I was juss jokin btw

2/23/2015 8:13:56 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 

ctr916v2
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Roseville, CA
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I wish i could avoid it; but, mr.happy insists every chic is a keeper, potentially.

2/23/2015 10:51:56 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 
poet987
Tiffin, OH
44, joined Jan. 2015


What does love hav to do with him having a kid??? Wth? Now if he's a lousy father I could see the disinterest. I could love a woman with five kids. Might need aspirin but I could love her.

2/23/2015 11:47:30 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 

driver406
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Saint Paul, MN
66, joined Oct. 2009


I fell in like with a woman with two kids, but she's a lot younger and has lots of drama and the EX is in the picture so I leave her alone.

2/24/2015 6:06:40 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 

audlove515
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Jasper, IN
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No.

2/26/2015 11:42:48 PMCan you fall in love with a person who has a child? 

wildfir
Albany, IN
46, joined Sep. 2013


OP take your time and see if your feelings are for real or not just a rebound. U 2 just got out of bad relationships. Don't rush it. It wont end up very well. Take your time. Rebound love ends badly and in divorce if u rush into marriage.