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2/20/2015 5:08:51 PMPersuing A woman 

moreno_31_p
Clifton, NJ
35, joined May. 2014


women like to be persude, even the relationship has been going on for months. But in my opinion, I find that the need for a woman to be persude is childish and unnecessary (no offense to women) and it truly bothers me. Imnot trying to be mean, I just can't hide the feeling. Any thoughts ?

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2/20/2015 5:22:04 PMPersuing A woman 
unique_woman
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,662)
Omaha, NE
30, joined Dec. 2014


I see

2/20/2015 6:57:42 PMPersuing A woman 

dixie_dancer
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,762)
Kansas City, KS
29, joined Feb. 2013


live your life OP

if that ain't your cup of tea, don't drink it

2/20/2015 7:01:37 PMPersuing A woman 
flyfish77
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (25,305)
Conyers, GA
52, joined Jul. 2014


very true,,there a pain intrhe ass,an love being that way,,pursued,,thinkin its funny,it maskes me wanna say f**k this shit,my patience goes way thin,, they needto learn to be,,mature,,an very fast.............

2/20/2015 7:06:23 PMPersuing A woman 
Champaree
Over 2,000 Posts (2,513)
Australian Capital
Australia
87, joined Jan. 2015


Whatever floats your boat

2/20/2015 7:13:53 PMPersuing A woman 

packersbabe920
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (102,903)
Green Bay, WI
53, joined Jul. 2013


Wrong, get u a woman that doesn't want to be persuade op

2/20/2015 8:11:11 PMPersuing A woman 
4uijack
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (28,040)
New Port Richey, FL
82, joined Aug. 2013


Does anyone know how to spell persued!!!!!!!

2/20/2015 8:15:29 PMPersuing A woman 

theloser2123
Manassas, VA
26, joined Apr. 2014


Dude where can I get some sweet sunglasses like yours man? F**king sweet bro. You jersey shore looking f*ggot. My thought is you like guys not girls

2/20/2015 8:17:21 PMPersuing A woman 
lolass30
Overton, TX
34, joined Jan. 2015


Quote from dixie_dancer:
live your life OP

if that ain't your cup of tea, don't drink it



This

2/20/2015 8:42:04 PMPersuing A woman 
dpi48
Lagrange, GA
64, joined Jan. 2012


Quote from 4uijack:
Does anyone know how to spell persued!!!!!!!
lm

lmao

2/20/2015 8:43:36 PMPersuing A woman 
nothingneeded
Over 2,000 Posts (2,256)
Johnston, IA
49, joined Sep. 2014


Pursue is not what women wants but showing them that you admire, care, and want them is what most women like.
Chasing a woman is one thing, building something with a women is another.

2/20/2015 8:45:28 PMPersuing A woman 

driver406
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (59,740)
Saint Paul, MN
66, joined Oct. 2009


If I persue it still doesn't get me a date. It's a nuisance trying to please a woman who refuses to be pleased.

2/20/2015 8:45:56 PMPersuing A woman 

driver406
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (59,740)
Saint Paul, MN
66, joined Oct. 2009


Quote from nothingneeded:
Pursue is not what women wants but showing them that you admire, care, and want them is what most women like.
Chasing a woman is one thing, building something with a women is another.


Never got me anywhere.

2/20/2015 8:51:13 PMPersuing A woman 
ruthsan6
Orlando, FL
56, joined Dec. 2013


NOT pursuing you...........I like the attention he gives me..but I recripricate too...it's supposed to be mutual attraction that draws you together..if you feel u r pursuing and don't like it...leave it alone.........

2/20/2015 9:09:27 PMPersuing A woman 

lovethelake17
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (35,685)
Henderson, NV
59, joined May. 2009


I really dislike it when someone says something offensive, then says "no offense", like it will mitigate the fact that they were being insulting.

I'd be wondering, if I were you, more along the lines of why the women you choose want you to keep pursuing them. Now, if you really mean that they don't want to be taken for granted and would like to still be thought of as special in your life, then maybe you need to be thinking about why you don't think of them as important to you and take them for granted.

2/20/2015 9:14:15 PMPersuing A woman 
idliketotalk
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,105)
Punxsutawney, PA
55, joined Oct. 2013


Quote from moreno_31_p:
women like to be persude, even the relationship has been going on for months. But in my opinion, I find that the need for a woman to be persude is childish and unnecessary (no offense to women) and it truly bothers me. Imnot trying to be mean, I just can't hide the feeling. Any thoughts ?


Yes, you should definitely pursue guys.

2/20/2015 9:50:15 PMPersuing A woman 
tjl503
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,222)
Portland, OR
38, joined Dec. 2012


Nice glasses, at first I thought you were a raging homo but then I saw you were talking about women. If you're going to post a thread at least spell the title right, just so you don't come off as a dumb dumb.

Man = Hunter. I'm sorry it truly bothers you that you need to put in a little work to get some p*ssy. If you're still chasing a woman who you've been dating for months she doesn't want to be your girl.

2/20/2015 9:52:21 PMPersuing A woman 
amusicluvr
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (23,676)
Salem, OR
65, joined Nov. 2013


OP - If you worth the effort, the women would pursue you. Learn to lick your eyebrows.

2/21/2015 12:35:29 AMPersuing A woman 
grneyesrme
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,199)
Sacramento, CA
50, joined Aug. 2013


I'm not chasing anyone & I don't expect anyone to chase me. What I do expect is that when we have both determined we like each other & we want to spend time together that we will both mutually put forth the effort to make that happen.

2/21/2015 1:32:32 AMPersuing A woman 

dr_i_got_answer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,888)
Gwynn Oak, MD
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A womans self esteem is built upon the attention she gets. When the attention stop so does her confidence and self worth.

I admit it can be a pain at times. Having to feed their egos to keep them from ruining your life. But until they take the time to understand how much evil influence is behind them feeling like that, what can we do?

2/21/2015 4:10:13 AMPersuing A woman 

bumblebee7
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (77,386)
Fort Payne, AL
63, joined Apr. 2011


um....chuck the weird glasses and maybe you'll be pursued for a change.

I haven't found life to be like you've found it.

I never had to persue while in a relation, and I've been persued before.

So maybe there's just something about you.

2/21/2015 4:34:49 AMPersuing A woman 

sweetnsassy1957
Valparaiso, IN
61, joined Jun. 2014


Quote from 4uijack:
Does anyone know how to spell persued!!!!!!!


Persude-incorrect spelling
Persued-follow or catch
Persuade-to do something through reasoning

2/21/2015 4:52:55 AMPersuing A woman 
ltlwing
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,528)
Williamsburg, OH
54, joined Oct. 2013


Quote from grneyesrme:
I'm not chasing anyone & I don't expect anyone to chase me. What I do expect is that when we have both determined we like each other & we want to spend time together that we will both mutually put forth the effort to make that happen.




2/21/2015 4:53:11 AMPersuing A woman 
spaceface79
Over 2,000 Posts (2,182)
Des Moines, IA
38, joined Mar. 2014


Not understanding the behavior of someone else does not make them "childish".

2/21/2015 5:04:19 AMPersuing A woman 
nettyblue
Okeechobee, FL
58, joined Oct. 2014


pur·sue
p?r'so?o
verb
1.
follow (someone or something) in order to catch or attack them.
"the officer pursued the van"
synonyms: follow, run after, chase; hunt, stalk, track, trail, shadow, hound, course; informaltail
antonyms: avoid
seek to form a sexual relationship with (someone) in a persistent way.
"Sophie was being pursued by a number of men"
synonyms: chase, run after, go after; More
seek to attain or accomplish (a goal), especially over a long period.
"should people pursue their own happiness at the expense of others?"



IMHO women - real women like to be pursued in a new relationship.
It goes back to caveman days, ugh! me like em you! and he knocks her over the head with a club and drags her home by her hair...

Men that do not pursue a woman until they have become a couple will lose her.
She needs to feels wanted, she wants to be shown attention and HIS need of her in his life.
For men it should be in them for the "Thrill of the hunt".
Hopefully it'll all work out.



2/21/2015 5:13:43 AMPersuing A woman 
riflessivo
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,455)
AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
44, joined Jan. 2014


Quote from nettyblue:


IMHO women - real women like to be pursued in a new relationship.
It goes back to caveman days, ugh! me like em you! and he knocks her over the head with a club and drags her home by her hair...

Men that do not pursue a woman until they have become a couple will lose her.
She needs to feels wanted, she wants to be shown attention and HIS need of her in his life.
For men it should be in them for the "Thrill of the hunt".
Hopefully it'll all work out.





2/21/2015 6:01:19 AMPersuing A woman 
cavie59
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,203)
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010


In days long past, I learned that if you pursue someone, they run faster. Therefore it id best to wait and ambush them.

2/21/2015 4:18:34 PMPersuing A woman 

luvorleaveme75
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,336)
West Palm Beach, FL
43, joined Jun. 2012


women do like to be pursued, but so do men.. i think in a relationship, no matter how long it has been going on, both should make the effort to keep that person feeling like they are always wanted..

2/21/2015 5:03:46 PMPersuing A woman 
latinasm
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,106)
Amarillo, TX
49, joined May. 2014


Quote from nothingneeded:
Pursue is not what women wants but showing them that you admire, care, and want them is what most women like.
Chasing a woman is one thing, building something with a women is another.


So true... Love your way of thinking nothing!!

2/21/2015 5:13:22 PMPersuing A woman 

lovethelake17
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (35,685)
Henderson, NV
59, joined May. 2009


Quote from sweetnsassy1957:
Persude-incorrect spelling
Persued-follow or catch
Persuade-to do something through reasoning



*pursued.

2/21/2015 5:45:07 PMPersuing A woman 

ctr916v2
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,717)
Roseville, CA
55, joined Nov. 2014


Quote from moreno_31_p:
women like to be persude, even the relationship has been going on for months. But in my opinion, I find that the need for a woman to be persude is childish and unnecessary (no offense to women) and it truly bothers me. Imnot trying to be mean, I just can't hide the feeling. Any thoughts ?


then don't play their games, and just see a stripper named Ginger who insists only Bad girls lie to us and let us miss our turn.

2/21/2015 7:43:59 PMPersuing A woman 

soundzgood
Long Beach, CA
50, joined Feb. 2014


Pardon me, In the most simplified cave-dweller font, Nature works in certain ways ...no matter what we want. Womankind was given many graces & the biggest by far is her ability to captivate, just by her presence & that's all. She need only present herself. The men who are captivated to the degree required for ENTHUSIASTIC interest (like he means it)will try to put the chase on her (aka Rico Suave). Of the step up auditioning Ricos, the lady will WEED out. A great deal of the time the lady will buddy up to the one who likes her the most....unless Hollywood looks or Hollywood Talent is involved.(but then she'll have to compete. Women HATE rivals. Pardon me.) She will though if her feet are fluttering. Back to real world issue, In the event that the lady is not satisfied with initial pursuit & insists on 're-displaying' your undying passion for her butt cheeks......then pardon me. This translates to ....she doesn't really want the guy, he is probably a pest & she is concerned with ditching him because he'll NUT UP or get suicidal...so for the time she'll appease him......but as soon as she is approached by HER hog with the big nuts.......it all goes out the window & the guy is DONE. Next. Do you see that? No hard feelings. If we want "FAIR" we can go to Pamona, or Coney Island. Ha?

2/21/2015 7:45:29 PMPersuing A woman 
extortionegos
Over 2,000 Posts (2,808)
Hayward, CA
41, joined Apr. 2014


If she's to fast I don't chase

2/21/2015 8:04:25 PMPersuing A woman 
missamicable
Over 1,000 Posts (1,780)
Austin, TX
83, joined Jul. 2014


Yeah I like the attention.

2/21/2015 8:11:45 PMPersuing A woman 

dr_i_got_answer
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Gwynn Oak, MD
51, joined Jun. 2014
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Quote from spaceface79:
Not understanding the behavior of someone else does not make them "childish".


No but exhibiting yourself or acting in a fashion that is synonymous with a child or children is... being childish.

2/21/2015 9:05:28 PMPersuing A woman 

Sanfeliz
Haverhill, MA
32, joined Jan. 2015


Op... Have you thought on the possibility that women might be running away from you? That's probably why you feel in the constant need to pursue a women....

Think about it

2/21/2015 9:26:34 PMPersuing A woman 

ctr916v2
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,717)
Roseville, CA
55, joined Nov. 2014


Quote from missamicable:
Yeah I like the attention.


i like when women insist they want to help me with my endurance and stamina, just for fun and practice

2/21/2015 9:26:54 PMPersuing A woman 

dr_i_got_answer
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Gwynn Oak, MD
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Men will always pursue women and women will always decide who she'll be caught by. What makes it all fuzzy and unclear is the REASONS she allows herself to be caught.

But if I persue a woman it is a requirement that she give the same level of attention that I give. So if at anytime I feel her levels are fading so do I.

So ultimately she decides how much of my attention she gets by how much she gives. Thats fair.

2/22/2015 12:08:56 AMPersuing A woman 

driver406
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (59,740)
Saint Paul, MN
66, joined Oct. 2009


HA! You think I'm in good enough shape to chase a woman?!?!?!?! I always ran like a plow horse.

2/22/2015 12:37:27 AMPersuing A woman 

claudius5
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,941)
Petaluma, CA
68, joined May. 2009


Quote from lovethelake17:
I really dislike it when someone says something offensive, then says "no offense", like it will mitigate the fact that they were being insulting.

I'd be wondering, if I were you, more along the lines of why the women you choose want you to keep pursuing them. Now, if you really mean that they don't want to be taken for granted and would like to still be thought of as special in your life, then maybe you need to be thinking about why you don't think of them as important to you and take them for granted.


I agree Lake. You might overwhelm him with your common sense approach. Oh! I forgot he posted this pathetic thread so it would go right over his head.

2/22/2015 1:41:07 AMPersuing A woman 

lucky_1million
Over 2,000 Posts (2,217)
Pewaukee, WI
51, joined Jun. 2013


I don't make men chase after me.

And...I wouldn't chase after a guy myself.

I would take the feeling that I have to pursue someone... as a sign that maybe the person I liked wasn't interested in a relationship with me. Sometimes people will date you and they like you as a person... but they aren't totally sure about you as a relationship partner. And... they aren't the type to be upfront and honest with you and tell you to get lost. Sometimes they don't even know what they want. Should you stay? Should you go? You can waste a lot of time on a person like this because they will give you mixed signals.

Look for someone who will meet you half-way and work with you.

It should be more like dancing than chasing.

Anything less is not a relationship.



2/22/2015 2:31:48 AMPersuing A woman 
cavie59
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,203)
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010


Well you can pursue a woman all you like, however if she does not like you it will most likely end in a restraining order or jail.

Never pursue a woman, it is not worth the hassle.

2/22/2015 11:44:44 AMPersuing A woman 

greeleybro
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,930)
Denver, CO
50, joined Oct. 2013


I chase, but I don't beg....

2/22/2015 12:05:02 PMPersuing A woman 

dasnixter
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,530)
Jessieville, AR
60, joined Jul. 2010


Ain't too proud to beg sweet dahlin' please don't leave me girl, don't you go.


I prefer birddogin'.



[Edited 2/22/2015 12:05:50 PM ]

2/22/2015 12:38:34 PMPersuing A woman 
extortionegos
Over 2,000 Posts (2,808)
Hayward, CA
41, joined Apr. 2014


I moved on from this subject. On to something else

2/22/2015 5:22:26 PMPersuing A woman 
numbersor_only
Over 1,000 Posts (1,877)
Austin, TX
58, joined Nov. 2014


(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)

2/22/2015 7:02:04 PMPersuing A woman 
missamicable
Over 1,000 Posts (1,780)
Austin, TX
83, joined Jul. 2014


Yeah I enjoy the chase and the attention.

2/22/2015 8:27:37 PMPersuing A woman 

dr_i_got_answer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,888)
Gwynn Oak, MD
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Quote from lucky_1million:
I don't make men chase after me.

And...I wouldn't chase after a guy myself.


No women "makes" a man chase after her. He decides if he's gonna chase you based on what he likes and what he's looking at. If you're not his type or if he's repulsed by you he wouldn't chase if you begged him.

And a man wouldn't expect you to "chase" him either. But he will expect you to do is.... if your not interested SAY SO.

2/22/2015 8:36:35 PMPersuing A woman 
a4umposter
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,301)
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Dec. 2014


Quote from idliketotalk:
Yes, you should definitely pursue guys.



2/22/2015 8:38:27 PMPersuing A woman 
a4umposter
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,301)
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Dec. 2014


Quote from grneyesrme:
I'm not chasing anyone & I don't expect anyone to chase me. What I do expect is that when we have both determined we like each other & we want to spend time together that we will both mutually put forth the effort to make that happen.



2/22/2015 10:47:32 PMPersuing A woman 
vagmasterflash
Over 2,000 Posts (3,458)
Durand, WI
52, joined Nov. 2014


Quote from 4uijack:
Does anyone know how to spell persued!!!!!!!
....shhh. I was waiting for someone to spell it persood....from texas.

2/22/2015 10:48:23 PMPersuing A woman 
vagmasterflash
Over 2,000 Posts (3,458)
Durand, WI
52, joined Nov. 2014


I persood dat b*tch. Right in dat ass.

2/23/2015 1:52:24 AMPersuing A woman 
cavie59
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,203)
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010


Quote from missamicable:
Yeah I enjoy the chase and the attention.


Is that not how MOST (not all) women are.

2/23/2015 3:20:21 AMPersuing A woman 
kungfu_candy
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,218)
Alsónémedi
Hungary
29, joined Aug. 2013


Correction:

We like to be pursued by men we like.

Anything is annoying and infuriating.

2/23/2015 5:22:07 AMPersuing A woman 

dr_i_got_answer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,888)
Gwynn Oak, MD
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Quote from kungfu_candy:
Correction:

We like to be pursued by men we like.


But even then yall can act rather stupid and take it too far.

Problem is yall enjoy being chased by the wrong man and hate being chased by the right man.

2/23/2015 5:36:05 AMPersuing A woman 
kungfu_candy
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,218)
Alsónémedi
Hungary
29, joined Aug. 2013


Quote from dr_i_got_answer:
But even then yall can act rather stupid and take it too far.

Problem is yall enjoy being chased by the wrong man and hate being chased by the right man.


Nope, problem is men like to think they're the exception so when certain women tell them hell no they insist and then get their feelings hurt. Suddenly the female is a stuck up b*tch.

I don't want anything from men I don't like. Not attention. Not acknowledgement. Nothing. If I'm on fire and they have a glass a water? It's best they drink it.

Now if yall choose to chase attention wh*res whom are RIDICULOUSLY easy to spot... that's yall fault. Pick and choose your battles. Don't chase after an attention wh*re and be mad when you discover she's leading you on for an ego boost.

You men KNOW when women TRULY like you, you just ignore logic for a chance at p*ssy.



[Edited 2/23/2015 5:36:16 AM ]

2/23/2015 5:40:03 AMPersuing A woman 
ltlwing
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,528)
Williamsburg, OH
54, joined Oct. 2013


Quote from kungfu_candy:
Nope, problem is men like to think they're the exception so when certain women tell them hell no they insist and then get their feelings hurt. Suddenly the female is a stuck up b*tch.

I don't want anything from men I don't like. Not attention. Not acknowledgement. Nothing. If I'm on fire and they have a glass a water? It's best they drink it.

Now if yall choose to chase attention wh*res whom are RIDICULOUSLY easy to spot... that's yall fault. Pick and choose your battles. Don't chase after an attention wh*re and be mad when you discover she's leading you on for an ego boost.

You men KNOW when women TRULY like you, you just ignore logic for a chance at p*ssy.




2/23/2015 7:46:10 AMPersuing A woman 

norwegianwood64
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,187)
Dothan, AL
54, joined Jul. 2014


I peruse women but never persue.

2/23/2015 9:55:12 AMPersuing A woman 

artist820
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,544)
Tehachapi, CA
61, joined Jan. 2013


Quote from 4uijack:
Does anyone know how to spell persued!!!!!!!

Lol
There are some on that there corner that could persuade u to give them ur wallet.

2/23/2015 11:45:20 AMPersuing A woman 
kawkasian
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,841)
Beverly Hills, CA
37, joined Sep. 2014


Quote from moreno_31_p:
women like to be persude, even the relationship has been going on for months. But in my opinion, I find that the need for a woman to be persude is childish and unnecessary (no offense to women) and it truly bothers me. Imnot trying to be mean, I just can't hide the feeling. Any thoughts ?


Then pursue men if you don't like pursuing women...simple.