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1/2/2018 7:01:16 PMQuestion about sex 

dolphinsneu
Needham Heights, MA
30, joined Mar. 2013


I met a girl on another site in the summer. We had sex in a hotel. I used condoms, which I usually don't. She seemed to enjoy it. The next day, she told me she was sore.

She told me that it hurt her because I had trouble maintaining my erection and would get soft inside her. She said her vagina hurt for a about a week and that she felt like she was getting a UTI.

Have any of you had this happen to you? I have had erection trouble for a long time, so this might explain why so many girls I sleep with stop talking to me afterwards.

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1/2/2018 7:05:05 PMQuestion about sex 
My_Tenth
New South Wales
Australia
98, joined Nov. 2017


Vegemite on toast

1/2/2018 7:21:21 PMQuestion about sex 

dolphinsneu
Needham Heights, MA
30, joined Mar. 2013


Quote from My_Tenth:
Vegemite on toast


What does that mean?

1/2/2018 7:23:28 PMQuestion about sex 
gtfoveryourself
Washington, DC
53, joined Nov. 2017
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My advice is to try to find a Dr. Ruth website. This is not the place to try to find any help as you have found from the horseface from Australia.

1/2/2018 7:35:34 PMQuestion about sex 
cherisays
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,661)
Holiday, FL
27, joined Dec. 2014


Don't need to explain...But,I will.Obvisously ya didn't get her well lubricated with foreplay,teasing,massage...and her vagigi was rubbed raw with latex.Are you both gonna do this again?Cause,Id sit on your face or get comfortable.....

Just,many options for sure..

1/2/2018 7:37:18 PMQuestion about sex 
gtfoveryourself
Washington, DC
53, joined Nov. 2017
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Cheri

Better advice than me..

1/2/2018 7:40:57 PMQuestion about sex 
cherisays
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,661)
Holiday, FL
27, joined Dec. 2014


Oh,Im sure if I keep talking,my a** gonna be blocked.Foreplay.....Happy New year...Did anyone figure out who you are yet?

1/2/2018 7:42:06 PMQuestion about sex 

stratus55
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,401)
Jackson, GA
52, joined Jan. 2017


forget condoms........like takin a bath with your clothes on....

1/2/2018 7:44:55 PMQuestion about sex 
gtfoveryourself
Washington, DC
53, joined Nov. 2017
online now!


Yes Cheri, and it got ugly..Kersey still loves me though!

1/2/2018 7:44:57 PMQuestion about sex 

dolphinsneu
Needham Heights, MA
30, joined Mar. 2013


Quote from cherisays:
Don't need to explain...But,I will.Obvisously ya didn't get her well lubricated with foreplay,teasing,massage...and her vagigi was rubbed raw with latex.Are you both gonna do this again?Cause,Id sit on your face or get comfortable.....

Just,many options for sure..


If she was lubricated, do you think it might not have hurt if I got soft inside her. She did say she cummed though. She told me she enjoyed having me inside her, but it got to be too much for her

1/2/2018 7:48:02 PMQuestion about sex 
gtfoveryourself
Washington, DC
53, joined Nov. 2017
online now!


Are you really 30? Don't mind me, Cheri knows everything.

1/2/2018 7:50:54 PMQuestion about sex 
cherisays
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,661)
Holiday, FL
27, joined Dec. 2014


HurryMe!!!

That's your answer bro.Ya can't slow down to enjoy true sex.Becomes a goal in your head,to satisfy the woman.What happens is,your man brain cant multitask...and your penis,waits for you to control it..

1/2/2018 7:52:15 PMQuestion about sex 
My_Tenth
New South Wales
Australia
98, joined Nov. 2017


Quote from dolphinsneu:
What does that mean?


Your welcome.

1/2/2018 7:57:20 PMQuestion about sex 
cherisays
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,661)
Holiday, FL
27, joined Dec. 2014


..Oh lord,wasnt your 9 c*ck enough?Tell him,the twelve days of Christmas too..
Op,toast was what she was saying.Rubbing your penis on a dry toast f**k.Jeez uhm.

1/2/2018 8:11:17 PMQuestion about sex 
swingzonthemoon
Sugar Land, TX
49, joined Sep. 2017


"erection trouble for a long time"

You need psychiatric help. The problem is in your head.

You subconsciously don't like women, you don't want to please a woman, etc.

Get help. It's your problem to fix, not any woman's.




Quote from dolphinsneu:
I met a girl on another site in the summer. We had sex in a hotel. I used condoms, which I usually don't. She seemed to enjoy it. The next day, she told me she was sore.

She told me that it hurt her because I had trouble maintaining my erection and would get soft inside her. She said her vagina hurt for a about a week and that she felt like she was getting a UTI.

Have any of you had this happen to you? I have had erection trouble for a long time, so this might explain why so many girls I sleep with stop talking to me afterwards.


1/2/2018 8:30:22 PMQuestion about sex 
cherisays
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,661)
Holiday, FL
27, joined Dec. 2014


Quote from swingzonthemoon:
"erection trouble for a long time"

You need psychiatric help. The problem is in your head.

You subconsciously don't like women, you don't want to please a woman, etc.

Get help. It's your problem to fix, not any woman's.




Quote from dolphinsneu:
I met a girl on another site in the summer. We had sex in a hotel. I used condoms, which I usually don't. She seemed to enjoy it. The next day, she told me she was sore.

She told me that it hurt her because I had trouble maintaining my erection and would get soft inside her. She said her vagina hurt for a about a week and that she felt like she was getting a UTI.

Have any of you had this happen to you? I have had erection trouble for a long time, so this might explain why so many girls I sleep with stop talking to me afterwards.
Wow... she went backwards.

1/2/2018 8:34:55 PMQuestion about sex 
swingzonthemoon
Sugar Land, TX
49, joined Sep. 2017


she prolly got more than a UTI, dimwit.

1/2/2018 8:55:01 PMQuestion about sex 

dolphinsneu
Needham Heights, MA
30, joined Mar. 2013


Quote from swingzonthemoon:
she prolly got more than a UTI, dimwit.


She did not wind up getting a UTI actually.

This is meant to be serious thread that I am looking for help with. I want me and my partners to have a satisfying sexual experience. If I feel myself going soft inside a women, should I ask her if she is okay?

1/2/2018 8:56:07 PMQuestion about sex 

dolphinsneu
Needham Heights, MA
30, joined Mar. 2013


Quote from swingzonthemoon:
"erection trouble for a long time"

You need psychiatric help. The problem is in your head.

You subconsciously don't like women, you don't want to please a woman, etc.

Get help. It's your problem to fix, not any woman's.




Quote from dolphinsneu:
I met a girl on another site in the summer. We had sex in a hotel. I used condoms, which I usually don't. She seemed to enjoy it. The next day, she told me she was sore.

She told me that it hurt her because I had trouble maintaining my erection and would get soft inside her. She said her vagina hurt for a about a week and that she felt like she was getting a UTI.

Have any of you had this happen to you? I have had erection trouble for a long time, so this might explain why so many girls I sleep with stop talking to me afterwards.


It's nerves. It is in my head. Sometimes, I have to use my hand to insert myself inside a woman.

1/2/2018 8:57:14 PMQuestion about sex 
swingzonthemoon
Sugar Land, TX
49, joined Sep. 2017


No kidding.


You need professional head work before you have sex again.


Also need to be checked for free levels of testosterone. You may need hormone replacement therapy.



[Edited 1/2/2018 8:59:47 PM ]

1/2/2018 8:59:40 PMQuestion about sex 
cherisays
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,661)
Holiday, FL
27, joined Dec. 2014


Quote from dolphinsneu:
She did not wind up getting a UTI actually.

This is meant to be serious thread that I am looking for help with. I want me and my partners to have a satisfying sexual experience. If I feel myself going soft inside a women, should I ask her if she is okay?

This is why I'ma speaking...I never have had my man go soft,inside of me.He gets soft when drunk..

1/2/2018 9:02:15 PMQuestion about sex 
swingzonthemoon
Sugar Land, TX
49, joined Sep. 2017


Do you take any antidepressants or any psych meds?

Those can affect your libido, too.

In other words, no one here can help you. It's not the fault of the women. You need to see at least one doctor, a psychiatrist.

1/2/2018 9:02:59 PMQuestion about sex 

stratus55
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,401)
Jackson, GA
52, joined Jan. 2017


you think these on here will help you seriously,doubtful an good luck,they most likely will rip you to shreds,an condemn non stop..........

1/2/2018 10:22:02 PMQuestion about sex 

driver406
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (59,311)
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009


He may be going impotent which is a physical problem, not psychological. My problem began at 35. He should get himself checked out if it is a recurring problem.

1/2/2018 10:24:55 PMQuestion about sex 

driver406
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (59,311)
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009


Quote from swingzonthemoon:
No kidding.


You need professional head work before you have sex again.


Also need to be checked for free levels of testosterone. You may need hormone replacement therapy.


That is SEXIST and not necessarily so. The babe may be as warm as the icile that kissed the Titantic. He may be lacking in technique. He may be going impotent. Mine started at 35. He may have an undiagnosed medical condition that is causing it. It isn't fair to always blame the man. That is just SEXIST which is OFFENSIVE nd we do want to be politically correct don't we? Every good radical feminist does!

1/2/2018 11:41:59 PMQuestion about sex 

bumblebee7
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Fort Payne, AL
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Dude, I'm not sure if people think this is a joke thread or what....and that's why the responses.

Here's the deal,...you going from hard to soft, semi-hard, and etc....is not going to cause soreness or any problems in a girls vagina. That's all there is to it...at the most it might cause her disappointment.

So, if she claims this...its horse crap...she has a problem from something else, that already existed.

as far as you having an erection issue at your age? It could be a physical thing, where you need to see a urologist and tell him this is the problem and see if they can find the problem and fix it.

Or, it could be psychological ...some dudes when they get a with a girl they like and see a future in...the first time they don't get fully hard when they have sex. Not all dudes are gung ho just to get sex and you might have to have certain conditions for it to be...who knows.

Or there could be some underlining thing drilled into your head from childhood causing a guilt factor or whatever.

At your age erection problems are almost unheard of...so its either physical or mental and you need to take the steps to find out.

Here is not the place to find out...start with a urologist...and go from there.

1/3/2018 12:08:32 AMQuestion about sex 

bumblebee7
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Fort Payne, AL
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Quote from swingzonthemoon:
No kidding.


You need professional head work before you have sex again.


Also need to be checked for free levels of testosterone. You may need hormone replacement therapy.



Testosterone levels that low at his age is almost unheard of, so replacement therapy is not the answer, the answer is why are they that low at his age? find that and fix it, and the levels will go up naturally on their own.

If he were 55 plus..it would be another story...besides low testy levels would effect his drive, not how hard he gets.

as far as mental issues, its possible he has a hang up about random sex or whatever...but he has had the erection problem for a while now and not done anything to try and solve it the right way...so of course that is going to cause mental issues, because he doesn't for obvious reasons want to tell a potential sex partner that this might be a thing, hoping each time that it won't happen again and the subconscious effect of this...will only compound the problem...if this is the case, its not a big mental problem...but merely normal for anyone in that situation.

The same thing as if...you had a dryness issue at that age, and got real dry and didn't open up like normal and this effected the sex....and instead of going to a gyno...you just hoped it would go away and it had a subconscious effect on you..compounding the problem.

See the point?


In fact if a woman wrote a thread based on my example above about with a dryness issue and etc...rare for her age...etc, etc.

I bet she would have gotten sympathetic answers as compared to what he got....when the answers shouldn't have mattered based on gender.

I could say more along that line...but I'll leave it at that.



[Edited 1/3/2018 12:10:44 AM ]

1/3/2018 10:52:54 AMQuestion about sex 

001snatch
Over 2,000 Posts (3,231)
Marysville, WA
57, joined Aug. 2013


Lubrication should work.

1/3/2018 1:49:56 PMQuestion about sex 
little_spoon
Over 1,000 Posts (1,587)
Toronto, ON
36, joined Aug. 2017


Why so many probs with it saying hard??

1/3/2018 1:50:35 PMQuestion about sex 
uncle_bulgaria
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,290)
Houston, TX
50, joined Apr. 2017


Maybe she's a munter

1/3/2018 1:51:45 PMQuestion about sex 
little_spoon
Over 1,000 Posts (1,587)
Toronto, ON
36, joined Aug. 2017


You mean minger?

1/3/2018 1:52:24 PMQuestion about sex 
uncle_bulgaria
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,290)
Houston, TX
50, joined Apr. 2017


No I mean what I said, munter...google it if you don't know what one is

1/3/2018 1:55:25 PMQuestion about sex 
little_spoon
Over 1,000 Posts (1,587)
Toronto, ON
36, joined Aug. 2017


I will. But will I regret it hmmmm?

1/3/2018 1:56:22 PMQuestion about sex 
uncle_bulgaria
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,290)
Houston, TX
50, joined Apr. 2017


munter

A woman of such hidious physical apperance that one would rather scour ones eyes out than snatch a glimps of her. So deformed and devoid of any attractive atributes that to beat her to death with her own shoes would be an act of mercy and deemable of a sainthood.
You are what you eat, and munters have eaten all the ugly people they could find!

1/3/2018 4:47:57 PMQuestion about sex 

flatheadone
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,094)
Greenwood, FL
54, joined Jul. 2012


Op you should buy a stun gun and next time that f**ker goes soft hit it with that stun gun it will get hard as a rock. And stay that way she will love you for ever and ever

1/3/2018 4:55:41 PMQuestion about sex 
queennawty
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (46,371)
Middlesex
United Kingdom
46, joined Oct. 2015


Quote from uncle_bulgaria:
munter

A woman of such hidious physical apperance that one would rather scour ones eyes out than snatch a glimps of her. So deformed and devoid of any attractive atributes that to beat her to death with her own shoes would be an act of mercy and deemable of a sainthood.
You are what you eat, and munters have eaten all the ugly people they could find!


They taste pretty good with ketchup

1/3/2018 4:58:01 PMQuestion about sex 

flatheadone
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Greenwood, FL
54, joined Jul. 2012


Quote from queennawty:
They taste pretty good with ketchup


Dam all this time I have been using BBQ sauce

1/3/2018 5:00:07 PMQuestion about sex 
queennawty
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (46,371)
Middlesex
United Kingdom
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I like to mix the mustard and ketchup with a bit of serendipity

1/3/2018 7:34:41 PMQuestion about sex 
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (286,525)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


My button is bigger than your button.



1/3/2018 7:55:27 PMQuestion about sex 
4uijack
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New Port Richey, FL
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So isn't your a**hole!!!!

1/3/2018 11:57:16 PMQuestion about sex 
cupocheer
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Assumption, IL
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1/4/2018 11:24:25 AMQuestion about sex 

sadlsticsienna
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,243)
New South Wales
Australia
25, joined Jan. 2016


Quote from dolphinsneu:
I met a girl on another site in the summer. We had sex in a hotel. I used condoms, which I usually don't. She seemed to enjoy it. The next day, she told me she was sore.

She told me that it hurt her because I had trouble maintaining my erection and would get soft inside her. She said her vagina hurt for a about a week and that she felt like she was getting a UTI.

Have any of you had this happen to you? I have had erection trouble for a long time, so this might explain why so many girls I sleep with stop talking to me afterwards.

No, she got a uti from bad hygiene.

Not from your condom covered dik lol

Possibly the condom covered dik spread bacteria to her urinary tract but she already would have to of had bad hygiene.

They only would stop talking because of the erection issue or other reasons, not uti.

1/5/2018 8:52:28 PMQuestion about sex 
cupocheer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (286,525)
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010


I know nothing about sex.

Next question, please.

1/6/2018 10:20:09 PMQuestion about sex 

hogaseman
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Benátky nad Jizerou
Czech Republic
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Pull out. .get a blow job

1/7/2018 2:54:17 AMQuestion about sex 
My_Tenth
New South Wales
Australia
98, joined Nov. 2017


Quote from dolphinsneu:
What does that mean?





1/9/2018 12:24:53 AMQuestion about sex 
sunandfun22
Holiday, FL
53, joined Apr. 2011


there is a term for that jizzatosis

1/9/2018 7:31:29 AMQuestion about sex 
inkedandsassyy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,411)
Victoria
Australia
51, joined May. 2017


vegimite is full of vitamin B.and iron .. prob good for keeping your cok hard ...tastes disgusting though

1/13/2018 2:38:04 PMQuestion about sex 

traceman69
Minneapolis, MN
49, joined May. 2011
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So what you are saying is that you don't eat vegemite. In addition you just spread on your cok to stay ? New concept for 2018 I guess sassy. In Australia you are always thinking ahead of people in the US.