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2/18/2016 7:26:25 AMNot Read Messages 
95thanniv
Ovando, MT
63, joined Mar. 2013


I don't understand this site. I have sent dozens of messages to ladies in the Montana area and they all continue ti show as Unread. What is the deal here? No only no replies but they will remain in my Sent Messages box showing as Not read forever it seems. My messages are polite and concise. Can anyone tell me whats happening please? Thanks, Ron

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2/18/2016 7:36:55 AMNot Read Messages 

wineandroses2
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (16,485)
Middleport, OH
60, joined Oct. 2013


I send messages to people and sometimes they aren't read for a couple days. Hopefully your messages will be answered. May take until they are online again.Best wishes

2/18/2016 4:48:33 PMNot Read Messages 
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (280,058)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


What are saying in your messages, please?

2/19/2016 8:39:43 AMNot Read Messages 
95thanniv
Ovando, MT
63, joined Mar. 2013


All nice polite comments and introduction. Never anything rude or objectionable. Just being a gent.

2/19/2016 9:07:24 AMNot Read Messages 
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (280,058)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


Quote from 95thanniv:
All nice polite comments and introduction. Never anything rude or objectionable. Just being a gent.



Please provide a sample for comparison.

2/20/2016 6:43:30 PMNot Read Messages 

robin0109
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (26,218)
Cincinnati, OH
36, joined Feb. 2013


Quote from 95thanniv:
I don't understand this site. I have sent dozens of messages to ladies in the Montana area and they all continue ti show as Unread. What is the deal here? No only no replies but they will remain in my Sent Messages box showing as Not read forever it seems. My messages are polite and concise. Can anyone tell me whats happening please? Thanks, Ron


Im sure they will get to your messages... or they could not be interested.

2/21/2016 10:31:37 AMNot Read Messages 
95thanniv
Ovando, MT
63, joined Mar. 2013


Possibly but wouldn't they delete them if not?

2/21/2016 10:56:26 AMNot Read Messages 
mrroscoereturns
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (36,180)
Ochopee, FL
59, joined Oct. 2015


Many women get pages of messages OP, and a lot of them simply will not get read.

It is what it is..

2/21/2016 11:05:19 AMNot Read Messages 
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (280,058)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


Quote from 95thanniv:
Possibly but wouldn't they delete them if not?



Scammers

2/21/2016 11:37:47 AMNot Read Messages 
pumpi321
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,501)
Crystal Lake, IL
38, joined Dec. 2015


chigger n8^

2/21/2016 12:41:34 PMNot Read Messages 

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,832)
Picher, OK
47, joined Sep. 2011


Heres a hint...the ladies are not reading your messages because they are NOT interested. Plain and simple.



[Edited 2/21/2016 12:43:53 PM ]

2/21/2016 12:46:04 PMNot Read Messages 

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,832)
Picher, OK
47, joined Sep. 2011


Wow OP your profile is waaayyy too long. I would not read paet the second paragraph. Short and sweet is key.

2/21/2016 3:20:34 PMNot Read Messages 
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (280,058)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


Quote from pickygirl72:
Wow OP your profile is waaayyy too long. I would not read paet the second paragraph. Short and sweet is key.


How do you know it is waaaaaaay too long of you didn't read it? Der! This isn't the profile review forum.

2/21/2016 3:21:38 PMNot Read Messages 

robin0109
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (26,218)
Cincinnati, OH
36, joined Feb. 2013


They are eaither probly busy and will get to your messages - give them some time.

2/21/2016 3:25:12 PMNot Read Messages 
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (280,058)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


probably scanners that have deleted non-willingly.

2/21/2016 3:26:39 PMNot Read Messages 

robin0109
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (26,218)
Cincinnati, OH
36, joined Feb. 2013


Quote from robin0109:
They are eaither probly busy and will get to your messages - give them some time.


Or they are not interested.

2/21/2016 3:28:23 PMNot Read Messages 
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (280,058)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


Or... You really didn't send any messages.

2/21/2016 3:29:12 PMNot Read Messages 

robin0109
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Cincinnati, OH
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2/21/2016 3:29:34 PMNot Read Messages 
cupocheer
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Assumption, IL
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2/22/2016 8:05:03 AMNot Read Messages 
95thanniv
Ovando, MT
63, joined Mar. 2013


Thanks Cup for coming to my rescue there with Picky. If she wouldn't read past the 2nd paragraph she couldn't be interested because she "Wants" it "Short & Sweet"! ZERO PATIENCE and wants instant everything in life I suppose.

My profile very accurately describes myself. I'm a very honest and open and giving person. I like to know as much about someone before I would waste any time with "Short & Sweet" trying to impress.

I thank you all for your input. I've learned something here in that people can ck your profile and never respond for whatever reason. I do not reply to the messages I receive from
"Occasional Smokers". Like smokers really smoke occasionally! "Oh it's Fathers Day, I think I will fire up a smoke" LMAO

2/29/2016 10:05:05 AMNot Read Messages 

albyak
Over 2,000 Posts (3,260)
Ninilchik, AK
68, joined Apr. 2011


Only four ladies from Montana in Montana Chat, or I would say look there You may want to try another site POF has many more ladies interested in the outdoor activities your profile indicates you are looking for...Good Luck!