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3/22/2015 9:34:56 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
BeeBuzz
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AchauAchau
Austria
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Inner Beauty is a phrase used by women on men as a shaming technique. Which one of you guys would or does fall for it?




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3/22/2015 9:35:50 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
jester0011
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uhahaha

3/22/2015 9:36:40 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
1sirens
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Isn't inner beauty just a way of saying being kind haggy?

3/22/2015 9:36:51 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
ibeenseenitall
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Weed, CA
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I need something to even out my inner self. I know that much

3/22/2015 9:37:19 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
esmeraldar
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OP has "Inner Ugly".

3/22/2015 9:38:06 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
1sirens
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That's a good one lol

3/22/2015 9:40:03 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
jester0011
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the things the fat girls say to get a date with a great looking guy.

3/22/2015 9:42:00 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
gotheon123
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That something special that you see in someone, can tip the scales on your sexy time meter.

3/22/2015 9:43:54 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 

skywatcher58
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Topeka, KS
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Men are visual creatures. Women are more intuned to a good mans qualities than his looks. Most very handsome men are too in love with theirselves to commit to another human being. We have one that comes to mind I wont say his name but he crys all the time how his sister is better looking than him and why can't he get a date. He's nice looking makes good money (as a car salesman) and yet he says men not as attractive as him or rich as him get all the dates. No matter how many times we tell him it's him he wont believe it. Personality kindness humor good heart go a long way with women.

3/22/2015 9:45:12 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 

skywatcher58
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Oh short answer I'd marry for love no matter the looks of a man.

3/22/2015 9:46:12 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
jester0011
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Quote from gotheon123:
That something special that you see in someone, can tip the scales on your sexy time meter.
uhahaha,bwaahaahaa

3/22/2015 9:46:24 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
1sirens
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Hell...for me..funny can tip the sexy meter big time.

3/22/2015 9:48:23 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
gotheon123
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Quote from jester0011:
uhahaha,bwaahaahaa



I'm sorry that there's nothing special about you and you're kinda scrawny, you were dealt a shitty hand in life.

Uhahaha, bwaahaahaa

3/22/2015 9:49:48 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
gotheon123
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Quote from 1sirens:
Hell...for me..funny can tip the sexy meter big time.



I agree.

I do care about looks and wether I find them attractive, but a 6 or 7 with that little something that works for you....
Jumps to a 10 for me.

3/22/2015 9:50:15 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
jester0011
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well not all the ladies can get a man such as jer.i know u are gloating but no reason to get arogant

3/22/2015 9:50:39 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
1sirens
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Likewise

3/22/2015 9:52:16 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 

hurryme
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It is a gift to be able to see that inner beauty in a special woman. How sad the OP was out playing with himself when it was handed out.

3/22/2015 9:53:53 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 

playingindirt
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inner beauty comes from the heart and it's heart felt. beauty isn't just about what you think a person looks like physically. Its the chemistry between them that draws them closer or draws them apart no matter what they look like to you or anyone else.
If you only find someone beautiful or ugly because they look good or bad to you physically either way you missed their inner beauty probably because you don't have any inner beauty.

bottom line is if you don't have inner beauty you're not beautiful no matter how great or ugly you look.

3/22/2015 9:54:01 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
micheleisgreat
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A man's "inner beauty" will win me over every time

That aspect will determine whether or not he is marriage material. Looks fade or change as we age. Inner qualities do not.

3/22/2015 9:54:24 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
jester0011
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come on people how many times have u seen a nice looking girl with a fat guy locking lips

3/22/2015 9:55:09 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
1sirens
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Im not bragging. .but I have both



3/22/2015 9:55:59 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
jester0011
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if inner beauty is all u need then stop trying to hit the gym,jogg and diet like me.uhahaha,u all know its the looks.

3/22/2015 9:57:04 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
jester0011
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the good decent people keep themselves in shape.and the others hang out at the waffle house.

3/22/2015 9:58:27 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
ibeenseenitall
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I wanted waffles this morning too

3/22/2015 9:59:49 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
micheleisgreat
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Quote from jester0011:
if inner beauty is all u need then stop trying to hit the gym,jogg and diet like me.uhahaha,u all know its the looks.


Wouldn't jog if a dog was chasing me, hate the gym and any kind of exercise, had home made pumpkin pie for breakfast

For some reason, I still get dates!!

3/22/2015 10:02:51 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
micheleisgreat
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Quote from BeeBuzz:
Inner Beauty is a phrase used by women on men as a shaming technique. Which one of you guys would or does fall for it?


Still love you, Haggy

3/22/2015 10:03:38 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 

playingindirt
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Quote from jester0011:
the good decent people keep themselves in shape.and the others hang out at the waffle house.

is that right? lol

if you're with someone that you feel is beautiful and they get sick which caused them to put on 30lbs and you suddenly lose sight of what made them beautiful to you you never saw who they truly were or loved them for who they really were to start with.

3/22/2015 10:07:21 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
kamlila0
Wilmington, NC
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For me it is what you have in your heart. That is inner beauty to me. If you are very nice looking but act like a d*ck, who in the right mind would want you. So you see with some ladies you don't have to be the best looking man to win her over.

3/22/2015 10:16:55 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 

gothygoogoo
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what
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tip sy person...

3/22/2015 10:18:07 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 

playingindirt
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Quote from skywatcher58:
Men are visual creatures. Women are more intuned to a good mans qualities than his looks.


men are more intuned to them things then women tend to give them credit for.

3/22/2015 10:18:09 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
ibeenseenitall
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I'll settle for outer booty

3/22/2015 10:21:42 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 

rumrumrum
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Mesa, AZ
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I'm jumping up and down with my hand up.

It's really good caring honest nature opie!

3/22/2015 10:25:39 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
sea_
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I was out for dinner last night and 2 booths over was a couple, very nice looking man weight proportioned..handsome..yeah the word handsome is agood word for him...she wasn't even pretty, kinda of on the heavier side...then they got up to leave and she had the biggest butt I have ever seen on any person..ever....I do mean huge...then she was wearing a sweat shirt and those leotards that the gals are wearing nowadays....My heart went out for her because of the looks she was getting, but you know what..He put his arm around her and kissed her on the cheek...and walked out arm in arm...so yes there are men who do believe in inner beauty...

3/22/2015 10:26:33 AMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
love2kiss8
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I want both inner and outer beauty not like I can see the inner beauty, so I go with outer and try to find the inner.

3/22/2015 12:10:00 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
artokol
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Vaubecourt
France
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Quote from sea_:

"I was out for dinner last night and 2 booths over was a couple, very nice looking man weight proportioned..handsome..yeah the word handsome is agood word for him...she wasn't even pretty, kinda of on the heavier side...then they got up to leave and she had the biggest butt I have ever seen on any person..ever....I do mean huge...then she was wearing a sweat shirt and those leotards that the gals are wearing nowadays....My heart went out for her because of the looks she was getting, but you know what..He put his arm around her and kissed her on the cheek...and walked out arm in arm...so yes there are men who do believe in inner beauty..."


First date and she paid for dinner.

3/22/2015 12:17:13 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
gotheon123
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Quote from skywatcher58:
Men are visual creatures. Women are more intuned to a good mans qualities than his looks. Most very handsome men are too in love with theirselves to commit to another human being.






I have to disagree with you. I think in general, you're selling men short and stereotyping handsome men.

3/22/2015 12:22:53 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
barrydalmi
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Not a chance. I am way too realistic (aka shallow) to not get what I want visually in my partner.

3/22/2015 12:23:23 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 

skywatcher58
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Quote from gotheon123:


I have to disagree with you. I think in general, you're selling men short and stereotyping handsome men.
I go on in my post explaining why I feel that way. I dont think I was selling men short. And yes from what I read of self proclaimed hansome men I was stereotyping them in a class all their own. They like it and even say they want the female version of themselves.

3/22/2015 12:25:47 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
barrydalmi
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Quote from gotheon123:


I have to disagree with you. I think in general, you're selling men short and stereotyping handsome men.



Concur Goth. I consider myself "reasonably" handsome. I do love myself, I am confident in my worth and have great self esteem. I have always, previously, loved my partner more than I think (and they demonstrated) they loved me. That was a problem.

I truly believe I have that imbalance solved this time around.

3/22/2015 12:28:12 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 

skywatcher58
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Thats why I said "most", not all. Barry.

3/22/2015 12:28:33 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
gotheon123
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Quote from skywatcher58:
I go on in my post explaining why I feel that way. I dont think I was selling men short. And yes from what I read of self proclaimed hansome men I was stereotyping them in a class all their own. They like it and even say they want the female version of themselves.



I just think your example is more the exception than the rule. that guy is a nut.







@barry

Wishing much happiness for you.

3/22/2015 12:29:16 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
Offcell
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Yes when it comes to intelligence and creativity looks are not a factor however in a evolutionary sense being normally appealing physical wise is important.
But my point is he doesn't here to be a johnny depp or brad Pitt to appeal to me If he is as attractive as those two but is as dumb as a rock or an a**hole it wouldn't matter how hot he is.



[Edited 3/22/2015 12:29:59 PM ]

3/22/2015 12:30:25 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
barrydalmi
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Quote from skywatcher58:
Thats why I said "most", not all. Barry.



All good. I just saw an opportunity to "love myself"....


[see what I did there]

3/22/2015 12:37:57 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
darthcapital
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Inner beauty is real, outer beauty is subjective, you can be physically attracted to the person but if they have a shit inner soul they quickly becomes "ugly".

How many of us have dating a person that most people think " wow, you are lucky" and you believe that at first and down the road that " hot" person isnt hot to you anymore because they have a terrible soul.

Or we know people that when they first met they weren't attracted to them in the beginning but somehow they end up dating and falling in love and they are the most beautiful person in their eyes.

The story a poster told earlier about the handsome man and the average looking big butt woman in sweats with this handsome man and how others viewed them, in his eyes she is perfect and probably has a great inner beauty that he appreciates.

3/22/2015 12:57:27 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 

playingindirt
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part of what we see and love in someone is their inner beauty or we wouldnt find them attractive as a partner. of course we want to be able to want to wake up to someone that's appealing to our eyes but physically beauty alone isn't enough do that or to hold a couple together.
inner beauty is very important.

3/22/2015 1:01:45 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 

sinceresammy
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Outwardly all of you people look like monsters.

As for inner beauty, exactly who are you trying to kid? Birds of a feather flock together. Moral values, social class, education, and political affiliations are among some of the important things people consider when hooking up. Physical attractiveness is always in the eye of the beholder and isn't an attribute that can be easily measured, so it is far down the list in terms of objective qualities.

The OP is right when he says women use "Inner Beauty" as a shaming technique on men. Women who try to intellectualize what it means are shallow morons looking for an argument.

3/22/2015 1:04:35 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 

skywatcher58
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Quote from barrydalmi:
All good. I just saw an opportunity to "love myself"....


[see what I did there]
Yes I see that.

3/22/2015 1:14:17 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
kmack73
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Knoxville, TN
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Quote from sinceresammy:
Outwardly all of you people look like monsters.

As for inner beauty, exactly who are you trying to kid? Birds of a feather flock together. Moral values, social class, education, and political affiliations are among some of the important things people consider when hooking up. Physical attractiveness is always in the eye of the beholder and isn't an attribute that can be easily measured, so it is far down the list in terms of objective qualities.

The OP is right when he says women use "Inner Beauty" as a shaming technique on men. Women who try to intellectualize what it means are shallow morons looking for an argument.







3/22/2015 1:26:26 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 

skywatcher58
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SincereSammy such a username for someone who is never sincere! You love your cat and car but are so venemous to women. Why is that?

3/22/2015 1:27:03 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 

skywatcher58
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Quote from kmack73:
Nice Suit.

3/22/2015 1:50:39 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
jredd2528
Edmond, OK
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Yeah I would. Personality comes from within.

3/22/2015 1:52:18 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 

playingindirt
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Quote from sinceresammy:
Outwardly all of you people look like monsters.

As for inner beauty, exactly who are you trying to kid? Birds of a feather flock together. Moral values, social class, education, and political affiliations are among some of the important things people consider when hooking up. Physical attractiveness is always in the eye of the beholder and isn't an attribute that can be easily measured, so it is far down the list in terms of objective qualities.

The OP is right when he says women use "Inner Beauty" as a shaming technique on men. Women who try to intellectualize what it means are shallow morons looking for an argument.

nicely put.

but i am curious about something.
how can someone make you feel ashamed for something if it's not deserving. don't we know if we're deserving of that or not? If we aren't isn't that a mute point?

3/22/2015 1:56:01 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 

mylegsarecold
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Those who self proclaim that they are beautiful, inside or out, are a bit vain and egotistical.

3/22/2015 4:10:44 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
BeeBuzz
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AchauAchau
Austria
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I just coulnt do this. Can you imagine the folds and cottage cheese on this dressed up beast?





[Edited 3/22/2015 4:11:03 PM ]

3/22/2015 4:17:01 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
2times2many
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Quote from sinceresammy:
Outwardly all of you people look like monsters.

As for inner beauty, exactly who are you trying to kid? Birds of a feather flock together. Moral values, social class, education, and political affiliations are among some of the important things people consider when hooking up. Physical attractiveness is always in the eye of the beholder and isn't an attribute that can be easily measured, so it is far down the list in terms of objective qualities.

The OP is right when he says women use "Inner Beauty" as a shaming technique on men. Women who try to intellectualize what it means are shallow mor looking for an argument.
good grief!



[Edited 3/22/2015 4:17:35 PM ]

3/22/2015 4:18:49 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
ctguitarguy
Manchester, CT
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Quote from 2times2many:
good grief!


http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/

"Women rate an incredible 80% of guys as worse-looking than medium. Very harsh."

"Females of OkCupid, we site founders say to you: ouch! Paradoxically, it seems it’s women, not men, who have unrealistic standards for the “average” member of the opposite sex."

3/22/2015 4:18:58 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
rescueranger245
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Windsor, VA
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Anyone can fall in love with the inner beauty of another...IF they can first get past the shallowness that everyone shares. No one can say they aren't a bit shallow, some prefer to call it a "Preference".

3/22/2015 4:22:08 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
teeheehee_
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Montreal, QC
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Quote from sinceresammy:
Outwardly all of you people look like monsters....


Sincere Sammy, you always make me laugh!!

3/22/2015 4:32:45 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
ltlwing
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Williamsburg, OH
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I think there would have to be "something" on the outside initially for me to be attracted physically?...but for the most part a good heart is needed most for me.That can be just as attractive as the pyhsical...sometimes more!

3/22/2015 4:37:57 PMWho here would marry for "Inner Beauty"? 
ltlwing
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Sometimes sammy,I think you put on this grand act here in the forums? I really don't think in real life you are as rotten as you pretend to be...just an observation here!